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Decided to measure myself after 2 years of gaining 🙈 Watch the video on my youtube channel: https://youtu.be/LHmoAzkFtlE

https://motherboard.vice.com/en_us/article/xwmvp3/big-beautiful-women-bbw-porn-label I thought this was a pretty interesting article, but, it brought a couple questions to mind. Hearing Kyra Kane’s side of the story in gaining weight, it seems like it isn’t this grandiose passion that we sometimes tend to put on it; it’s a job. Am I right in saying this? Also, I am glad to see how more and more people are coming out of the shadows about this fetish.

From the first dawning of my sexuality I've fantasized about fattening girls up, feedism is quite a central keystone in my sexuality. I've come to terms with it- at least I thought I had- and had resigned myself to enjoying it as mere fantasy, overjoyed just to be indulged in a little "feed me cake and call me names" by a girl who's not really that into it. Fine that's life, you make these compromises, there are more important things than sex. But recently, totally unexpectedly, this girl- gorgeous sexy sweet thing- dropped out of the sky, a real honest-to-goodness feedee, dreamed of meeting a feeder as long as she'd known what they were... I should be in heaven. And half the time I am, jubilant, beaming from ear to ear- but then I flip back to a moral anguish I wasn't expecting. I keep thinking diabetes, Alzheimer's, heart problems, all those risks and I can't see how in all good conscience I could let such a sweet little thing shoulder those risks while I watch... I know that it's not a question of manipulating her, I know she wants this as much as I- more probably, honestly... but I keep spiralling back down to thinking this is real, this is surely dreadfully ungallant, I'm taking half the pleasure and none of the burden. I know many of you must have wrestled with this before I'm sure, I just want to know... what conclusions did you arrive at? Thanks.

I want to sit down and record my thoughts and opinions on the state of feedism today. Please share your on thoughts on past, present, and future of feedism. Things have certainly come a long way since I was boy, and it hasn’t really been that long since then. Back then you were lucky to hear even the slightest hint that something such as feedism even existed, and that was only on trashy talk shows like the Maury Show. I didn’t truly know that it was a thing that existed outside of myself until my family got our first computer, and one night up alone I stumbled onto the Freshman 15 Challenge website. The Internet was a barren place. There was hardly a place to turn for guys who liked big women, even fewer for guys into feedism and weight gain, save a few Yahoo!Groups. Feedees? You could probably name every single known feedee at the time and the list wouldn’t even top 20. Fast forward to 2016 and there are more feedees than you could possibly count. There are new feedees joining the scene, posting content, and starting blogs on a daily basis. Where people were once very closeted about their fetish, and feedees very hesitant to act on their desires, so many people are today are leaping right in wholeheartedly. At the same time, you see a lot more feedees just casually engaging with their fetish, moving into and out of the lifestyle as their mood changes. There are more spaces, sites, media, etc. for feedists to connect and network than ever before. And as the network expands and the amount of content grows, I think people are becoming more comfortable and even enthusiastic about their fetish.