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On 8/12/2018 at 3:10 PM, Dr. Feeder said:

Well there's love and then there's hotness.

Myth: if you love someone they're the hottest person in the world in your eyes.  That would be ideal but it doesn't always work out that way.

Nor is it true that the hottest person in the world would be a good choice for a partner.

So I don't condemn the original poster. He's just mentioning one of the trade-offs one has to make in life.

 

  

He’s attracted to fat chicks but not dating them. You make it sound like someone needs to be thin in order to be attractive non-physically, which makes no sense. 

 

You don’t need to make trade-offs. That’s my point. 

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2 minutes ago, Dr. Feeder said:

He's not dating anyone...he has a girlfriend. He loves her in spite of her being thin. I imagine he'd prefer it if she got fat and looked more like the cousin, but love is not just about body size.

When you really love someone it doesn't feel like a trade-off...it feels like she's the best person in the world, even if she fall short of some of your ideals. And even if you love her but not in the head-over-heels sense, she's probably a better match than a random woman who can beat her in one attribute.

But in general if you're not already in love with someone of course you make trade-offs. Say my ideal would be a woman who is 5'7", 200 pounds, 23 years old, doesn't smoke and plays the oboe but I can't find any like that who are into me.  But I do know two different women who satisfy four of those criteria. Do I wait, possibly forever, for Miss Perfect? Or do I choose one of the Miss Pretty-Goods?  It's a trade-off.

He’s not married, he’s dating. There are great fat girls out there. Go get em. 

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