Spouses and weight loss / gain

[willngrace]

First time posting. 

I was wondering if any of you could discuss their experience or had any advice regarding this. 

I enjoy my girlfriend’s curves and softer body. She is not very big 5’7, usually around 165-70, lately perhaps around 185. She is joining a gym and wants to lose weight. I want her to be healthy and active but am also a worried about her body changing, selfishly I know.

I would not say anything to stop her from doing what she wishes. I’ll encourage her if it makes her feel better.

I was wondering how those who have dealt with similar situations felt or if you had even discussed it with your partner.

Also, maybe the other way around can be discussed. About weight gain.

 

Thank you

 

 

[willngrace]

For me, her ballooning isn’t as much of a worry as it is that she ends up looking like one of those before and afters from all the workout transformations we see online. I just hope she maintains her curves and softness..