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Who doesnt like a belly growing? I def prefer an all over gain. As you said its fascinating how it works. One area blows up, then another..

its why im sure many women dont particpate. My wife wants nothing to do with this site. I will say its better than it was 10 yrs ago so thats good.

unless youlived it,most people dont undrstand the volume they need to eat to just maintain that weight.

happy with good atttiude isalways more attracttive than miserable. A happy 300 pounder ismore atractive than a misrable 120 pounder. ignore the negative people/comments its not worth dealing with them. just myopinions formed ovr the years here.

no doubtt people can be prtty good at estimaing wieght. We have a woman in the office here who is also a weight watcher leadr. She is pretty good at it. But most have no clue espcially when you get ovr 300 pounds. Oncemy MIL said to my wife you must be 300 pounds. WE had a great laugh about that, she was ovr 100 pounds off lol.

I think the most remarkable thing is seeing a big woman naked or clos to it. You realize just how big she really is. To m pictures seldom give you the scale of thier size. We hear it here althetime, 400 pounds, 60 inch hips etc but seeing it for real is always amazing. As the weather warms up now, we get to see all the "new' growth

It seems to me that big boobs are a very reliable way to predict a woman getting big. just bout every woman I know who has big boobs ends up at least chubby. Whn you hear things like my boobs are too big to work out, you know whats coming other parts, arms, tighs etc dont seem as predictoble to me. I thnk there is a strong familial influnce in many cases. Some is gentic, some is just lifstyle passed down. In my wifees family I dont think there is woman ovr 180. So in her case there is no family predictor at all. Yet she is a SSBBW.

progress pictures.

Ivee not had a woman tell me she was a feedee or wanted to be. I would think that very rare, lets face it feedees are not all tht common. I will say Iave had a few women comment to me about wanting guy wo apprecited thier size more. My wife is very big and I treat her like a queen. I guess they pick up on th fact that I like big women alot and feel comofrtable making those comments to me. Who knows.

Do you know what made her realzie youve gone too far? Im assuming when you say she really do aythting about it, you mean she is comfortable with her lifestyle. She might b able to cut back alittle and not gain fo a while but that never lasts. Losing weight at that size initially isnt that hard, keeping up with it is very hard. My wife lost about 225 pounds right before covid, since then she has regained about 70 of them. The old habits ar hard to break. As was said, she will decide. ITs easy to want to lose weght or not gain more, its hard to put the fork down though

how old ar you? I was an endurance athlete in college and the women on the womens team always gained weight when they arivd. The training table was a real thing.

super cute belly. We both have flat bellies, wifeys is just 2 feet infront of her.

My wife has never been into lots fo sweets. So I make big meals with lots of leftovers availble, worked well for us

guys will alwys far this qestion.....do i look fat? Were compelled by society to compliment weigh loss. my guess, likes your belly but feels he cant say so if it bigger. Then figures f it gets smaller your happy with that so he goes along with it. lets be honest, most women dont wanna har how much some one likes thir belly geting bigger and rounder.

My experience is the balance shifts around over time. Years go by, pounds pile up, kids, work, life etc. You just have to go with the times, its not always fun, but thats life. My advice, simply is ta life chnges, its not a bad thing. you might beheavy into feeding but that cant last forever for several reasons. Enjoy where you are when you are there.

it sucks when tthey lose weigt. But its thier choice really. I dont think many understand what its like to carry alot of weight. Th fetish of weight gain is a full time thing. What I mean is you just dont do it when youwant to, you d it all the time. Whatever she weighs, se will be that tomorrow too, there is no break from it.

I dont know if size is factor. Volume consumed is a factor for sure.

YEsterday family was togther for Easter. Onee of thecousins showed up havig gaind 30pounds or something. The women were buzzing about it. Myself I hadnt seen this cousin since she was a teenager (now mid 20s) I had no frame of reference of her gain. If my wife hadnt told me I would have never known. HEr comment, thats how tthy talked about me when I started gaining amused me.

Imagine that mixed singals from a woman lol. I think its simple though. thy feel pressure to lose weight, be thin etc.....but in reality they like to eat and be somewhat lazy. I would go with the flow, compliment her and keep foods she likes handy. Chances are the number on the scale will rise.

yup as yu eat more yuor capacity goes up. its a beautiful thing. As I always say, you dont gt big or stay big skipping meals

It took her years to get to the point of telling mom to stop it. Years of comments, and "we need to talk about your weight" etc piled up and once the WLS stuff started my wife just had had enough. She hasnt said anything to melately but she hasnt hadthe opportunity. Im abig propoenent of bing active, Iv said it many times here. IT helps them live a normal life and they carry the weight easier. Its not hard really, you justhav to do it. I getthe I dont want to attitude, im too fat to do whatever etc. Im talking aboutsimple things, walk daily, go up anddown thestairs so many times a day etc. Do thosethings and she will b muchbetter at gtting around, keeping up. My wife has 1 sister, the total opposite of her. Fit lean and atheltic. I know the MIL worked on her abouut my wife,but SIL doesnt bother my wife about it. About all SILdoes isdrag her on walks. My wife has observed when go to SILs house the grazing options are always limited though.

right my alley. Iv said it many times here. I prefer big fit women. OF course im not talking about running a marathon , just able to live life do things. Being fit makes it easier to carry more weight. Good food mattrs too.......chuggin weigh gainer shakes and laying on the couch is of little intrest to me.

I dont see it as rejected. the world is mostly made for avg size. IF you are not avg size there will be things you cant do.

ah......when she rubbd her belly, you should have offerd to do it. fun story though, always good to have a good day.

I forgot rings come in sizes.....looks like I forogto to track that one lol. I hope your MIL is easier to deal with than mine. congrats on the baby and the baby weight:)