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thanks for sharing guys. a question for @Joliat how is your wife going about with being 300? i ask this because my wife is 5'1 as well and currently around 225 probably but she does look heavy and i am not sure where she would carry more (although i would love to see her going 300+) she has some similar traits, love to eat, doesn't exercise and has gained an average of 10 pounds per year since we got together. do you have some health warnings as of yet?
we have had some chair situation but sometime we are walking together and i speed up withotu realizing, she would not say but she struggles and begins to breath heavy then, i say nothing but do remember to slow down or offer her to drop her closer to the gate

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

Niece :where’s your wedding ring?
 My wife: it doesn’t fit.
 Niece: swollen finger?
 My wife: fat finger
 
 
….. in bed, not long ago , when on her side I’d love the curves her hip made then in at the waist on her side, a roll or two, etc. Because I consciously felt and memorised her form, now I can feel a huge contrast, with fat creating new curves but most definitely that hip to waist curve has gone.
 
We both have the same band t shirt. Mine is XL. Hers L. Last week she had it on , it used to be baggy. This looked like it was painted on her. So tight.  I was looking for mine, asked her and said it was on her rail, as hers doesn’t fit her. She’d been wearing mine for months.
 

A guy knows your girl is gaining when:

- She starts the day with cookies before breakfast
- She has cake for lunch and one hour later she’s eating oliebollen (kind of a plain donut in Holland)
- She comes home and takes of her pants to feel more comfortable
- She suggests to have some small bites one hour before you go to the restaurant
- She eats a complete pizza and finishes with tiramisu
- You see dark stretch marks on her love handles
- Her rolls are overflowing your favorite thong
- You measure her up against other girls you cross and most of the times she’s heavier
- You’re the proudest man around when you walk on her side
- You can’t keep your hands of her, touching and grabbing all her different soft spots

I might be that guy [emoji2956][emoji3060]

Another is when we hug and suddenly I feel there is slightly more room between us or I have to make slightly more effort to wrap around her for a hug. Or when I slip my fingers in the sides of her pants to hug her love handles and I can’t get my fingers past her waistline as easily even just a few weeks ago.

I did this with my former partner, and he ended up just having to give me the shirt (which was basically a crop top on me anyways) 😂

One of the big things for me is having to readjust everything if I'm getting into a car that's usually driven by someone smaller (whether that be a partner, friend, family, etc). The last small car I was borrowing I had to push the seat back all the way, and then also recline it more than half way just so that I would have enough room to get into the car, trying to tuck my hip under the steering wheel (which also needs to be up as high as it will go, for clearance purposes) and then throwing a pillow behind me to try to fill in for the fact that the seat has to be in a laying down position to even attempt to accommodate my fat ass. Forget seatbelts- I haven't been able to wear one in years, and I hate the idea of wasting money on a bunch of extenders (since there's no single, universally compatible model). Does my belly touch the steering wheel? Oh definitely- if I need to be hands free for a moment (to grab curly fries or mozzarella sticks from the passenger seat) then my tum can keep us on the straight and narrow just fine.  

When my partner has to stop walking to reajust her belly, which demands to wiggle free of her belt or leggings. I am absolutely smitten whenever this happens!

My wife has put some weight on lately, so many of her shirts ride up on her. Today while we were moving our picnic table, she was bent over and her belly was hanging over more than usual. Every step we took, it would sway, and that was driving me wild. 

Went for a walk yesterday. 8706 steps. Wife said 5 times, “can we just stop while I catch my breath”. Unfit?

Went for a walk yesterday. 8706 steps. Wife said 5 times, “can we just stop while I catch my breath”. Unfit?

Went for a walk yesterday. 8706 steps. Wife said 5 times, “can we just stop while I catch my breath”. Unfit?

Contrast. I’m fit, run, play football. My wife is obese and a chain smoker of cigarettes. 

Went for a walk yesterday. 8706 steps. Wife said 5 times, “can we just stop while I catch my breath”. Unfit?

Went for a walk yesterday. 8706 steps. Wife said 5 times, “can we just stop while I catch my breath”. Unfit?

My wife only rides on top for little bit before she is tired. She complains about it too and how she just wants me to be on top of her. Sometimes I’ll let her have no on top time, she doesn’t realize how hot it is to me. 
also I love when the bed creeks when she is riding . She once said “I’m going to break the bed” and another time “I’m getting to big to be on top”
not even close I love all that weight on me 🐷🥵

Went for a walk yesterday. 8706 steps. Wife said 5 times, “can we just stop while I catch my breath”. Unfit?