Spouses and weight loss / gain

[oatmeal]

Yeah similar boat. She is at 199 at 5 ft 4. A few years ago i would have given my left nut to have her gain 50 pounds. Now that she has im greedy and dont want her to lose an ounce. 

Even when she has a pig out day that would sabatoge any chance of her losing weight that week it still hurts watching her refuse a second helping or drinking water instead of wine. I want more of that women not less.