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Soon the belly will be well in front of the boobs. And the boobs will be closer to the belly button :D

The width is there, and so is the chub:D Welcome back

It sure looks like she's going to get heavier in the belly than I expected if she keeps going like this... You're goin to have quite a matron soon!

Amen.

That's quite a mom look here You know what I'd add lol

Well I can just contribute with one thing - I didn't have significant sleep apnea (I think) but I snored a lot, and wife did tell me sometimes it sounds like I take "a break from breathing" at night. Not that I'm very big, 200 lbs at 5'7" is not that much for a guy, especially of my build. That being said, the usual advice is to lose weight but in my case it was enough just stop eating anything significant 5-6 hours before going to sleep - which I learned when I tried mild intermittent fasting. And there you have it, little to no snoring and I do wake up feeling much better and with more energy. Interestingly enough, my allergy also got milder since then and I rarely feel sleepy during the day whereas before I had a hard time not having a nap during the day if I didn't stuff myself with caffeine.

First of all... congrats! Secondly... does that mean she will not watch out more in terms of her weight? Or actually the other way round?

Geez, I wish my wife was addicted to such shakes. With her metabolism that would probably make her hit 300 lbs within less than 2 years (220 now). You're lucky but you already know it :D Side note: for some reason I like that bracelet of hers on the pic ;). Reminds me of pearls :D

Gorgeous - if she keeps on going like that she is in for being 300 lbs before she knows it. And I sure wish you that happening

Have you ever shown her a morph of her in larger size? I'm not asking about showing her pics of some BBW/SSBBW models because that could obviously go south fast :D

So... You basically told her you want her to fatten up for you? And she was like - ok, now gimme my burgers and shakes?

As in, it was called like that and she happily devoured them anyway? :D Or were they gain shakes disguised as your everyday dessert? ;)

I believe them rolls are for theeI'd say make them grow wave by waveIf you feel aloneGo end up in a big ol' pile of them rolls

Well, all good things come to an end :D. At least temporarily. She got the meal plan and has been sticking to it so far, although she confessed on multiple occasions that while is not going hungry, she keeps thinking of having something more "standard". Today she has her surgery and I just dropped her off at the clinic and I'm now sitting at home and keeping my fingers crossed. I'm curious what effect the surgery will have, as it is supposed to not only help with pregnancy but fix her hormonal problems to some degree too - which may also have an impact on her weight in some way. Also, perhaps it will also stabilise her mood a bit more. There's a lot of question marks here so only time will tell.

Whoa, didn't update in a while. Not that there is that much to update about, but in recent months wife DEFINITELY gained weight. I'm just not sure how much. I can feel it, it shows in her face and she has been complaining about "not being able to keep her weight in check" between having an occasional pizza for supper or a bowl of crisps after the "normal" supper. Would love to find out her exact weight but she didn't tell me and I'm not asking, as we have a past history about her getting annoyed with me being too focused on numbers . The thing is, we've been trying for the 2nd kid but no luck so far because of her hormonal issues. She's been taking some fertility boosting meds and some of them are said to have side effects such as weigh gain or tendency to eat more, while at the same time with her condition it is often the case that a small weight loss boosts fertility too (something about switching the body to burn instead of store causes it AFAIK). Anyway, she now wants to take advantage of that latter effect so she ordered a meal plan from a dietician. It is now in preparation. And guess what my wife is doing in the meantime? Basically, enjoying her "last days of food freedom". "Last" being a small exaggeration here, because I'm quite sure she ends up dropping it at some point once it's no longer necessary for the pregnancy. But anyway... She is waiting to get the meal plan and in the meantime she basically does everything to get more weight to lose :P. Snacking, asking me for an extra sandwich, big takeouts for dinner, pizza for supper... I'm starting to think that it's a good measure of whether your SO is actually going to lose any weight in the long run. Namely: if you treat diet as something to survive through and you treat it as the end of your normal life, you won't end up losing weight. Same is if you drop your diet just because you failed to adhere to it for a day or a few. Women (or, generally, people) with that kind of approach are guaranteed not to lose anything, not lose much, or even yoyo up to higher than they were before. Also, the funny thing is that I myself actually went on a diet. Sort of. I basically went for 16-8 intermittent fasting. I expected her to jump on the wagon and, say, do not eat supper too or eat a tiny one only, considering how she usually prefers not to eat alone. Instead, she just increased the size of her meals together with me within my eating window from 8 AM to 4 PM, but keeps eating "normally" outside of it. So she basically upped her calorie intake in practice. Go figure Obviously, once the meal plan appears that will no longer be the case, but the question is - for how long? My hope is that the surgery (and perhaps the diet) will fix things quick and I will make her pregnant again before she manages to lose anything more than a couple of pounds. 3.5 years after first pregnancy started she is around 30 lbs heavier and almost back to her top weight (10 lbs short if my assumptions are correct), so I think it might not be too crazy to expect her to end up that much bigger (or more!) after the next such period, considering how it reportedly is even more difficult to shed pregnancy weight if you start at a higher weight. TL;DR: Just give me my mom-of-2, 250+ lbs wife already! 😜

That will definitely do it ;). Exercising has a really bad rep in FA community but as far as I can tell if a gal has fat genes and likes food, exercising will only make her feel better as well as improve her health. It might also build some muscle which technically cal lead to more calories burnt but it will also make carrying extra weight easier, so there is less chance of her falling into "fat panic" :P Diets are also rarely a thing to worry about because 95% of women (ignorant estimate, mind you) choose diets that are not sustainable and will sooner make them yoyo than maintain any lower weight. Just be patient :).

Don't worry that much about exercising as long as she eats a lot. She is actually right - she will feel lighter but that's about it. Only exercises + diet or really SERIOUS exercising with "normal" eating would lead to weight gain. Especially if she has such a tendency to gain. My wife actually gained faster when she started exercising, because it was an hour of exercising but easily 600 kcal more per day as she was starving in the evening later (she exercised in early evening/late afternoon).

Moar, please

My advice? Move in together. This might solve your problem one way or another. I advise against marrying or having kids before you have lived for at least a year together. She can try losing in the meantime, you'll see how that goes, if she's in upper BBW range it's unlikely she will ever get skinny, barring surgeries, and even then it's not guaranteed to be for life. But there is a quite likely course of events that: 1. you move in together, she starts losing. 2. losing is hard and if you work well together she may become more relaxed about her weight - that being said, if her self esteem is low, you better not be found looking on any other chicks, be it fat or skinny. 3. you get engaged, that might alleviate her presumptive fears of "what will happen if he dumps me and i'm stuck in a world where fat chicks like me are consider unattractive", and she either stops losing altogether or just decides to lose some to safeguard her health just in case but will remain quite curvy. TL;DR: Make her feel that she is in control, make her feel loved and secure, and test your relationship in the hard art of living together. And then the right choice will present itself a lot easier.

Ok, time for the more on-topic part two. The idea of "going above expectations" so to say has been a frequent element of my fantasies/stories, be it in the form of a woman who wants to let herself go for a short while but ends up spiralling out of control, a fattening plan that goes further than intended because the lady fattened is slightly "too receptive", and so on... I often fantasized of stuff like making a wish to have my wife weigh 300 lbs that would somehow get twisted into her gaining *extra* 300 lbs, or her being sent for a "fattening makeover vacation" and coming back not only fatter than intended but also looking a good bit older, like a fat middle aged matron, and so on... Loss of control is a frequent part of my fantasies, be it with regard to the woman getting fatter or my own control over how she ends up looking (to a degree). Realistically, though, I'm quite sure that with my wife's figure type the health and practicality issues on her part would kick in much sooner than any problems in terms of her attractiveness to me. She has a very nice figure for getting bigger and considering how many 400-500 lbs models still look attractive to me, I'm quite sure that it is not an issue I should worry about. That being said, I'm not a feeder, just an FA.

Considering the situation with my wife, I'm actually surprised how out of shape some of you say your partners are. At her heaviest (245 lbs), my wife was still hiking with me. She did get a bit tired when going upwards, but not to the point of losing her breath. We never went to the mountains, but long walks through hilly terrain were definitely possible back then. And that was BEFORE she started doing more exercises. There was a time she was not too fond of walking long distances, but that was not because of her fitness, but because hypothyroidism made her prone to swelling and also to getting blister on her feet whenever she went on foot. And her energy levels were lower back then, but it is not like she ever got out of breath. Also, I talked with some other girl who is now 250 lbs or so but used to be upwards of 300 lbs, up to around 320-330, I believe. She said that she does not feel any difference in terms of her fitness between these weights - the only thing that losing weight gave her was a bigger selection of clothing, she said. That being said, she had not health issues whatsoever and was having light, but regular exercise. So, it's not really the weight itself that makes someone have low fitness... At least up to some point. Wanted to also write a bit about how I feel about this whole "too big" thing, but need to take a break now so I will write another post about that aspect later.

She is ok healthwise? And how does she feel about handling a baby at this size? To be clear, I'm not asking because I want to criticise or anything. It's just that major weight gain as a result of pregnancy has been a constant topic in my fantasies about my wife, but I always thought them to be a little "dark" considering how such a major (and relatively quick) gain would impact her mobility, health, and the capability to enjoy her motherhood. Would be fun to hear a brighter side to such a story :D. Or at least a real-life one, if it's a mixed bag.

How is she handling that weight? I mean, how mobile is she and does she experience many difficulties?

I've been mostly doing drawings of various hairstyle/makeup combos as this is another major fetish of mine, but recently I tried doing two (almost)-full body shots. Sorry for quality, these are just slightly edited scans of them drawn on grid paper. Thinking of getting some cheap drawing tablet to practice further.