largebob280

I hope you don't mind, but I made a progress image of two of your posts on this thread. There's a ten month difference between the photos (November '21 and September '22). If your boyfriend is still gaining a a two to one ratio to you, he must be looking like a whale, because you're beginning to resemble a sexy walrus.

I don't know if this will work in your case, because your finger has "formed" around the ring, but one way to get a tight ring off is with dental floss: wrap your finger with floss above the ring (nearer the tip of your finger), then work the end of the floss under the ring, and unwrap the floss, which will move the ring toward your fingertip.

I'll be curious to know if the shorts in the back still fit after your "mini-vacay."

In the time period just before WWI, many thought the most beautiful woman in the U.S. was Lillian Russell, who was only 5 feet tall and weighed over 200 pounds (which is a BMI around 40). She lived into her 60s, which was about average for the time.

I had an interesting relationship a while back that sort of falls into this discussion. My GF and I were both foodees and FAs. Over the time we seriously dated (about a year), we both put on significant amounts of weight: She gained about 25 pounds (from about 160-185) and I gained about 35 (from about 260-295). We each found the other more attractive with the added pounds, but were both uneasy with our own weight gains. I can't speak for her, but I was a little freaked because I had put the weight on so easily. She was a great cook, and a closet feeder, and I had the feeling that if I moved in with her, I'd be needing custom-tailored pants and one of those 250kg (550lb) capacity scales before too many years. She broke up with me, and I think her concern over her own weight gain and my enjoyment of her growing figure were part of the reason - it also didn't help that I drug my feet about moving the relationship to the next level. After that experience, if I were truly committed to another relationship, I would probably gain weight for my partner. However, I would discuss it with her and come to a decision about how big is big enough. I wouldn't want her to get bigger than she felt comfortable with, and would expect the same of her.

I had a female friend years ago that gained some weight, but to repulse, not to provoke. She was not very forceful, and had a boyfriend that had moved in with her. I knew she wanted him to move out, and I think she unconsciously gained weight to try to get rid of him rather than confronting him. She got so hooked pesto sauce that she may have been putting it on her breakfast cereal. She gained about 40 pounds in 6 months or so. It was a surprise to her, as she had been on-and-off anorexic all her life, and was usually underweight. Her boyfriend may have been like me - I thought she looked much better with the added weight, and should gain more. He didn't move out until she snapped to the other extreme and lost the weight she'd gained, plus another 10 pounds or so in about half the time she'd spent gaining.