Chevalier

Are feeders evil? They CAN be, but most are not.
I'm realizing that I've become that.
Perhaps I should now leave.

The non-sequiturs between biking and blonde hair are quaint I admit, because it can't refer to any third parties, like when people reproduce and have children they are too obese to be active with, or pass down the bad dietary habits as child abuse.
But yeah feel free to bleed nutella if you want to assume the risk and know that the weight (and debts/sick care if you're spending $100's bingeing) will stay long after the person leaves. 

Sure you are, you changed your current text from this:
Notice how you changed the text that you had based on encouraging a hedonistic lifestyle, which binge eating is an eating disorder.
Topic was about overuse, which was selectively rewritten to be about the last thing @dania201 said, which is a blatant lie to tell me to reread.
You correlate size acceptance with a fetish that has serious downsides when overused.  They're mutually exclusive.  It's like blaming a poor person the same way as a wasteful one. I'm finished with this forum, since this is the best someone can do.

That'd be part of assuming the risk I was talking about. You can have conditions similar to smoking for damage control, and not be obnoxious or a drain about it, and it's fine. Just a simple where will it end question, is a nightmare to some people, who need to feel this way at all costs.
You are cherry picking things, unfortunately. No one said to discriminate against fat people, and it's very obsolete to believe some value in being thin, especially in quarantine. Topic creator who left due to gridlock (maybe I should do the same too) just asked if it's evil to create unhealthy situations by obsessing over a fetish.
The fetish of feederism should be done responsibly. Otherwise you get what I said in my earlier posts. And if you wanna make yourself a target while enabling a potential slob/hoarder (too fat to move means no spring cleaning), be my guest. You can also pressure someone into a type of binge eating with ultimatums, as I'm seeing in this case, it's similar to a drug addiction, but with comfort food.
When people get defensive and can't acknowledge basic priorities, it's almost cultish groupthink.
Meanwhile I could playfully stuff a woman who isn't gonna ghost/take me for granted, to celebrate memorial day weekend. I just wouldn't do it every day nor have every conversation relate to being overstuffed, because it would be an obsession. I'll take someone nice who may lose weight every once in a while and play games in helping me find than passively aggressively compliment for more.

Whatsapp has a million of these lol but yeah it's fun to search, quite normal to stumble upon too:





This is a favorite lol some think being Mike and Molly is below their tastes.

Speaking of Mike and Molly:


Also feel this vid is kinda a roleplay too lol lie about the food budget or 1 slice of cake (or maybe the size of the slice lol).
Large slice

This topic has always interested me ever since a friend's mom went from thin to massive thighs with cellulite and a huge ass over the course of a winter once she hit 40. She must have put on 50-60 pounds in about 4-5 months. It was strange because before the weight gain she was a typical suburban mom with no ass that became a PAWG almost overnight. She was bursting out of her jean shorts that summer and seemed to really enjoy flaunting her new figure.  
Another friend's mom around this time gained quickly too but it all went to her boobs, which became massive. 
Women at this age seem to be able to gain a massive amount of weight in a really short time. I assume it is because of a slowing metabolism.
Does anyone else also find this topic interesting and have any personal experiences seeing MILFs gain weight? 

Has anyone ever noticed that when you get a group of young women together once one shows off her belly and complains about weight gain they all do?
For me at least this tended to happen at house parties in highschool and college. Usually some girl who just started gaining weight complains about her beer belly or freshman fifteen, food baby, ect. Then another does the whole "you're not fat, I'm fat" thing and before you know it a gaggle of women lifting their shirts up to compare.
You can see this in plenty of pictures floating around the web, I've seen it many of times but mainly with college age chicks at house parties with lots of beer involved. I've had a few coworkers pull that stunt too usually younger gals just starting to fill out, blaming that new gut on bloating. I just think its hot the way girls will compete for attention even if its the "negative" type about them getting fat.
College parties are far behind my millenial ass so I see less of this in the wild. Do girls still do this? Was it a generational thing like low rise skinny jeans? 

I dated a girl in high school and college that gained for me. I suppose one could say I was living the feeder's dream. She was 210 when we met, near 400 when we broke things off 6 years later. She just ate and ate, especially after we moved in together. She used to tease me to get me going with her gigantic ass and belly. During sex she'd grab her stomach jiggle it, and say "look at how fat I've gotten just for you baby" etc. It was hot, and sometimes I miss that. Other than that, I don't miss anything about that relationship. She got that big partly because she was extremely lazy. I ended up doing all the household chores, working, and going to school. She did none of those things. Tv and playing on her computer filled her days while pizza, pasta, cookies, and fast food filled her belly. When I finally woke up and decided my journey to adulthood didn't include someone like that, I decided it was over.
I am now married to a really wonderful woman who works hard,  shares my ambition, and overall get-it-done mentality. We were neighbors and we started hanging out together in the evenings and on weekends not too long after my ex and I split up. I thought she was cute with her D cups and a bouncy little booty squeezed into size 10's. She's 5'2", and she wasn't super skinny when we met. She's definitely not now. She's probably 180-200lbs. Her weight fluctuates, and we don't even own a scale. She knows about my fetish and she has told me she is going to eat what she wants, regardless of whether it makes her fat or not. She generally doesn't over eat, and she is fairly active. Of course I try to encourage snacking and treats, but her weight isn't a core part of our relationship. She's chunky, fun in bed, smart, loving, hardworking, and a good mother to our kids. I would never trade her for a fatter woman just to be able to re-live the 'feedist dream' as you call it.
While this fetish is always going to be part of me(I always get excited when I see my wife jump out of the shower and I think I see her tummy bulging out a little further or her ass jiggling a little bit more) I love my wife for her personality, not her shape. At the same time I don't feel like I've settled either. I don't feel like I traded my ideal ssbbw girlfriend for a less attractive woman that is a better life partner. Admittedly, the first time I had sex with my future wife I was really skeptical about being with someone less than half the size of my ex. I've grown to admire her shape and size more and more over time as my love for her as a person has grown. I honestly think my wife is smoking hot, like every time I see her naked I think holy shit how did I land this total babe. My idea of the perfect size and shape for a woman has transformed into exactly what she looks like at any given time.
To make a long story short, you have to find someone that works with you for living life. It sounds like you already have, and it certainly seems like she is fairly plump as she is. If you truly care for this woman and she cares for you, you guys will most likely be happy together even if she won't indulge your ssbbw fantasies. I suspect you will find that your attraction to her will grow with your relationship as well.

People still talk like this? Different weights and body types to notice things that escalate with unique thoughts and personalities. I'd see it as a firecracker that wears off as a novelty if I don't see anything backing it up honestly.
In a way it's kinda similar to being a sugar daddy (there's no such thing as a free lunch need not apply here) and needing a variety of fulfillment over a one trick pony that's a novelty at best.
Maybe a positive checklist helps, like who I can do certain things with, who is more likely to show initiative/desire, and who rewards me for putting up with her, lol big meal I'm sorry food b.a.b.ies are kinda cute. Does help safeguard from the constant excuses or fighting over a few pounds.

But you don't have to take my word for it. I just experience a really potent clientele these days and just wait for a special someone to get hungry enough to pull the trigger to encourage me, and then I'll go after her lol, trusting things won't fizzle out by communication, and respecting by not doing the same things with everyone.

Is there a means to tell when a video or photoset is gifted? I didn't see notifications but it helps as a good reminder.

I unfortunately had some models attack me on another platform when I started to get back into it again. Thankfully I came running back to curvage where I have always felt welcome.  I have gained quite a bit of weight since i met my husband.  The first year was completely unintentional and all on him.  I caught him putting a stick of butter in my leftovers one Time 😮 which sounds abusive to say it out loud but I look back and think it's kinda funny and cute.  Anyway, off topic. I'm like a damn goldfish.haha. so where  was going is that I love most everything about weight gain and the whole realm of the fetish but sometimes I get scared.  My health, my future, ect.  So I'll take a couple weeks and eat really well and whatever and then i get really into it again. It's a cycle but in the end, I've ended up gaining well over 40 pounds now in 2 years intentionally.  Which may not be "as much" as some and may be "more" than others.  But as @Chevalier said if you can make a connection (either by talking or even just being super attracted to) a certain model then thats awesome and you should support them.  I'm assuming a lot of guys come on here and just get their rocks off and dont really care if someone is "real" or not.  But some do care and thats where you can see who's been on here a while and whatnot.  I dont even know if I made sense here 🤣  like I said, I'm a goldfish at times. Haha.   I guess what I meant by all this is that I seem like im not real because I dissapeared and came back under a new name and what not but I'm most certainly real and living a real life feedee/ feeder lifestyle with my husband so theres no way of knowing anyones real story unless you ask and they tell the truth. ❤

Seriously, make sure you start rubbing her belly before she goes to sleep. Introducing that to chubby girls really helps them enjoy their bigger softer bellies more in my experience 

Who was that girl btw? I always see her pop up every once in awhile.

Came across this on Instagram recently and it looks like this girl got a lot of attention after posting a short video of herself sucking in her gut in a dress, and then finally letting her belly hang in all its glory
 

Last summer I worked with a gal who was definitely a big girl. My best guess that she was at least 250 pounds, mostly belly. She would alway joke about her weight, talk about her fat, rub her belly, ect. Classic "fat girl who wants attention"
We were smoking outside in this woodshed where I used to stash a stick lighter. Jess asked me for a light and I told her it wasup in the rafters.  
With that she reached over her head and her tight shirt rode up over her bellybutton. She just blushed and tugged her shirt down, apologizing. To which I replied, "Don't be sorry Jess. You have a cute bellybutton!"
After that little exchange Jess really opened up about her weight. She seemed to flaunt her weight more and I responded in kind by ramping up the teasing. Poking her belly and calling her piggy, big girl, ect.
We met up outside of work for drinks and Jess as usual had her bellybutton peeking out of too tight clothes. I gave her blubber a poke, "Your tummy is really tan, Jess. You must show it off alot!"
"I can't help it! My belly is hanging out of everything nowadays!" She said as she grabbed handfuls of belly and jiggled it about.
We were shooting pool and I joked about how I could keep the quarters for the next game in her bellybutton. She seemed to think about it a little and laughed, "I probably could! My bellybutton is pretty deep!"
Unfortunately this girl was taken so after work drinks was about as far as it could go. That didn't stop me from appreciating her fat belly though. By the end of that summer I had definitely had opportunities to flirt and play with her fat. My favorite was the time I told her I would only give her a cigarette if she could give me 10 jumping jacks.
That was an amazing summer. By the time she took off Jess was almost infamous among regulars and coworkers alike as the big girl who let it all hang out. 

Obviously you've never dealt with LMBB, who has been "gaining" the same 10 lbs for years with many deluded devoted followers. I don't care, spend your money on her, but the guys sending her money thinking she's gaining are the same ones on the celebrities board who are talking about how they saw a hint of puffiness on some hollywood skeleton and she's gonna blow up any day now. Gotta laugh. To each his own.

We work out perfectly because I LOVE eating cake and ice cream 😂😁😋
 
Welcome to curvage 💜💜

Crushed pelvis from sex with a larger woman, though they're more muscular in Futurama. 
Even crushinator has a fan base, wish I could find the vid Bender says a woman that fine, I gotta romance first.
 

Yep, that’s a similar problem my girl has with a lot of her shorts/pants. To much belly fat and not enough elsewhere. Her friends wonder why she wears these super tight pants that emphasize her gut so much... they’re the only thing that fit her lower half.  If she tries on something that’s a little more forgiving to her belly, they don’t fit her hips/ass correctly. So when it comes to pants, they have to be low riders that she can jam closed under her gut, or they just don’t fit right at all. I guess early 2000s style lives on whether she likes it or not!

Futurama is brilliant, full of social commentary, science and jokes. And some very poignant moments that may move you to tears.  

I have really learned a lot today 😮