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Hi there, I’m new and just wanted to stop in and say hi, so hi! My girlfriend, FloralFeedee, introduced me to this site recently and I’m just starting to explore around it. I’m looking forward to what being here will bring and being able to share myself with all of you.

I am in my 40s and I tried a lot of dating apps in the past. I met a lot of ladies and most of them where bbw and ssbbw. I tried dating skinny girls again once and It wasn't the best idea. I also wasn't crazy about them and they notice it. lol 😅 Now in 2020,I find it hard now to find the ideal girlfriend because dating website are a pain in the ass. They force you to pay to either check who liked you or see your messages. I find it discouraging because I don't want to spend 40+$ to just speak to girls. I also don't want to spend time swipping profiles all the time either. I got better things to do. loll The ideal girl for me are ssbbw with big boobs and a big ass. Also with a nice personality that loves cuddles and will follow me in my travels. Those are rare now because girls get a lot of message from bad, salty guys and their attitude changes after this. 🙁 Any tips on how to survice the dating apocalypse and find the right ssbbw girlfriend in 2020 and beyond? I am loosing hope.

Hey everyone, I've seen a lot of interesting stories and I wanted to share my own. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost half a year now and met her when she was quite curvy, she was 5'6, 178 lbs and an hourglass shape. Over the course of 4 months during quarantine we have been snacking like crazy (her especially). We went to KFC a lot which at the time was our only way of "going out" and I made sure there were enough snacks around when watching movies together, though she often bought snacks herself because she loves snacking. This all caused her to gain up to 200 lbs even though she wanted to lose weight rather that gain weight. At first she didn't like when she gained 5 lbs but now at 200 she seems like she has fully embraced it because I can sometimes catch a glimpse of her rubbing her belly and a couple weeks ago she slapped her belly and said "I know I'm hot". She also has no diet plans and said working out wasn't for her.

Title says it all. Anyone know of any good BBWs that are like a couple that makes content together? Either a real life couple or just for show. I'm just a chubby lesbian looking for representation guys 😂😂

Quarantining has been good for girlfriend. We've been dating a few years and most of that time she's had a flat stomach and even used to show off to her friends that she could fit into some youth clothes. I think she's the most beautiful woman in the world no matter what, but I've always wondered what she'd look like with extra weight because I like ** bellies on girls. She knows I think that's cute but I don't think has thought much of it. She's almost 30 and about a year ago she developed this cute little pudge. Only really noticeable when she wears a dress or a tighter shirt. Anyone who didn't know her wouldn't think anything of it, just a small roll above her belt. She said it was from sitting down and slouching all day so it formed from that. She called it an office pouch. In march she was furloughed from her job so was at home a lot and bored, so she was snacking and drinking beer a lot. In that time she says she's gained about 15 pounds and it's all gone to her belly. Her butt is a bit bigger too and I noticed she felt softer when we were in bed but it's mostly in the belly. The rest is unchanged. It's a lot in a short space of time. It's become really noticeable lately and sticks out.. She's really self conscious about it and is always playing with it and commenting on how fat she's gotten. She doesn't want to sleep together or even be seen sometimes even though I've reassured her that I think she's the best she's ever looked and suits it. She went back to work two weeks ago and her work clothes don't fit. She unbuttons her jeans when she's sitting at her desk and as soon as she gets home. I don't think anyone has said anything to her about it but she's more self conscious that she ought to be I think. I look at side by side photos of her and there's definitely growth, and of course I think she looks better. Knowing that I like it seems to have made her more self conscious. She said she wants to go running with me but hasn't yet and her diets last a few days so I don't know if that means she's becoming comfortable or just lazy? I'll put my hand on her belly when we're cuddling on the couch and she actually seems to enjoy me kissing it in bed. A few nights ago she took her shirt off and asked me to check for moles. Her stomach was looking really round so I started touching and kissing it, it was very soft. She seemed to be enjoying it but then stopped and looked embarassed. I love how she looks but if she wants to lose it I'll support her, but I'll be sad. I always knew I liked a bit of a belly on a girl but I didn't know it was a fetish until now. We went to the store today and her messenger bag pulled her shirt tight around her bust so her belly really stuck out and I couldn't contain myself. It's hard walking around a busy store feeling like that. I'm trying to be respectful as I can while also letting her know how I feel about it, although not as explicitly as I am here because I don't want to make her feel worse. She not wanting to do anything in bed and covering up more has caused me to take a few showers by myself let me tell you. Then there are other days where she loves the attention of it and thinks my compliments of her are sweet. She plays with her stomach so much that I think she might actually like how she looks but is worried what everyone else thinks since not many people have seen her in a while. She used to poke fun at my belly when I gained a bit of weight not long after we met. She said "who's your new friend." There's no way she'd let me joke like that with her. I don't know how to help her. I'm not sure if I should continue to compliment her and she'll finally see what I see. If she wants to slim down and I'm going to help her I don't know if her gain has come from beer or snacks or what. I think knowing might help so I can figure out how to help her best. Of course I'd like to make her more comfortable and be able to look at her and her belly every day, it makes my day seeing her and when we do do anything it's great. My therapist said she might come and be more comfortable as time goes on, but that it's important to be supportive of what she wants. For now she told me to write in a notebook of everything I feel, all my urges. Or write a story or something. If anyone is in a similar situation, I'll tell you, I think it helps. But it's still hard.

Hello, i'm a 31 years old Swiss guy who want to find a chubby gainer girlfriend between 18 and 34 years old. I live near Lausanne in Switzerland.

So, most of this probably isn’t relevant, but I’m going to write this just in case, as background information. My girlfriend and I have been dating for seven months now, we met in person as friends but we live a long way away from each other, so since we started dating, we’ve been dating long distance the whole time, and I am partially blind while she is fully blind. I told her about my preference for fat girls in December, and as expected, she seemed kind of confused about it (admittedly, I could have done a better job, I was just nervous). We’ve talked about it a couple of times since then, but it seems like she’s accepted it for the most part. An important point that I forgot to mention is that she’s 5’ 1” (1.47m) and 105lbs (48kg). Originally when we met, based on what I could see plus a handful of times that I accidentally ran into her, I had thought that she was kind of chubby, but nope. So, here’s the thing. She has told me that she doesn’t care about her weight in the slightest, and has even mentioned that she’s kind of jealous of one of my exes that I’ve told her about, because she was 300lbs (136kg). There are two things holding her back from gaining, from what I can tell. First, she has the strangest appetite. Some days, she can eat a bacon cheeseburger with fries and a soda and still be hungry. Other days, however, she just eats a granola bar and that keeps her full all day long. She frequently skips meals, in her own words, out of sheer laziness. The other thing holding her back, though, seems to be the bigger barrier. She is really, really a perfectionist. From my understanding, to her, the fact that to me her appearance isn’t perfect really upsets her. To the point where she would rather just not address it than face it and concede that she could improve herself in my eyes. To clarify, I love her. I love her as she is, I love her for who she is. I think that she is beautiful as she is (especially since she has a surprisingly large double chin for a girl her size). Currently, I don’t plan to raise the topic again until it comes up naturally. My philosophy on it is that we’re long distance right now anyway, so it’s not worth upsetting her about it. All that I can do is to keep calling her beautiful and giving her compliments to boost her self esteem. But I mean, I know that I have no right to dictate how she looks or anything ridiculous like that. It’s just that, y’know, I can help but imagine her a hundred pounds heavier. So... Even though I don’t think I’m going to take action any time soon, does anyone have any advice or opinions?

My girlfriend has gained a little bit of weight recently and is starting to develop a belly. As much as I love how her body is growing, she doesn’t love it so much, and I can tell that she feels a little self conscious. Does anyone have any ways that might help me improve how she sees her body? Or at least any methods of making her comfortable with her body? I really enjoy the new weight and sex has gotten more and more sensational, so I don’t really want her to lose weight, but maybe that’s way too selfish.

My girlfriend was about 125 pounds when we first met years ago. Then she slowly started to gain weight and when she was about 150 pounds she realized she's getting kinda fat. She actually tried to lose weight for like a year or two and without noticing (and kinda forgetting the whole trying to lose weight thing) she gained 10-15 pounds. Then I had a talk with her and said that I also like bigger girls. She was pretty excited about it cause she's relatively lazy and likes food. She gained weight until she was 170-175 pounds and stayed at that weight for a while. A little bit under a year ago I told her that I would love if she gained some weight. We decided that 200 pounds would be a good goal at first. She has gained 18 pounds since then (from 170 to 188). The weight didn't come that fast at first but she's slowly realizing she needs to eat more than she thought, so the weight is piling up way faster at the moment. She also wants to try modeling (probably here in curvage) and we bought a new camera. We are still trying to learn how to use the camera so all the pictures are taken with a phone. The photos are from oldest to newest, although all of these are pretty recent. She will probably show her face once we start doing stuff with the new camera.

Hey there, I am a 22 y/o male FA who, in June of 2016, got into a celibate dating relationship with my best friend. She's about 5'2 and when I met her she was probably 105-110 lbs. She doesn't have a car, so she walks everywhere...in the warmer seasons. But since winter started, she's been getting a lot of rides to and from work. She's also a bit of a stress eater and a major foodee. So in the last several months, she's put on maybe ten or twelve pounds, maybe more. Yesterday, I went to her house after going almost a month without seeing her, and she looked amazing and very different from the last time I'd seen her. She had a little pocket of gut last time I'd seen her, and now she has an actual belly. Her face is rounder and her butt is bigger, and her breasts are growing steadily. We were cuddling and the added belly felt amazing, and at one point her shirt rode up her back and I saw that she had a lot of stretch marks on her sides and near her waist. I was extremely turned on by this because since winter started, she's played this off as something that happens every year, but from the amount of stretchmarks and how new they were, this is clearly the thickest she's ever been. Dream come true, right? Nope. She doesn't like it at all. She actually hates it. Someone asked her if she was pregnant and she got really mad (and I got a nosebleed lol) She started this long conversation with me about us buying a joint gym membership once one of us gets a car. I was majorly bummed, because I want to respect the fact that it's her body, and I want her to be as confident and comfortable in her own skin as possible. At the same time, I'm really into this, and I would actually really like to see her at 150 or maybe slightly more. I don't know how to handle it. She knows I've looked at a lot of wg fetish material and that my ex gained 70+ lbs while we were together, but she's under the impression that I had nothing to do with that gain, and that the fetish stuff was so my head would be in the game during sex even though I wasn't into it. So I don't know if I should tell her how attracted I am to what's happening to her body, and risk that it freaks her out and she dumps me, or take her shopping and draw her attention to clothes that she'll have to grow into, or just cook for her all the time and start to dial back once she's hit prime weight. Help please. I really love this girl and I don't want to kill the relationship just because I'm really into the fact that she's gone from being an underweight, straight-figured woman to a thick curvaceous one. I find her incredibly sexy either way, but Christ almighty she looks good right now.

Hey there guys, first time poster here. I have an exciting problem! The Girl: My GF of 2 years is a pudgy and rather curvy 72 kilos. In the past she has been going to gym in an effort to lose weight, which hasn't really worked because of her metabolism and also because she likes food too much. We have been neglecting our sex life a bit over the last couple months due to conflicting schedules, and we're currently trying to revitalise our sexual chemistry. The Situation; Over the last year during sex, I've told her about my fantasy of her gaining weight and my kink for women with thick jiggly bodies. She's really good about it! She'll tease me and tell me that she's gonna get fat/put on weight for me.. which leads to amazing sex, the best sex that we have. In the moment, on a few occasions I have floated the idea of her gaining 5 Kilos as an experiment and she says "oh baby I'm happy to do that for you, i'll get fat for you" which is great! The Problem: I don't think she knows that I'm serious! Up until recently I had tried to keep our fantasies in the bedroom and reality separate because she doesn't appear to share the same kink and I didn't wanna pressure her, and she knows that, BUT.. our "fat sex" is actually significantly more erotic and enjoyable for the both of us then our "normal" sex, and that makes me think that weight gain is the answer. I really think we need to have a conversation where I say "babe, I gotta be honest: i really do want you to gain a bit of weight, and give it a try: just to see what happens" because i think it will do wonders for our sex life The question is: In your experience/opinion, what is the best way to handle this conversation? How would you say " I'm serious about this, I REALLY want this" without being too "confrontational" , if that's the right word. I really want this to sound fun and liberating! because I really do think that she'll enjoy it Any other advice or thoughts on the situation is welcome too!

My girlfriend was told by her doctor that she needs to gain some weight. I have admired fat girls for a long time and see this as a golden opportunity for her to get fatter and sexier. Problem is, she doesn’t eat often, but when she does, she eats enough to where her stomach hurts. She’s afraid to gain weight but she knows she needs to so she is reluctantly doing it. My question: How do we get her to get fat with her weird eating schedule? Is there a way to get her to eat more without her stomach hurting without her actively trying to stuff more food into herself? How do I get her to be okay with the weight gain that the doctor prescribed without making her feel bad about it? She also does not ever want to be obese, and I’m 100% okay with that, but I definitely want her to gain. It doesn’t have to even be a huge gain, like 10-15 pounds would be great. If she decides she wants more then awesome, but it’s not necessary for her to get actually huge. She has had body image issues in the past though and still has self esteem issues. Shes 5’5’’ and 113 pounds. Favorite foods are spaghetti, macaroni & cheese with hotdogs in it, sushi, and cheeseburgers. In that order. Just figured that info might be helpful. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

So my girlfriend has been steadily gaining since we started dating and is at this time the heaviest she’s ever been — about 185. At this point, she’s open to the idea of gaining but is unsure of how far she wants to go. I’m trying to be really hands off with the whole thing because I’m just amazed that she’s even entertaining the whole thing, but frankly I’m ecstatic. The first photo is from January, and the third is from a couple days ago.

Here are some photos of the feedee I have been feeding for five years. I will post a lot more pictures later. But here are some before/after of the first two years. Reverse order After two years: Before: Let me know what you all think! She’s still eating and hoggin away!😛

Hey, I’m a 19 year old feeder from the UK who is looking to chat too a BBW/SSBBW feedee. I love girls with some extra meat on them and there’s nothing I love more than a nice, friendly girl with a big ol’ belly! I’ll chat about anything at all and I’m always up for, well, anything! Hit me up if you’re interested and I hope we hit it off well! xxx

Hi, I wanted to start a thread about my relationship and share my experiences from it. I've talked about my relationship a little before but it's probably time to write about it more specifically. I've been into chubby, thick, curvy and fat girls for as long as I can remember and I'm even into stuffing and gaining myself a bit too. However, I never talked to anyone about being into these things and always just kept it to myself. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and she's been skinny all her life while I've always been on the chubbier side but not really overweight. I have always found her very attractive and her weight has never been and still isn't an issue for me, whatever it is. However, as we've been dating, we've both actually put on a bit of weight which I can't pretend not to love. In the time that we've been dating I went from about 170lbs to 200lbs and she's gone from 103lbs to 123lbs. And although I love the idea of her getting fat, I really think all the weight just came from being comfortable in a relationship and eating out way more than before. I started to play with her belly and thighs more as they grew and she could definitely tell that I liked them. I'd also take her out more and if she ever asked if I was trying to make her fat, I'd pat her belly and say yes. Recently, she saw something on my phone that was weight gain related and she freaked out because I had never mentioned anything like it before. Obviously, I still wanted to be with her so we talked about it and I explained that it's a fetish but I wouldn't want her to be that big if she didn't want to. I realise now how important it is to be open and honest about these things with the person you love. I feel like now I need to prove to her that I love her and that I want her, if that makes sense. I feel like the whole thing was just a shock to her but it's really relieving to be able to talk to her about it. After that happened, things went back to normal slowly. And we're all good now. She knows that this fetish is a part of who I am but she feels like I won't be happy if I'm not with a fat girl, which isn't true. I need to try to find a way to prove that to her. But these are just some of the experiences that I wanted to share. I feel like I've learnt so much from how I handled things and although she doesn't want to be really fat, I feel like now that she knows I like chubby bellies, she might let herself go a bit. What do you all think, let me know and feel free to ask questions or message me as well.

Happy days! My girlfriend admitted she enjoys gaining weight and finds it freeing! I honestly feel so happy and I hope the rest of you fine people can find joy in these tricky times too. Here she is about a year back Since then she gained a bit And she sent me this yesterday

Hello, I wanted to start a thread to share some of my experience with my fattening girlfriend. Before I start, I want everyone to feel free to ask me questions, share their thoughts, ... Just a few words about me : I like all kind of shapes (thin, chubby, BBW) but over time I got more turned on by fat girls and I would consider myself a feeder if I could share my kink with the girl I like. Otherwise, I wouldn't like to feed a girl who's not interested. So I wasn't specifically looking for someone who'd like to get bigger. I met my girlfriend a couple of years ago. Back then, she was thin, around 140 lbs for 5,5". She was very active back then and used to workout every week. Over the years she gained a bit of weight but that's happening to a lot of women living in a relationship. She gained around 10lbs and was 150lbs back then. Last year we started living together and then things slowly changed. Over time, she started going less and less to the gym and snacking more. We went more often to restaurants, fast food, ... A couple of months ago, during the quarantine, she completely abandoned any kind of physical activities besides sex. We've been both pretty lazy, spending time going to work and watching TV, video games, cooking and resting on the couch. She then started snacking a lot more, buying all kind of sweets, icecream, etc. I noticed with time that she gained weight. Lately she weighed herself and the scale said 170lbs. She was kind of shocked because she gained 20lbs in less than a year. Of course, she said she'll start working out again but is still pretty lazy. I started noticing through time that her legs got a lot bigger and started to rub each other. She developed love handles, a little pouch and her ass grew really big compared to when we met. She seems to be a bottom heavy. Moreover, her legs and ass is starting to get covered in cellulite and she got little stretch marks too. Needless to say, all this pleased me, especially when during sex she said once "Isn't my belly starting to hang a bit when I'm on top?". I reassured her and started admitting that I like her bigger and think she's sexier fatter. I'll update this thread when I have something interesting to say. Meanwhile do not hesitate to comment, I'll be happy to answer all kind of questions. I might post some pics but first I need the lady's agreement. She knows I like big girls but is not aware of the feederism community. She also knows I like her bigger and that I don't mind if she gains weight.

I want to try my best to not be a weird match as I always go for chubby girls. In my city (Toronto), it’s rare to find girls who are into gaining weight for their partner. How can I make someone I get matched with feel open to the fetish? Like it’s hard to see girls let go, and I also want to be intimate honestly. In terms of Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, and Facebook Dating, would it be a bad idea to mention that I like chubby girls in my bio? Or is it worse if I mention feederism

Been a long time lurker.. here it goes my lovely girlfriend has always been worried about gaining weight. Over the pas few months I’ve noticed her eating a lot more junk and she’s completely stopped any form of exercise (she used to play soccer) I’ve lately noticed her gaining weight especially around her face, particularly her chin. She is very shy and I feel very lucky to have her. I hope you all can give her a boost with some kind comments thank you all

Long time lurker, first time poster (well maybe not really), and I wanted to share about my growing girlfriend who seems to be leaning more and more into feedism. We’ve been seeing each other for a few months and I opened up to her about my kink for weight gain and feedism quite early on in our relationship, and she was honestly quite open to it. Her one gripe was around purposefully gaining weight out of health concerns but admitted that she understood why it was so arousing. She’s also quite a greedy eater and recognizes that she’ll probably gain weight anyway just naturally. Anyway, since telling her about everything she’s really leaned into her appetite. Every time we go out to eat she always orders extra for herself and even eats some off of my plate if I order something she’s into. For instance, when we went out to brunch the other day she ate eggs Benedict, a order of banana chocolate pancakes, some of my chicken and waffles and we even stopped for ice cream after. She even admitted to liking the whole belly play thing, but didn’t quite enjoy looking at it (if that makes any sense). She’s also very aware that she’s not small by any means. She’s 5’9 and if I could guess around 190-200 pounds, with her weight pretty focused on her thighs, chest and belly. Her go to outfits typically involve crop tops and tight skirts, so she’s fairly confident in her appearance but I think gets self conscious when it comes to seeing herself as fat. We haven’t done any deliberate stuffings yet, and I’ve been hesitant to push anything after telling her about feedism but we’ll see how this plays out long term. I guess I’m curious what you guys think. Think she’ll eventually get more comfortable with the kink or am I overthinking things?

I’m an 18 year old feeder who wants to meet someone irl and start a relationship. If you are in the area of Iowa City I would love to talk more and get to know you. If you are interested and aren’t in Iowa City I still welcome you to chat with me because I’m still open to an online relationship. Hmu on Instagram @hopeful_feeder

Hi i am 18 year old Swedish Guy im look to become a feeder i have no experience Im Open for long distance and also meeting a girl and just date normaly ( ofc we are going to gain Weight) much love leave a massage her and we can use som snap or Messenger

Girlfriend's weight over the course of 3 years of dating. Told her about how I was into girls gaining weight about a year and a half or so into dating, definitely wasn't onboard at first and slowly started to open up to the idea of it and she absolutely loved how into it I was getting. I never pressured her much she just slowly put weight gradually and saw how happy it was making me. Recently I asked if she would want to try and gain weight intentionally and she still wasn't all for it but she said would try it out a little bit. At first it was good and she was eating a lot more but it slowed down and whenever I ask if i can make or get her something she usually says no. Luckily she loves junk food, so she still asks for that quite a bit. She's staring a new job soon that she has to take a drug test for, but after that she keeps saying how she can't wait to smoke and be high again. I can't wait for her to get the munchies every night and hopefully I can start sneaking late night treats into this gorgeous girls diet. 😍

A few questions for guys who have introduced thier girlfriends/ wives / partners to this community and asked them if they would consider gaining weight. How many actually say yes? How common is it for them to be totally happy with the idea and really get into gaining? How many hate the idea and get super creeped out by it? Has asking your girl to gain ever ruined the relationship? How much has your girl gained even though she had no plans to get fat before you asked them to? Do they end up finding the gain and extra weight a turn on or do they put up with thier expanding bodies just to please you? I'd appreciate it if anyone can answer some of the questions above...