WatermelonMan

omg please don't take this the wrong way but you are one sexy blimp! Your belly is causing your arms to be held away from your body! Perfect wife material.

Thanks, Cookie. As time goes on and I think about it (but not too too much) I'm thinking it's kind of like a date where the person claims to be 25, you show up and it turns out she's really 27 or 30, or what-have-you, or a guy says he's 6'1 and he's really 5'11. Not a HUGE deal. But this situation is like claiming 25, but you show up and she's 45. Or you meet and your 6'1 date is 5'8. That's a pretty big whopper, and one you might have a problem with. What interests me is she told me the number - I didn't say anything like "Hey! You said you were 355, and you're barely 250!" I mean, what are you going to do? Get up and leave? We're still pals. I'm just not sending any more money.

Just curious what your take is. Not angry, not blaming anyone, not wanting to "out" anyone. But I made my first dinner date with a webodel (not anyone on this site!) whose profile claims 370 pounds. A lot of talk about "I'm getting soooo big!" "400, here I come!" I actually flew 800 miles specifically for this purpose. Car, hotel, all of it. Just for dinner! She is not even 250 pounds, she says, which was apparent when I first saw her. I didn't ask, but she told me at one point. "I'm a little under 250." The dinner was fine, tasty, a pleasant experience, though the conversation was entirely about her, and so it wasn't a real "conversation." I just ordered and she ate, and it was expensive, as you might imagine. There was the whole "I had fun!" "So did I!" type thing. But that was my first and last meeting with this person, I decided. As time goes on, I'm a little irritated about the lying about the weight. Not lying by a couple of pounds, but over 100 pounds. You wanted a date with a woman who is HUGE, and you're paying for it. Would you be angry? I mean the weight had nothing to do with whether or not the meal was pleasant - it was. So that's ok. I had also planned to fly to certain cities to have dinner with two others. Not any more. I'm just not excited about it after this experience. But I am thinking it's a good thing - save your money. Lesson learned, ya know? Better to just buy clips here at $4.99, or go to OF and tip there. Forget paying for meeting anyone. I have dates in the real world, I'm an attractive person, that's not the problem. I just wanted the thrill of having dinner with someone who said they were 370 beautiful pounds. That's an ENORMOUS woman. 250 isn't. Thoughts welcome.

"Nobody's perfect" lol And how about "The Blob!"

omg I would totally flirt with you, and ask you out...and we could watch "Casablanca" together, or "Duck Soup."

loving it lol...

She is getting more and more comfortable just laying around and relaxing, letting me see how plump she REALLY is, lol...and Sat night she let me buy her a second slice of cheesecake and she ate the whole thing! After a nice dinner at a Greek restaurant. I really think you have to bring them along, show them you REALLY adore their pounds, touch them, treat them well, then they relax and...oh, my, how you've grown! (Devil horns)

Delicious thread. I find people's attitudes toward fat men is way different than fat women - people are far less careful about guys. That said -- "She's just a big ball of...love." A skinny woman referring to my 240-pound girlfriend. "Wow." A Subway store clerk who I told about my fat girlfriend before she walked in the door about 10 minutes behind me. ("Wow" meaning "She is fat...but fatter than I expected.") "I can't believe what she has done to herself." (Comment from an Aunt of a 340-pound GF who weighed 180 in college) To me personally - Herbalife people coming up to me in malls and starting right in about their program. Obviously they have looked me up and down and saw the stomach sticking out. "Wow! You filled out! Especially your face." "Are you still into fitness?" (Meaning like I was in college. Obviously...NOT ANY MORE, standing in front of the person with stomach hanging over...that was 78 pounds ago!) "Most guys get a belly sooner or later." (Talking about me getting a belly, but not directly.) Woman I spent one night with, sitting at a picnic table with friends, me standing there. Her hand reaches out and pats my stomach. Enough said!