Have you ever seen people in real life who liked their weight gain?

[Abk]

I only saw it once. A distant relative of mine began to gain weight at one point in her life. Before this she was relatively thin. I don't know exactly how much she gained, but it was definitely at least 30 to 40 pounds. She was 25 or 26 years old at that time. And I remember how in one conversation she said that she liked how she gained weight and that she didn’t want to be thin. Her mother also praised her for gaining weight. Her mother is quite a large woman BTW. Apparently she didn't like that her daughter was thin🤭. Maybe that’s why her daughter was happy with the weight she had gained. I don’t know...

[happenedsofat]

No, I have not. However I would LOVE to!! I can't imagine how hot it would be...especially if it were another female who is aroused like myself with other bbws....

Just sitting face to face with someone and having convos like we have on here sounds like a dream come true to me!

[thatguest]

A girl I knew back in college who I used to date would tell me that she always admired her cousins from Puerto Rico who were fat and happy. She thought they looked amazing. She was always chubby but dating someone like me meant that she was able to express that side of herself that she'd always kept hidden. She wasn't a gainer or into feederism or anything like that, but gained a decent amount of weight by just letting herself give into temptation before settling at a new weight. She remained fat, and loved it. 

[Guest They keep getting fatter]

My girlfriend is turned on by her own weight gain. Also there is this girl I used to work with who went from cute and slightly chubby to out-and-out obese while I worked there. We used to to openly talk about her weight gain and she loved to talk about her bad diet habits and her laziness. For instance she told me in an amused tone that she had dined out that weekend and she ate so much that she threw up right outside the restaurant. Or the time she told me she went out for a walk on the weekend like a big feat, because I knew how lazy she was, and she clarified "walk, not jog". I asked her if she could physically run and she said she couldn't. She would also love it whenever I mentioned how unhealthy her meal choices were at lunch. She never made lunch and instead she would buy whatever food took her fancy, always fattening and unhealthy. Once she was sitting at her desk and half her ass crack was showing because she had outgrown her jeans. This was in a busy office in the corporate HQ where people walking by, including managers and strangers, could see her ass crack in all its splendor. When I told her she seemed amused and turned on.

[W4E]

I suspect there have been a few in my experience, all seeming to give into the hedonism of food and drink. Strangely enough, all are of Italian heritage!

The first was a musician friend of mine at university who was open about her weight whenever others were discussing theirs in an absentminded way. Once, when body-fat percentage was mentioned, she said, 'Mine's probably 100%'. And another time, one of our classmates said she was naughty for eating two rows of Dairy Milk the night before. 'Oh really!' said my friend, overhearing. 'It's when you hit the second block that the fun begins!' She was often mentioning how bland most people's lunches were, and how fat, sugar and salt were the substance of life. Though I hadn't known her prior to that year, I gathered she had been fairly slim and then put on quite some weight over time due to her habits. That much I can guess because she often came to lectures wearing clothes that she seemed to have outgrown long before. 

The second was a new colleague I worked with closely for a few months last year. We were working outside in the warmer weather when someone was talking about their pets. 'I've got a cat,' said my colleague, 'though she's a bit of a fatty boom boom at the moment.' There was a pause as the phrase brought to mind Little Britain references, for me at least. 'But you know, after COVID, so long as we're happy and healthy it doesn't matter.' She then enjoyed her sausage roll and can of cola and distractedly tore at a few of the fun-sized Mars Bars on the picnic table outside; something she tended to do often. 

The last was another woman at university who was definitely a foodie, the closest to a feedee I have known but one doesn't know. At almost any mentioning of some restaurant or dish she would throw her hands into the air and extol the virtues of the place, explaining how she tried to replicate the recipes at home. In fact, most of what she talked about was food and eating. She would even dance a little as she dug into her lunch. Her confidence was really something: I've not known anyone to wear shorts and bare their midriff with such gusto like she did, her obesity accentuated by her apple-shaped body. And the way the small (read XXL) polo shirts for our work uniform fit over her body - what a sight! 

[extra_m13]

the closest i have been to that is probably a couple of situations in which the lady simply acknowledged the gain and proceeded to buy bigger clothes. there was no complaint no bitternes no anger and no remorse or attempt to diet back , that was probably the closest i ve been to someone 'liking' their gain. and that was hot for me ,a big relief 

[Riley Parker CLIPS]

I've had friends who had overbearing mothers/caregivers who were very critical of their bodies and weight in childhood/adolescence who got to experience the freedom of not worrying about that extra 10lbs and loved it. One friend in particular gained 15lbs in university and every lb went to her chest and ass and she said it was the first time she ever felt she looked like a woman. 

[Fafaliciouz CLIPS]

I know myself! I was too skinny and people was always bullying me because of my weight, that I actually enjoy a lot to have extra pounds every month 

[PreyToGod]

It's hard to say because even in the era of body acceptance a lot of women don't want to come across as lazy so probably keep it to themselves if they do. 

Personally every woman I've known has been really self conscious about their weight. Even feedees I've met from this community are usually conflicted about it when they're being honest with you. It sucks 

[happenedsofat]

1 hour ago, sconesy73 said:

Gorgeous 😍

Is conflict not part of any fetish?

Most fetishes are a step outside from "normal" behaviour so even though we may enjoy ourselves, at the back of our mind there's that little part of us that says "this is wrong and you shouldn't be doing this"...

Maybe that's what makes it so appealing? 

Oh, I like where you're head is at my friend! You are probably onto something there! What's strange to me still to this day, is that I haven't, or don't consider myself to be a feedee still to this day. 

 

My whole fetish started when I began to find pregnant women's bellies, super super sexy! At that age, in not really knowing that much and especially why I would be feeling this way… I'll never forget the first incredible porno I watched, it was lesbians… They were at the doctors office, and the doctor was making the hot pregnant woman orgasm. She had these gigantic/ huge tits.
The doctor was so skinny as well. There's also some thing about a skinny girl playing around with a fat one that will totally make me get off beyond belief. The last thing I can remember of thinking was, how does her skin grow that much or X-band that much seeing as she was such a tiny little girl w big tits 

 

 

and then that is actually what led me directly to this site...while I was in high school googling porn heheh!!! Come to find out it's a whole "thing". Who would have known there was a whole community out there who found non-pregnant people with big bellies

 

by the way, why is it that every single time I speak with you I get horny? Because in case you're curious, it's happening right now…Water

[sconesy73]

1 hour ago, happenedsofat said:

Oh, I like where you're head is at my friend! You are probably onto something there! What's strange to me still to this day, is that I haven't, or don't consider myself to be a feedee still to this day. 

 

My whole fetish started when I began to find pregnant women's bellies, super super sexy! At that age, in not really knowing that much and especially why I would be feeling this way… I'll never forget the first incredible porno I watched, it was lesbians… They were at the doctors office, and the doctor was making the hot pregnant woman orgasm. She had these gigantic/ huge tits.
The doctor was so skinny as well. There's also some thing about a skinny girl playing around with a fat one that will totally make me get off beyond belief. The last thing I can remember of thinking was, how does her skin grow that much or X-band that much seeing as she was such a tiny little girl w big tits 

 

 

and then that is actually what led me directly to this site...while I was in high school googling porn heheh!!! Come to find out it's a whole "thing". Who would have known there was a whole community out there who found non-pregnant people with big bellies

 

We're on the same page about the whole feedee / feeder thing. I love seeing how bodies change as they get fatter - it's fascinating to see an ass getting wider, or arms getting  saggier, belly starting to hang, boobs getting fatter etc... There's also something erotic about the physical act of seeing a fat woman eat.. The neck fat wobbling and rippling - hot as fuck...

It's interesting about the porn video affecting you like that.. Had you never realised before then you found fat bodies attractive?

1 hour ago, happenedsofat said:

by the way, why is it that every single time I speak with you I get horny? Because in case you're curious, it's happening right now

Hehe - it's part of my naturally filthy minded charm🤣😈

[Guest They keep getting fatter]

On 9/24/2023 at 8:06 AM, happenedsofat said:

Either way, right now I'm turned on so that's all that matters 😉 🐷 

That's a great life philosophy 😁

[happenedsofat]

On 10/12/2023 at 3:45 AM, They keep getting fatter said:

That's a great life philosophy 😁

Sure is!! 

[kmny44]

For me its the weight loss challenge before and after bikini photos! The confidence of a woman to post herself so vulnerable and obviously out of shape, the confidence in that is very sexy to me

[Donuttruckdriver]

Yes, GF way back in the day. Before the internet was around 1991.  Weight gain on purpose was not really popular.  We Started dating , she was 21/5’10 175lbs. Thick and beautiful. Ate Cupcakes and cookies after work.  18 months later went to a Dr apt came back smiling. Said she weighed 320. Like a proud accomplishment❤️. She looked really plump and beautiful.  I asked what she wanted to do, direct quote “take me to Wendy’s” Pretty much my origin story on how I got into this. 

[Guest Chubby_Tummy]

My tell sign is when women let their big, soft bellies come out and don't try to suck in/hide it.