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Friend in denial as to how chubby shes got


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So I never intended to post this friend of mine on here until this happened, so first heres some background 

My friend used to be quite athletic, mainly going on frequent runs, shes only about 5'1/2 and last she mentioned her weight about 1 year ago she was 48kg, so as you can imagine she was very thin and a little muscular

However over the last year Ive noticed shes been putting on a little weight slowly but surely, now she certainly isnt fat, just a bit chubby, however this morning as we were messaging I finally got to see just how chubby shes got, and also just how strongly in denial she is. She has quite an adamant personality, but was also always the skinny one amongst the girls in our group, and thus shes basically made this apart of her identity and well... Youll see why in the video I think this has led her to being so strongly in denial, I'll keep you all updated with any more videos, stories, etc that come out of this

 

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(and no before anyone asks, Im not giving out her username) 

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4 minutes ago, Jimmynickelson said:

Is it possible she’s flirting with you/thinks you like her skinny?

I’ve had some success with asking girls if they’ve lost weight every few months to get them to say how much they’ve gained lol

I mean I do 'like' her but idk if she knows it

And I think its more just because she has like a middle sister dynamic in our group, always feels like shes got something to prove if shes associated with that thing, and because shes became associated with being the thinnest of us she feels like she needs to fill that role, if you get what I mean, but its caused her to be in some serious denial and its so hot

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4 hours ago, Jimmynickelson said:

Is it possible she’s flirting with you/thinks you like her skinny?

I’ve had some success with asking girls if they’ve lost weight every few months to get them to say how much they’ve gained lol

Damn she has gaaiinned, 48kg to about 62, any ideas on how to get her to show her belly again? 

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27 minutes ago, Jellybellyadmirer said:

Wow that’s hot. Are there any before photos of her

I'll try get some good ones to compare, but she frequently deletes her older posts so I cant promise anything, will take a look through group chats and my gallery to though

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So update from today, I finally got the nerve to do some subtle teasing in public:

Some very brief background context for our group first as I thought itd be nice to have (theres 5 including me, lets just name them 1-4):

Im kinda chubby, about 83kg and 5'6, and used to be very insecure and have took to finding chubbiness attractive once I found happiness, probably because it kind of started as a coping mechanism (also I'll use 0 as my 'name') 

1 is who this is all about

2 is kind of the big sister of the group, in both senses, always looking out for us and also definitely very overweight, more so than me even

3 is very, distant I suppose, shes always there but never speaks much, very average build, skinny-fat i guess

4 is similar sized to me and has been wanting to lose weight, also very excitable due to ADHD, shes confident and accepting of her weight but certainly doesnt want it

We are sat at lunch as usual only today 1, although wearing her usual oversized (although now rather fitted) hoodie, was also in some leggings. Typically she wears comfy joggers that hide her belly, but today in these leggings the bottom of her belly stuck out from under her hoodie when she sat, and was perched gently on her lap. I kept glancing at the little belly mound sitting there as she ate away. Its at this point 4 once again brought up how shes really trying to lose weight but for 5 weeks hasnt managed anything, with this I saw an opportunity to subtly tease 1, I told 4 that "Im sure 1 would be able to help you lose some weight" and i placed my hand onto her belly and she instantly sucked in as much as possible, then i put my hand up slightly under the hoodie to place my hand fully on the chub "i mean look at her stomach, flat and solid, im sure she can help you get that too". 1 was glowing red in her cheeks either embarrassed or breathless, or both, and manged to squeek "absolutely i can, i bet you can feel my abs to 0" i squished about her stomach fat, but there certainly was no abs at which point she then pushed my hand away and let out a sigh of relief, her belly dropping forward and pushing out, she tried to hide her breathlessness by speaking, although if anything it made it more obvious, "just... Let me know... When you.. Would like to... Talk some more about... It" the conversation soon moved on 

 

Also i will be going round to her house on wednesday, and although i dont feel fully comfy doing it I'll try take some chubby candids if theres opportunity, also if any of you can think of any ways to tease her or get her to try show off her belly or do sporting activities please leave your ideas here

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14 minutes ago, fatowl said:

Just ask to see her abs!  Maybe do a few rubs and ask how she is keeping her flat belly.  Or take her out to eat at an all you can eat and let her stuff and then ask to see her food baby or twins!!  Lol

I'll definitely ask to see them, and if i say im wanting to lose weight aswell with her help maybe i can see her working out, or probably failing to

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16 minutes ago, fatowl said:

Or you can challenge her to set the trap.  Oh you look a bit bigger, no I don't, yes you do, I don't believe you, show me!  Or you could say I might be thinner than you.  She will say no.  Then you say show me yours and I will show you mine.  Lol

I'll see how it goes, dont want to be to on the nose though

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18 minutes ago, Ichigorukiableach said:

You know...I wonder. She seems kind of competitive. I bet if you took her to an all you can eat buffet and challenge her to an eating contest, she’ll totally try to win. Just worth a thought to capitalize on her competitive nature

Thats actually a interesting idea, because yes she is VERY competitive, so any other ideas to play off of that are welcome

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7 minutes ago, Prince-nutty said:

Try convincing her that her scales must be wrong, and get her to weigh herself a few times! Normally works a treat, failing that, try different scales!

Yes definitely! Shes so amazingly chubby now and the denial just adds to it!

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So Ive already had a couple questions and I thought Id address them here so I dont repeat myself

The main questions im getting relate to if others have noticed and is she able to hide her gain? 

Short answers: maybe i dont know no ones said anything and all still seem to think shes the thinnest instead of 3 (who is definitely thinner now), and yes surprisingly well (hense why ive only taken to doing this thread now as its starting to show if you look for it) 

So she normally wore very loose fitted jogger bottoms and huge jumpers, which now shes put on weight just fit only a tad tighter than they should (nothing noticable basically), which means it isnt all that obvious, her face was already round to begin with, its definitely starting to get a double chin but its nothing too noticeable again

She very rarely wears leggings now, the first time she did in months was yesterday and when she sat then it was clear, also her thighs had definitely grown, but again not many people actively look for this like us

I havent seen her in jeans for months, id be surprised if any fit properly honestly 

And when she has to take off her hoodies her chest has barely got any bigger and was pretty large to begin with (32D i think) meaning it always pushed her shirts forward, although when she sits i do notice her lower belly presses up against shirts and makes a little bulge, she will almost always fold her arms in the way though, but you dont notice anything when shes stood up

Anymore questions are welcome and please keep ideas coming at me either for subtle public or private teasing, things to do over message or things to do tomorrow when i go to her house

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Todays update from going to her house, I did my best to find opportunities to get pics (there was only about an hour that I found it comfortable and covert enough to take any, so I hope they dont disappoint) 

Nothing much happened at college but she was in leggings again looking chubby when sitting

When we got back to her house she took off her hoodie so her belly became alot more obvious, we chilled out for a little bit when I just couldnt help but try do some subtle teasing again after being tempted by her little belly pouch, I asked her "you know how 4 has been wanting to lose weight? Well do you think youd be able to help me do the same" "of course!" came back an enthusiastic reply, "because just look at this" i said unbuttoning my jeans and pulling out my belly and jiggling it, she laughed, "oh my god your tummy is so fat" i laughed too "not like yours, come on lets see!" she pulled down her leggings to her hips with confidence, sucking in as hard as she could, she poked about "look at my toned tummy, not like yours, but it can be with my help" her voice strained. I reached to start squishing her belly around and asked "can i feel what its like" she nodded slightly, i began to press my fingers around her extremely soft stomach remarking "i can feel the abs" as she began to glow red with a embarrassed smile to her face. After only a couple seconds of playing with the fat 'feeling her muscles' i could feel her belly starting to gradually expand again out of breathlessness, she was unable to talk because was trying to suck in so much, she began pulling at the side of her waist desperately with her hands trying to pull her fat back in vain moaning and gasping gently under her breath, eventually in a panic she pushed my hands away and let out a moan of relief, her belly blew out and she began pushing her stomach in with her hands as she panted still desperate to hide the belly, she tried to look casual as she dashed into her bathroom, where she sat for awhile catching her breath, trying to not make her panting obvious. While she was doing this i noticed some jeans on her bedroom chair, after a brief inspection i noticed the zipper was broken, likely too small for her now, it didnt feel right to keep probing about though so i didnt look for anything else. When she eventually came back in, with her leggings high waisted again, she grabbed at my belly and shook it saying "we'll start next week on getting you skinny" still glowing red trying to act as if everything was normal "im so excited" i replied. I saw an opportunity later to take these photos when i was laying on the floor next to her chilling on my phone, safe from any possible discovery, i took photos each time the blanket she had wrapped around her was opened to reach for something, sorry if they arent the best she was moving in all of them so quite blurry

As usual any ideas to see her belly or for teasing opportunities let me know! 

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2 minutes ago, Fastman9980 said:

So what happens when she starts working out with you? Lol

Not sure, i doubt she will try do any working out as she still thinks shes fit, i think she will mostly just be helping me (i wont actually be working out of course, im liking my chub lol), but im planning on asking for her help through videos abit so hopefully we can see her struggling

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Had another great conversation tonight about her jeans not fitting and bloating, i honestly cant believe how she actually manages to stay in so much denial, it must be obvious surely? Its honestly really hard for me to tell if shes just saying this publicly and knows that she has put on weight or if she genuinely still thinks shes thin. Because surely to her its very obvious, but at the same time her whole personality, ego and social identity shes made for herself are a perfect storm for denial, let me know what you think

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