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  1. I don't think this is the logical hammerblow you seem to think it is. Most women who post on social media absolutely do not expect their photos to be reposted on a fetish forum full of guys sexualizing something they're insecure about even if they're aware that it's a possibility. Not to mention all the celebrity paprazzi photo's here, politicians and public figures etc. I think so long as the candids are taken in public spaces and don't involve minors, anyone in vulnerable or compromising positions, nothing that can reveal their identity or taking place in inappropriate settings, they aren't morally worse than reposting social media photos. It's probably easier to dox someone based on their social media photos anyway or it used to be with reverse image searches. Whether posting social media photos and paparazzi candids and stuff is justifiable is a worthy discussion, but I don't like seeing the hypocrisy where people condemn candid photography but beat their meat over other media which doesn't involve knowledge or consent. But if you stripped all of that questionable content away, this site would basically just be onlyfans for fat fetishists.
  2. Yeah that's the one I was thinking of. I don't know how he managed to get such clear shots, he was like a wizard. The last time I tried to take a few snaps of a lady I somehow got the wrong angle and ended up just getting photos of her husband lol He said he was thinking about moving to another forum but then he disappeared. I can understand the arguments against candids, but a lot of it seemed harmless and hypocritical
  3. It should be but I never seem to find them on dating apps (because everyone hides what they look like) I never met any through friends, never had classes with any, never worked with any. Basically I never organically met any with a body type that I found sexy. I'll see them walking around the mall and stuff, but usually they're a middle aged woman / mother. I live in quite a fat phobic city in Australia though, there were more when I was in the US.
  4. Man I miss a few particular candid threads. Chubby / bbw going about their day captured a sort of natural beauty that posed social media photos and fetish content doesn’t. And one of the few areas where you weren’t being treated like a piggy bank pressed to buy content
  5. Yeah finding a woman who 1) Has a chubby belly 2) Isnt completely ashamed of it and trying to lose weight 3) is otherwise attractive and has compatible values and views and things is basically impossible. I had no idea it would be so difficult And that’s not even including feedism and weight gain. I don’t need that stuff to get off, but I’m really not very sexually aroused by women with flat stomachs unfortunately. I’ve tried to force myself and it just doesn’t work. My biggest turn on is their biggest insecurity, I guess it was always going to be difficult. I hate passing opportunities to meet or be with nice thinner women but I can’t fool myself into pretending I find them really sexy. And there’s this annoying thing where if I do meet a chubby girl she’s usually not into me or we never match on dating apps for some reason, maybe because I look too ‘fit’ The other annoying thing is that when I told a girl I was seeing that I found her curves sexy including her belly she accused me of fetishising her so it feels like you can’t win. I get pretty jealous of the guys here who seem to have partners who are into it or are supportive of it
  6. sorry to hear you've had to put up with shit like that, likewise with every model in the community I presume .. maybe we need a harsher penalty for harassing / creepy messages? The same types of guys ruin dating apps by making women feel uncomfortable and eventually leaving, assuming the worst about every new guy they meet because it's safer that way, like assuming the snake you see on your hiking trail is venomous even if it's most likely not Some of them may be so socially retarded that they don't necessarily realize how uncomfortable they're making people, but a lot of them know damn well and just put their bit of immediate pleasure ahead of everything else. I read that one of the main motivations for sending dick pics is not to turn the woman on but to provoke a visceral reaction, even a negative one. It's as though people take a moral vacation when they log on here, forgetting that there are real people on the other end, and even if the backdrop is a sexual kink, they should continue to treat people with due respect. I guess besides permanently banning them, the best you can do is build a healthy mindset around it like you have
  7. To be fair it's not really their job - many are just musicians who happened to amass a following then got followed around by paparazzi, they knew that was a consequence of their popularity but many of them still don't appreciate having their nip slip at the beach posted all over the internet. And what about all the social media finds and youtube videos and scenes from tv shows and shit where the women obviously don't know and probably wouldn't appreciate being fetishised for something they're insecure about? And then all the gainers and feedees who've left the scene but their content remains in circulation probably against their will. I just think it's a slippery slope argument because if you're morally against candids you have to take issue with a lot of other stuff and there goes like 80% of content. I've taken candids on rare occasion when I see a lady I find unbelievably sexy but she's with a husband or it's not appropriate to approach her for some reason, and as long as they're not a minor, or it's a highly inappropriate setting I don't feel bad about it. We're on camera when we're at the shops anyway. Would they appreciate knowing that a kink community is enjoying photos of them? Probably not. Some might be flattered that there are people who find them so sexy they felt the need to take a candid photo if they have really low self esteem, but it seems like a victimless crime to me as long as you're not obvious and awkward when you do it. And here's the weird part - for me it's not even a filthy fetish thing, I don't race home and jack off over it, it's more like just capturing the beauty of a woman I find extremely sexy in a natural setting in everyday life.
  8. It's nice to see when on the outside so many of my female friends are battling anorexia and harsh body image standards more than ever before but I wish it was counterbalanced by an influx of women w the potbelly look that used to sort of dominate the feedism community which seems to be a dying breed these days, that's always been my favorite look.
  9. Come on you don't believe in therapy but you believe in the lies and delusions of ignorant old men in bronze age Palestine? Refer to my username, I don't think very highly of religion, and if you read the bible I don't see how you could either. It's obviously manmade, it's contemptuous of women, homosexuals, and non believers, it warrants slavery and sadomasochism and child genital mutilation, scapegoating, and dispossession and worst of all it demands us to let go of our critical thinking and blindly trust. I didn't realize how bad it was until I read it for myself. Look anywhere around the world and you'll see that the more religious a country is the lower it's standard of living For the introspection part, that's useful for most things but I've spent a long time thinking hard about this fetish and it's never really helped with anything so that's why I was thinking about therapy
  10. There will be guard rails around most of them with anything possibly resembling porn but I'm guessing within a year we will have something that can do it pretty accurately considering the rate of progress at the moment
  11. Favourite is whichever one I’m currently looking at 😎 The softness genuinely suits you. What a world it would be if all women allowed themselves to gain a bit… they would be happier… we would be happier. Anyway looking 👌
  12. That's uplifting to hear, I'm glad it worked out well Still it seems like something that happens to other guys but not to me. I mean if I'm with someone I really like even if they're very open minded toward these things, I worry that telling them could backfire so badly it does irreparable damage to the relationship, and could actually make them feel less comfortable about gaining weight, showing off their body etc. Body image seems to be so deeply engrained that I'm not sure it's possible to convince a lady that she's beautiful if she doesn't believe it, or even that you find her beautiful. Mentioning that you prefer curves or maybe even women with meat on their bones or whatever might go down ok but I think the belly stuff is hardcore. For many women it's drawing attention to their biggest insecurity, like a girl saying she loves balding guys or guys with small dicks or something. Do you remember how you brought it up with her?
  13. I appreciate all that insight. It seems that we've had very different experiences with people's reactions to it though. Maybe it has to do with the city I live in being very body conscious and a bit fatphobic, whilst that didn't seem to be the case as much when I was in America. I find that even topics like body positivity or really anything related to physical appearance is like skating on thin ice with a lot of women, even ones who seem to be confident in themselves. I guess that can help to filter out the ones who are too insecure for it to ever work, but I can't help but feel like I would be filtering out mot women. Plus disclosing this stuff too soon can be a lot to take in. Also did you disclose the whole weight gain / feedee thing or just leave it that you like curvy women? There's a night and day difference between those really, and I'm surprised how many women are here because they're supporting their partners kinks, I really can't imagine a girl being like 'oh you're into chicks gaining weight and belly fat? that's kind of unusual but hey I guess I'll indulge that for you and see if I find it sexy as well.' that just seems to be so outside the realm of my experiences that I have to assume they had some dormant attraction to it themselves. I agree that it's unrealistic to think therapy could do anything more than change my relationship with kinks and myself - but I've stopped criticizing myself for having it, and I've stopped seeing feedism as a malevolent kink (besides the immobility and death feedism kinks which are another topic) , however I'm still not sure how this really translates into better outcomes for me. I guess I embrace it more and try to find ways of meeting women I'm attracted to, and don't hide my attraction to them as much? It makes sense in theory but in practice it's daunting when you haven't had reassuring experiences in the past you know
  14. I think you're onto something - I know I have been extremely harsh on myself for having this kink. I mean I don't think there's anything morally wrong with pedophilia if they never act on it. They didn't ask to be that way and would prefer that they weren't. I've reached a point where I don't feel bad for being attracted to chubbiness / bellies/ weight gain / stuffing But I did sabotage my relationships because I figured that belly fat is not exactly healthy, and if I were encouraging someone to maintain it or gain a bit, or trying to discourage them from losing weight, even subconsciously, I would be complicit in making them unhealthier, which is something I would feel crappy about. Almost the same way an abusive person might avoid getting close to people so they don't hurt them, although less extreme. But also, a lot of that stems from people's negative reactions too... the few times I've brought up kinks it's been met with bewilderment and mild disgust, even with people who I thought were open minded and body positive, so that doesn't' exactly leave you feeling better about it. Plus it's held me back from pursuing thin women, even some really nice ones because I wasn't very sexually attracted to them. So I've always found it very difficult to have a positive relationship with this kink.
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