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  1. February 2024 (295 lbs) This month was not all that eventful in terms of my wife's weigh. I think it remained stable and she seemed to eat a bit less and avoid her super big meals that result in her really packing it in. She did not say much and I figured it was better not to bring it up. My guess is that her weight remained unchanged, but I did not know. As I have little to update, I thought I would answer a few questions people have asked in direct messages: 1. Does she have stretch marks? She barely has any stretch marks and just does not seem to be prone to getting them. There is a bit on the sides of her belly, but they are pretty faint. 2. What do I dislike the most about her weight? How it effects her self image and makes her unhappy. That is worse than everything else combined. 3. Has she ever had really long hair? Not really. She prefers her hair shorter and even did growing up. It has been below her shoulders, but not much longer since I met her. I doubt she will ever grow it really long, but you never know. 4. Does she sweat a lot? She is not too bad, but once she gets hot and starts sweating, she does not stop for quite some time no matter what. Even if she showers she will keep sweating. If anyone has other questions, feel free to ask.
  2. I try to share my stories (most of which are true, but with some parts exaggerated or made up) to make others aware of what it is like to be with a very big woman who I am very attracted to. I go into details, some of which bore most readers, to let people into my world. My hope is to let others like me know that they are not alone. I would love to read similar stories from others, as I often feel very alone in this situation.
  3. That is a great article and it raises a valid point that you can be attracted to bigger women just because you find her attractive and not because it is a fetish. I think the word fetish is misused and misunderstood. It seems like if men find women beautiful if she has features that are not conventionally attractive, it must be a fetish. That label pretty much implies that bigger women are not attractive, but our "deviant fetish" makes us find them attractive anyhow. That is just not true. It perpetuates the message that bigger women are ugly and should change how they look.
  4. January 2024 (295 lbs) After the holidays my wife slowed her eating down a bit but did not try to diet like she has in past years. She did not complain about her weight and I felt like she was almost in a good place with her acceptance of her own body. At least as good a place as she could be in. Her morning routine changed so we had to share our bathroom for a longer period before work. This meant I got to see her while she was getting ready and usually not wearing clothes. After all of these years, I still love every moment when I see all of her. It may sound silly, but I literally looked forward to waking up to in anticipation of seeing her without clothes on. Her hair was getting longer too, so she was spending more timing styling it, which she would do before getting dressed. When she grows more length she has to straighten her hair that takes her more time. I think this was the first time in years I was encouraging her to keep her hair longer. To be fair, this morning time was not exactly romantic and she had to get to work, so I had to look but not touch. I was just happy that she was fine with me being around and did not care with me seeing her doing her make up, on the toilet or styling her hair. The comfort that she now had was a turn out for me. She still did not like how her body looked, but she could tell I was into it. She would still catch me staring at her butt or boobs when we were in there. I did not care and if she commented, I would tell her that if she wants me to stop she should not look so sexy.
  5. December 2023 (294 lbs) Soon after Thanksgiving my wife brought up her eating and said that she just wanted to enjoy the holidays and not worry about everything that she would put in her mouth. This made me happy and I realized she was deciding that her dieting was not worth it. Like usual, I just let her know that I loved how she looked and I care about her being happy - not thin. It did not take long until I noticed the difference with her eating and she was not afraid to eat as much as she wanted. I forgot how she could pack it in and I really liked seeing it. I did not say much to her either way, but suggested a few trips to buffets. I also liked seeing her make the most out of family get togethers were there was lots of food around.. Our time together sent her the clear message that I was attracted to her. I usually try to show her how I am attracted to her in actions as opposed to words. She was pleased with this and was happy with the physical side of our relationship. She did not complain about her weight and I suspect she put on about 5 pounds over the month, but I am just guessing. A few pounds either way does not show much on her, but I can sort of see her clothes fitting her tighter. I usually also notice when she makes comments about how she looks. I was happy she was being herself and was not trying to lose more weight.
  6. I have posted about my wife. and her weight gain over the years I enjoy sharing and hope some readers like it. I keep it totally anonymous and change some details to be safe. My wife would not be happy if I published photos of her.
  7. I always sort of found bigger features attractive. For me, big boobs and full butts were always something I would notice. When I started dating women, I found intimacy with bigger women better. With that said, most women I dated were not all that big. Some were even skinny. I had one brief encounter with a very big women in college, but even then did not realize that it was what I liked best. When I met my wife, she was not very big but had the features I like. She is naturally big but used to diet to stay thin. After we git together she realized she could be who she wanted to be and she started getting bigger. As she grew, I realized I am attracted to bigger women. I now really only find bigger women attractive. I have posted the story of my wife's progression over the years:
  8. November 2023 (289 lbs) Doing monthly updates is not that easy, as some months not much happens with my wife's weight and body. It is not the same as when she really changed early on in our relationship. I still try to update what I can and understand that it might not be the most exciting. I am always happy to answer questions on here and share my experience with and love for a bigger woman who I am lucky to have as a wife. This month my most memorable experience with my wife and her body was when i got to see her in the bathtub. She does not take baths too often and will usually lock the bathroom door when she does. This time I cam into the bathroom and she was in the tub. Although she is not a huge fan of me just staring at her when she is like that she accepts it after all of these years. She knows that I love it. I try to not look too excited at seeing her like that, but i think she knows that I am. Needless to say it is an amazing site for me. Her boobs usually hang down, which gives them a certain look. In the tub, they float in a way that really shows them off and shows their size and fullness. Her lower section which is rather side also looks amazing in there and is a bit squeezed to fit. I know may explanation does not do it justice. She is also in what I would describe as winter grooming mode, so her body had a fair bit of hair on it. She also started eating a little more as Thanksgiving approached. I suspect she will be a little less concerned about her weight over the holidays.
  9. Trying to control her weight will likely backfire. Let her do what she wants and show your support for her size. Over time, nature will likely take its course. I do try to make sure my wife always has food available and i sometimes encourage her to just enjoy life and eat if it makes her happy.
  10. October 2023 (287 lbs) Well not a huge amount to update for the month, but my wife continued to watch what she has been eating. I would not call it a diet, but a bit of a change. I am not sure, but I suspect she might have lost a couple more pounds. Her loss of weight over the past few months is something we have both noticed. I realize with the holidays coming she may have a hard time keeping it up. I sort of have mixed feeling about her eating over the holidays, as I know she is watching herself but love seeing her eat what she wants. One incident was her talking about growing up as a girl who struggled with her size. She rarely talks about it and sort of acts like it was not an issue. We were at her parents looking at old photos and she mentioned that she always hated how she looked and was sometimes embarrassed to even leave her house. I did not think she looked bad in the photos that I saw, but knew there was little I could say to help. She does not believe me when I tell her things like that. She mentioned that it really became a major issue when she developed early and looked different from most of her friends. She said that was also a problem, as she always felt like guys were staring at her features and it made her self conscious. The way her mom tried to help with how she dressed and wore her hair seemed to make matters worse for her. I guess this is not all that uncommon, but it made me feel bad. I am glad she is more comfortable with her size now.
  11. Both her band and cup size tends to vary based on the make of bra that she buys. The bras she recently bought were on the larger size for cups and (I think) for band size too. She has learned that the bigger fit is usually better for her, even if she does not like to think of herself as being that size.
  12. September 2023 (289 lbs) My wife's efforts to reduce her weight continued. I do not think she lost much weight, but did not appear to gain weight either. My guess is that she might have lost a pound or two, but am not sure. I have tried to support her dieting, but let her know that she makes these decisions for herself and not for me. I love her being very big, but also know she needed to be mindful of her health. A few pounds less is better for that. Another change this month is that she started wearing new bras that really seemed to make a difference. She has always had very big boobs, even when she was much smaller and weighed much less. Over the years they have grown as she has. For me, the bigger the better. She does not feel that way and has issues with them both it terms of appearance and comfort. If we could afford it, I am sure she would have got a reduction. She hates how they sag down, where I really like the look no matter how they hang. As she reminds me, I do not have to live with them. I still never get sick of seeing them. She got new bras that gave her much more support and made her boobs stick out more than usual. I liked the look and she was just happy with having more support and less sag. The bras are not the sexy type but to her the support and comfort is more important. I was happy she got them and suggested that she gets more.
  13. I appreciate your concern for her health. Fortunately, she has not had any serious health concerns due to her weight. Her doctor monitors issues and tries to ensure she is okay. She has back pain and that is likely related to her size. She is not in great shape, but can still walk long distances and has no issue with stairs. There are other minor issues like yeast irritation related to her weight and rolls. I hope that is not too much information. We both know she would be healthier if she was smaller, but she is naturally a big women. She does not smoke or drink heavily.
  14. August 2023 (290 lbs) My wife continued to watch her weigh over the summer and it might have made a bit of a difference, but I am not certain. As she is pretty full figured, it is not that easy to tell when her weigh changes by a couple pounds. She is not even sure and we do not have a scale in our house. She can usually tell by how her clothes fit her. She tries to wear clothes that leave her some room as she wants to be comfortable. One development that has become more common over the years as my wife has grown is her need to have me help her with areas that she cannot comfortably reach anymore. From talking to others with big wives, I have learned that this is very common. I hope this does not sound bad, but it is something that I really enjoy and look forward to. It is special time together that makes me feel good. At times it is as simple as cutting her toe nails, but it also involves helping her groom. Over the years she has become very comfortable around me and having me seeing her from pretty much any angle. I had the chance to help her one weekend morning when she had just finished showering and was still getting ready in our bathroom. She was doing her hair which these days does not take her too long (one of the benefits of short hair). I came into our bathroom and she asked me to help her trim the hair on her neck, which seemed to grow in within two weeks of her getting her hair cut. This has been a routine for us whenever she has her hair short and off her neck. We have little clippers for this and I am pretty used to using them on her. Well I started with the clippers on her neck and after that was done offered to help with other places. I will not get into details, but can say it was not a fast process and within 45 minutes, she was pretty smooth all over. It is times like these when I feel very lucky to have a wife like I do.
  15. July 2023 (292 lbs) I cannot say too much developed with my wife's weight and I think she might have actually lost a few more pounds. She was not starving herself, but seemed to be making an effort to eat a little less. It did still not make a huge difference and I suspect few even noticed. What stood out more was that my wife's decided to go shorter with her hair for the summer. She usually keeps it on the shorter side and she knows that I like it that way. I am not against longer hair, but am very used to her now having hair that is short and easy. She used to worry more about it being too short but it now is very comfortable just letting her stylist keep it short, even is she sometimes lets it get a little longer. I guess her stylist was in a cutting mood when she visited her this time. She came home with her hair shorter than it has been in a few years. It was clipped in the back so I could almost see scalp (her hair is not very thick). That night we were cuddling and she asked if I was really okay with her hair this short. This is a discussion we have had many times, but she is still not all that secure about it. I let her know that I loved it that way and she could go as short as she wanted and I would not complain, Even after all of these years, I still can tell that she is not sure if she really believes me when I tell her that she is beautiful.
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