Popular Post TheObesePsychologist Posted July 5, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted July 5, 2020 Hi there, A friend of mine has introduced me here but I think the honest way is just doing it by myself. I just love the fat community since many years ago. From the first pic to the last had been maaaaaany lbs of difference. However, most important, I have never been as confident and happy as I am right now. Do you notice the difference? Body language speaks, dears😉 AZ_Guy_88, Euglenoid, datravellinfeeder and 54 others 14 1 11 2 29 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 6, 2020 Author Share Posted July 6, 2020 8 hours ago, Pancakes said: Welcome! You look great. Are you actually a psychologist? Yes, I am. Thank you! Ycr98, j_ro and Pancakes 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 6, 2020 Author Share Posted July 6, 2020 6 hours ago, NikeLove1986 said: All signs point to No lol Hahahaha, your signs go wrong🤷♀️ Ycr98 and Pancakes 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 6, 2020 Author Share Posted July 6, 2020 20 minutes ago, bjhacker said: Welcome! You're lovely.l Aw, thank you😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 20, 2020 Author Share Posted July 20, 2020 So yeah, quite heavier🤔 don't you think? bigirlover, slaptastic69, John Smith and 23 others 4 2 6 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 20, 2020 Author Share Posted July 20, 2020 Hahaha yeah, that's almost the whole me😜 John Smith and bigirlover 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 22, 2020 Author Share Posted July 22, 2020 11 hours ago, sanduskyfalls said: Are you a feedee? If so, what are your thoughts as a psychologist on the fetish as a whole? Hahaha first of all, sorry English is not my 1st, even not my 2nd language and yes, I have been into the fetish community since many years and I gained some throughout them. Secondly, also yes, I am a criminologist and psychologist. Since my areas are: social psychology and job guidance, I have been studying more the other side, the fatphobia in our society and its harm to us, fat and obese people in many espeheres of our life. My vision of the fetish? Living your sexuality as free as you can, without causing any harm to other, is the best way you could chose. I've seen so many people complaining and hiding this part of himself - yeah, mostly guys- and it cause harm to themselves and obviously, their partners. So, explore yourself, live it naturally as all fetish are, enjoy of them and make your partner enjoy too hahaha. PS: there are many more to say and talk about. It is impossible make a post speaking about the fetish as a whole, non sense! Hahaha many aspects of it😊 SvenskFA, BLTs, bbwloverbr and 5 others 3 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 22, 2020 Author Share Posted July 22, 2020 10 hours ago, extra_m13 said: glad to have you hear ! very hot belly by the way thanks for posting. this is the right place to celebrate curves and all related I think so 🧐 extra_m13 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 22, 2020 Author Share Posted July 22, 2020 1 hour ago, John Smith said: I have an inkling that someday, you'll writing a pretty interesting autobiography or blog about your flamboyant sexual life as an obese and self-feeding psychologist... Hahaha you know, why not? It's is a very interesting and exciting part of myself😉 John Smith 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 24, 2020 Author Share Posted July 24, 2020 14 hours ago, j_ro said: Those big curves and a big brain...🤤 Always is better bigger, especially your brain so let's keep it working! Same for the bellies out there hahaha😜 damntastic and Rodio 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 24, 2020 Author Share Posted July 24, 2020 24 minutes ago, sanduskyfalls said: Do you have size goals? What have people said about your massive weight gain over the years? First of all, I don't have size goals. I am a complete hedonist, so I will always do what satisfies me and regardless my fetish. Secondly, my beloved ones know what I am into so it's fine for me and for them. Other people, I just don't care hahaha BLTs and Zoll2008 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 24, 2020 Author Share Posted July 24, 2020 18 minutes ago, BLTs said: You have an amazing attitude toward this. I love it when a professional like this has fully embraced their kink side. So much insight to be had. Perhaps you should write a book about it. You were gorgeous before and you're gorgeous after. I'm happy you've found happiness in your own body and I hope you become as hedonistic and massive as your heart desires Thank you for your kind and sincere response, I appreciate it! Hopefully everybody could embrace themselves and also with the fetish part. However, there is so much internalized fatphobia that even people who likes fat people feel and live it in an ashamed way. They are not aware they are harming themselves and others. The only way to normalise it is viewing it as usual and normal as other fetish are. It's healthy! A book? OMG! Hahaha BLTs and maybejames 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 25, 2020 Author Share Posted July 25, 2020 2 hours ago, grateful said: Hi, would like to hear more. Thanks for your posts! ❤️ Aw, you're welcome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 25, 2020 Author Share Posted July 25, 2020 11 hours ago, sanduskyfalls said: How do you justify hedonism in a psychological sense? Is this a 3rd grade? Should I be paid to spread my professional perspective about it? Hahaha 😊🤔 Firstly, hedonism don't have to be justified. Hedonism is a dynamic state of mind and ultimately, a very strong act of self care too. Being an hedonist implies that you put your wellness first, a healthy self steem and a good relationship with yourself; understanding your lows and highs, a lot of introspection done, respecting you especially, having an holistic world comprehension like human relationships etc. Therefore, hedonism is something we all should be up for. Being aware and full consciousness of the moments you are living, being grateful for all you have and maintaining a humble perspective, are the ingredients that could make it real. However, that's only my opinion hahaha BLTs and John Smith 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 26, 2020 Author Share Posted July 26, 2020 21 hours ago, grateful said: We tend to assume that people will be reflectors of what they do for a living. I'm in the technical end of the radio business and I hate working on shit at home, don't have the world's greatest stereo and don't do electronics as hobby. I do what I do bc I am good at it professionally and it pays the bills. A dear friend of mine who is a MFT was crying her eyes out about the country the other night and fears being put into a concentration camp. I spent our time together talking her off the ledge. She's a great therapist and helps a lot of people. You never know. Nice to hear that. Of course, being a therapist doesn't mean that you are completely perfect and you deal with all the situations greatly. Not at all. So she needed your help and you stayed there for her, that's what's friendship supposed to be at the end BLTs, John Smith and Jose Garcia 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted July 28, 2020 Author Share Posted July 28, 2020 #tuesdaysdrama When you feel down and just don't know what to eat... Until finally you realise you've ice cream in the freeze🤔😏 Little big dramas of your day to day life hahaha Art420, BLTs, dxm9999 and 10 others 2 2 1 3 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheObesePsychologist Posted August 10, 2020 Author Share Posted August 10, 2020 Grabbing it all the day long during this vacation. How's your fat summer going? Jose Garcia, chubbyblubber, dxm9999 and 9 others 1 1 3 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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