"The conversation"

[dlhuges]

Well guys, it finally happened. Kinda.

Never been much of a poster, but have been around since the Yahoo days of fat celebs. 29 years old, have had a string of average to skinny sized g/f's and never quite worked. Finally started dating the girl of my dreams, shes 5'4 and roughly 150lbs, over the course of 6 yrs put gained about 60lbs. I loved every min of it....in secret. About 2 years ago and got a text from the other room; read something like "What is curvage?" Didn't know you liked big girls".. considering I've never told another person...ever...about my preferences and didn't know how to have the conversation. I got really drunk and tried to play the whole thing aloof. Fast forward 2 years, we both have put on weight unintentionally, and are working it off in anticipation of our wedding. Tonight she brings it up and due to the very expensive ring on her finger, I'm less freaked and oblige...to an extent. We discuss that I like her bigger and she mentions that the pre-wedding weight isn't forever. And we move on to some of her kinks that we've been less than open about..que the rumpus love making where she placed my hands on her waist and had me squeeze her belly. She said she loves it during (not so much after) and wondered why I had stopped (i had assumed she was catching on)....either way, I've expressed to her how important it is she knows I love her for her, and that more or less this is all a fantasy. (Kinda.)

 Where It goes from here, well see, but I feel as though for the first time in my life, my secret is out there and I can be happy at the same time...im currently getting ripped on margaritas I made from our bridal shower blender and thinking about a small term goal we can set after the wedding that won't ruin her self esteem but at the same time indulge something I've wanted all my life.. thanks for listening you guys, helps a guy like me vent.

[Guest rhettbutler]

Thanks for sharing, I love these stories keep us posted.

[Guest MUSEic]

That's awesome. Kinda hoping my relationship ends up the same way. I can deal with her not being about it if she likes it in the bedroom.

[itisreallyme]

Amazing dude. You clearly have her best interests at heart. Start small and slow. There's ways you can make small goals just as exciting as larger goals, especially initially.

[dania201]

Surprised it took you so long lol