Onlybbwplease

It isn't cholesterol or anything, literally perfect health...

Yes this is where I am at. A1c or health wasn't even an issue. Just a chiropractor referring some Dr for hormone issues. Health 100% OK, then this Dr says these shots will fix her hormones. They haven't, just made her deflate about 60lbs so far. Even though she's like 60lbs heavier than before our 2nd kid, she looks deflated, and sexual attraction is lost due to loose skin, and just she looks and feels deflated. Everyone tells her how great she looks etc... IDK I will continue to support her and be a good husband, just depressing seeing this and nothing I can do.

Unsure how to kill/close a thread but this one can be killed. I’m so depressed.

Gaining is over, I am distraught. Her latest physical she weighed in at 294. Everything on the bloodwork was perfect aside from cholesterol which was slightly elevated. I am 165lbs and have higher LDL levels, along with her dad who is late 60s and high LDL. So it is genetic, and all her family has lived into their 90s. But she's been having hip and lower back pain and been seeing a chiropractor. Chiro referred her to a Dr who then prescribed her peptides aka Ozempic even though she's nowhere near a diabetic. So she was freaked out apparently by cholesterol numbers and the hip pain she had. Now not only is she losing rapid weight, but I am paying $600 per month out of pocket. She's down 20 lbs already. This fucking sucks, no way around it. Any advice?

Man I wish she was 5x. Maybe someday haha. She still can ride me with little issues. Missionary is different than it used to be. We use 2-3 pillows to prop her up and give me easier access. Then doggy. The old “easy” positions of trying to sneak in a quickie behind her or easy missionary are out the window. Her toys have also gotten more diverse.

It goes thru ebbs and flows. 4 times a week for a month, then will taper to 1-2x and back. As far as how good it is, she even admits it’s the best we’ve ever had. We’ve experimented with new positions that have been amazing. I’d just keep feeding her compliments and she’ll eventually need her needs met.

Apologies for lack of updates. The gain train is still full speed ahead, but it’s been a few bumps. She’s been eating everything in sight the last 4-5 months, but due to nursing she’s stayed pretty steady with weight. I guess better than losing 50lbs. She has slowed on nursing and after putting the little one down, she’ll take a gummy. It causes her to eat about everything under the sun before bed. Her 2x undershirts are now way too small. We also had her family in town last week and her aunt was folding laundry and had to be shocked her former 145lb cheerleader niece is now wearing everything 3-4x.

Healthy baby was born in June and we forgot how “fun” no sleep is. TBH unsure her weight. But she’s large, and so damn sexy. Kind of funny, she went to a follow up appt 2 weeks ago with her Dr and she lost 3 lbs from leaving the hospital. I didn’t press on the weight she is. She got home and said “Dr XYZ was slightly disappointed I only lost 3 lbs. I had to ask myself how I lost weight given I’ve put no effort into it” my guess is that it was first thing in the morning so her weight was down Also 3 of our neighbors had kids recently. 2 mentioned doing like a workout program with all 4 of them. My wife laughed and just said you ladies have fun, but I’m not stepping foot in a gym.

Probably TMI…. She is not like a hippie or super feminist. Not that there’s anything wrong with it. She just is 7 months pregnant and hasn’t shaved her legs in a couple weeks. She went and got a pedicure and the lady pointed it out. She said there was 2 other customers on each side of her. She just said “My husband doesn’t care, as you can see I’m pregnant and fat, which I am ok with, and if I let it grow then I’m sorry you have to deal with it” Wife said the other 2 ladies were like amen, my husband gets mad when I eat a cheeseburger. Freaking good for you.

She got her wedding ring re sized. Obviously with pregnancy her fingers are a tad swollen. She went from I think a size 5 to a size 11 and the salesperson at the jeweler was concerned that it couldn’t be done to go that big from where it was. Thankfully they were, but it sounds like that’s the only time they can re size it. Was funny talking to her mom about it. “When you lose this baby weight, you can go and get it back to where it was at” Haha. Neither are happening.

Baby due in 3 months. She’s perfectly healthy and up about 30lbs so far. That scale is about to read 300 (thanks pregnancy). But man what a number.

We’re going to Disneyland in a week. My wife made comment how expensive the plane ride will be in a few years when we have to pay for 5. I just half jokingly responded that we’ll take up both rows, she thought it meant I want a 4th kid. I told her me plus 3 kids and her 2 seats. She did some googling and essentially was like do you know how wide that is. I just shrugged and laughed. We then last night were snuggling after a fun little night in bed. That’s when it seems both of us are the most open. She mentioned how happy our marriage has been the last few years that I’ve been open about how attractive she is, no matter her size. She joked she used to hide her sweet tooth and now she uses it to her advantage. We started round 2 and she then said something in the moment about how fucking huge she’s gonna be after this kid and how sexy she will be. I said how huge and she said as fucking huge as you want me. Obviously that was in the moment, but this morning I did my daily walk behind her, grab the belly and give her a kiss and I asked how serious she was. She just replied “as long as I’m not diabetic annd I’m healthy and you make enough money to support me, you can have as much as me as you want.” Time to make more money lol.

I was folding laundry earlier* and accidentally put one of her shirts and a pair of pants with our blankets. That’s how big they are haha. Also, she just went to the dermatologist for an annual checkup, and the dermatologist legit checked her rolls on her sides and back. She made the comment that she was worried that there’d be infection under them, and said her skin was perfect under them. So that means I’m doing a good job with my daily lotioning. Also means the Dr legit was worried given her big rolls/fat folds. Lol. *for those wanting this lifestyle, be prepared to do all the household chores. I don’t mind it, but it is a pain at times. But not as big of a pain comparatively to how sexy my wife has become.

Wife still healthy with the baby. Also, I’m unsure if the OB office does it on purpose or not, but I go to baby appts with her, and they have us both go in a room, then they take her out for weight and BP separate from me. That’s different than the first 2. But from the sounds of it all is good. The Dr hasn’t mentioned a word about her weight. We went down south to see family and let’s just say there’s a lot of good food down there. My favorite line of hers was “diet starts next year!” as she just hammered snacks and 5th meals. She’s getting massive by the day and most important still healthy. No baby bump yet, and unsure if there will be one given here already massive belly. I’d venture to say she is 275 now (baby in tow)

The baby is due first week of June. So she is only like 8-10 weeks, and the latest appointment was perfect health wise. BP at 108/70, and she's listed as "high risk" due to her size, but her Dr has almost zero concerns. She is getting fucking huge. She gained about 50-60 lbs both the first 2 pregnancies, first one lost it all, second one put on another 70 lol. I basically do everything around the house now such as dishes and laundry. The other day I was folding, and a kid had a size 5 pants, but it said 5x. I joked and said, "maybe I can fold another 5x soon" and she just laughed and said you don't want me that big, I can barely move now. She's also been on a shopping spree, not for maternity clothes, but for just fat clothes from torrid and lane bryant. It seems she's using the pregnancy to make an "excuse" to show off her body. At thanksgiving, she wore super high waisted leggings with a tucked in shirt and her belly was amazing. Then announced the pregnancy so maybe she assume people were like she's fat cause she's pregnant haha? But given her size, I doubt she will "show" as she's already massive and unsure if say an 8lb baby will really show.