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mikefa55

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  1. I'm looking for stories, real life or fiction, where someone encounters an overweight woman and when they get to know each other she shares that she was always thin or in shape, until she met her ex... who proceeded to fatten her up significantly over the course of their relationship, and then they were broken up with.

    After the breakup, they are left in this new, heavier body that will never be the same... lifestyle change, all new clothing needed. What were they like? What was their experience like and how did they feel about it and handle it? What did their friends and family think?

  2. I have a question... from what I've read you somewhat recently saved up some money to move from California to Florida, where you met a guy, who is now your fiancé?

    And now you've put on a ton of weight, intentionally, and have no sign of slowing down, and will probably always be a heavyset woman going forward.

    I guess my question is, had you not moved when you did and met this new guy, would you still be skinny and fit? And would you most likely continued to go through life skinny and fit?

    Talk about a fork in the road!

  3. Oh, honey, you are blowing up so fast! I may be in the minority here saying this... but slow down on the weight gain shakes and let us enjoy WATCHING you grow;)

    What's the dynamic like with your gain? Does your partner put a lot of pressure or encourage you to really stuff yourself to get so fat so fast, or are you driving the pace of your gain?

    Oh, and I'd LOVE to hear about some reactions from friends and family recently...

  4. I have a question- lets say you met your husband and he was thinner, but amazing. Would you have been happy with him the way he was, or would you have wanted to, and encouraged him to gain weight?

     

    I struggle with similar issues. I'd never call myself a "feeder" yet get turned on by fat and by a girl putting on weight. I also struggle with the humiliation part that you mentioned. My girlfriend has put on about 60lbs, (5ft, 125lbs when we met) and the thought of someone seeing her who hasn't in a while, and her feeling like they are judging or laughing, is completely humiliating to her. She was a fitness instructor, so it's even more amplified. So on one hand, I feel awful when she's made to feel awful, yet the fantasy aspect of her showing up at the gym 60lbs heavier for her super fit friends to see, is incredibly erotic and an enormous turn on

  5. A dated a girl a while back for a few years. When we started she was about 145lbs. She's 5ft tall and put on about 50lbs while we dated. She hated it but I encouraged her and loved the way she felt and looked. Her fat was on the softer side and she had a great belly. At her heaviest I'd say she was around 200lbs.

    We got together last night and I was surprised when I saw her because she was probably back at her heaviest or slightly more. She told me after we broke up she got really skinny and was working out like crazy. But a new job took away her gym time and she put on 40lbs recently.

    Her boobs, which were huge to begin with are bigger than I remember, another reason why I think she's even heavier. But her fat, while still softish... feels more firm to me than I remember, and I definitely didn't enjoy it as much. 

    My question is can this be related to her losing and then gaining back the weight... or is it possible that she's heavier than ever and when she gets heavier her fat gets more firm as it fills up her body,

     

    Thoughts?

  6. My girl put on about 65lbs over the past 5 years. She didn't hate it, but didn't love it. She's going thru some personal shit and so are we. She joined a new intense workout program in her neighborhood and has gone pretty much every day.

    Part if this is her desire to be healthy and lose weight, which is great because she was getting to the point where she was becoming pretty fat, not just plump and chubby.

    He knows my preferences and has wanted to make me happy in the past, but now it's like the opposite. Almost like she's trying to lose as much of the weight as possible as quickly as possible to prove a point and assert her confidence and independence.

    It's her body to do what she chooses with but I'm concerned. I'm hoping this new workout schedule is a phase and is not sustainable, but I'm not sure, as she is pretty stubborn and may stick it out, especially when she starts seeing results. Not sure what to do.

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