Killer_Curves

OP - Seriously? You are trying to nickel and dime what you are willing to pay for your jerk off fodder by degrading and devaluing these women based on their choice of occupation. Am I reading this correctly? I am curious, are you congenitally retarded?

I could definitely get into board games and online gaming. I have always had a passion for art, music, boxing, martial arts and sports. My current hobbies consist of singing, learning guitar and art. I love to draw and my goal for 2015 is to commit to producing new pieces and working with new mediums in order to get me out of my comfort zone.

It sounds like you have some good suggestions to work with here. My advice to you is to understand this is nothing you can fix. All you can really do is continue to be reassuring, supportive and sincere. If she rejects compliments for example, continue to compliment her. Maybe find ways to show her how proud you are to be with her. It does not take much to shatter someone’s confidence but it does take a lot of hard work to build it back. Speaking for myself, it is the little things that mean the most. It is not about grandiose gestures. I have come a long way thanks to my boyfriend but it takes time and patience. I hope things work out for you.

I was lucky to meet my amazing bf off FF.

That is not my point but I digress in order to avoid the back and forth. :

Interesting, I did not read anything about them being men in his original post. With all due respect, I think you missed my point.

First and foremost; there are disingenuous people everywhere. I find it amusing that there are so many “fake feedees”. Could it be some of these so-called “fake feedees” get turned off by the FAs that ONLY want to discuss the fetish? That has been my experience. I would lose interest instantly when it became apparent that I was only a fetish. Many of the messages I would get on FF were pretty creepy. When I initially realized that I was into this fetish, it took me a long time to accept it. Perhaps some of these “fake feedees” are still grappling with their sexuality. Let’s face it, the creep factor that some of you FAs exhibit do not help matters. What about you closet FAs? Does that make you a ‘fake FA’? What about the fake FAs that set up profiles on these sites because they think us fat girls are easy? The bottom line is; it does not mean everyone is a fake and it does not mean you guys always have the best approach. Tone it down and you may have better luck landing your feedee

You have posted to our forums so few times Curvage is totally dependent on user participation. Users like you! Maybe you dont have any pictures to contribute and thats okay but did you know that a simple reply in a thread will make a big difference? The original poster will really appreciate your comments even if its just "hey great pictures thanks for posting". Help keep women happy to post their photos and please post in the forums. This message will disappear after you have posted and few times and your post count goes up. Thank you --- superj707 With all due respect, I am female and my reason for being on this site is not to “keep women happy”. If they need validation, it is not my job. I thought this was a community and whether I lurk or post is my perogative. Why I am doing this in the forum as opposed to sending the administrator a message? Well apparently I need to increase my post count in order to have that obnoxious message removed from my profile. Forcing someone to post in order to take down that large bold message is absurd not to mention sending a message on what I am now starting to think this site is really about. Perhaps you should include a posting count clause in your terms/conditions when joining the site. You can count this as post number one. Perhaps if I come across anything that is worth commenting; I will then be more inclined to post a response. Anyways, I am not knocking the site, just a bit disappointed on the approach and having to scroll down that nuisance of a message (on every screen) to navigate through this site.