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  1. I really am unworthy. I thought you'd bail long before you got this far down the road. You have shamed me. I will never be so cynical again.
  2. A dozen doughnuts is around 1440 calories. Probably not enough to gain by themselves. However, if you were eating enough to maintain your weight before and continue to eat the same amount in addition to those doughnuts you will most likely gain. The only problem I see is that it'll get boring...variety is good for the appetite. I would switch the doughnuts up with other fattening things, or at least eat different kinds of doughnuts!
  3. Personally I've always found Krispy Kremes too sweet. You might want to try some other kind of doughnut and see if you can manage those better.
  4. If you just want to chat about this stuff with the like-minded you should go to some of the feedist meet-ups that are starting to happen again. You'll probably have to go to one of the sites that Curvage childishly doesn't allow mention of to find such meet-ups or even start one up yourself.
  5. There are four questions floating around here: Is stealth feeding (pressuring, manipulating, tempting, or tricking someone into gaining without their permission) ever acceptable? --No, absolutely not. Is it right to ask a thin person permission to feed them to get them to gain? --If they're of age, of course. Even if one does get permission, why do that? Why not find someone who's already fat? --That would certainly be better in some ways. However, some of us find helping a thin person more exciting than finding someone who's already fat. The change is more dramatic and the process itself can be great for both parties. Because there are thin people who want to gain. There are downsides and upsides to nearly anything you do. It's the right of individuals to weigh these and make decisions about what they do. If they and their partner agree on a gaining project they can do it. If you do get permission, how do you help your feedee to gain? Buy lots of snacks, more than they can eat, and keep them on hand at all times. Cook whatever they like. Take them out to eat. Order takeout. Do whatever encourages them to eat more. Give tummy rubs. Express appreciation for the eating and gaining they do. If there's anything they particularly like in bed, do it in appreciation for any weight they've gained. Help them with any downsides to gaining. Help them find clothes that fit, support them in the face of anyone else's fat-shaming, do their more strenuous chores that might be harder as they get bigger. Be sympathetic and realistic about any downsides to overeating and gaining: some feeders are so pro-feeding that they refuse to admit there could be any problems and the feedee feels gaslighted. Don't do that.
  6. The problem with weight limits is you don't really know what it's like to be at the limit until you get there. And when you get there you may realize it's not enough. Still, if you go past your limit at that point it might undermine your confidence in the entire project. Weight gain may feel like an addiction or a failure at that point rather than what it should be: a conscious decision to live your dream. You should just eat all you want and gain as long as you're enjoying it. If you want to stop at some point, fine, stop. But note that it's hard to stop on a dime...don't beat yourself up if you continue to gain for a bit after you decide to stop. Now, functional limits might make more sense. If there are certain things you need to do to live your life, climbing stairs, bathing yourself, etc. don't get too big to do them. That's a reasonable limit.
  7. Baby steps. Let her know that you like the curvy figure. See how she reacts to that before you bring up feedism.
  8. Let's say you knew for sure she didn't want to gain weight. Would you still want to be in a relationship with her?
  9. Couldn't access the Binge link (I'm in the U.S.) but found the trailer:
  10. Here's hoping she gains the weight back at the end! Contrary to what we usually see, she was actually pretty cute in the fat suit.
  11. You hear this ethos a lot, that we shouldn't care what others think, that our own gratification is all that matters. But we're social creatures and we do care and should care what others think. Civil society is impossible otherwise. Sure maybe it would be better in some ways to be like mountain lions and only get together to mate. But that would be tossing out a lot of the best parts of being human. It's not for me.
  12. Ha! I get it. I actually wrote a story once about a country where women were legally required to be fat.
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