itisreallyme

I got a fun little story from a party I attended last night (NYE). The party I attended was a sort of underground rave/kink friendly party with music, fire spinning, and drugs run by a local "burning man" affiliated group in my city. Lots of scantily clad women (and men) and large dancefloors both inside and outside of a warehouse-esque space. At one point in the evening, I was looking around just taking in the "sights" when I witnessed (I think) something peculiar. A couple was interacting near the dancefloor, making out a bit and just holding each other close. The girl was particularly curvy and had a similar build/outfit as this, with a belt on the jeans: (screen capture of a lmbb stuffing vid) Possibly a different colored shirt, but that's besides the point. You get the image in your head. Anyway, I was just admiring her for a few seconds when the guy she was with grabbed ahold of the belt and kinda shook her, making her belly/torso jiggle a bit. The girl almost seemed to blush in emarassment. They seemed to say something to one another and then continued to make out. After witnessing this, I built a story in my head that he was teasing her about gaining weight and her outfit being a bit tight. Regardless of whether he was actually her feeder of just admirer of her chub or none of the above, it was an interesting situation to witness. Possible FA interaction out in the wild.

I also like the idea of short spurts that are agreed upon, even if the weight isn't necessarily permanent. One hang up I always have about this fetish is that I'm an active person and want a partner is also active and values an active lifestyle. That doesn't exactly mesh with being attracted to people who are overweight or attracted to the idea of a formerly fit person gaining a bunch.

Big Cuties has her listed as retired. No idea why she left but I'm sure her absence here is related.

Agreed, it doesn't need to be a coming out. At the very least, it should just be a preference one has for a bit of chub on women. No need to be ashamed by what you like. The source of that shame you're feeling is just social/cultural norms. Let it go and just enjoy what you enjoy.

Ya psychological manipulation is definitely the way to go.

Amazing dude. You clearly have her best interests at heart. Start small and slow. There's ways you can make small goals just as exciting as larger goals, especially initially.