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So I’ve talked about my fiancé-now wife on here before. Before marrying her recently, I’ve been with her for 3 years. She gained about 50 lbs during that time. From her last doctor appointment, she is currently 174 lbs at a height of 5’2”. To the point of the post though. She is going to be starting on a birth control pill real soon. I know birth control pills don’t cause direct weight gain, but they can increase your appetite. My wife already has a big, and sometimes hard to control, appetite. So, people who have taken birth control or have/had a wife/girlfriend on birth control, did you/they end up gaining a noticeable amount of weight while on it due to increased appetite?

Disclaimer: This is a true and honest account of my journey into Fat Appreciation and my wife's weight gain. Most names and places have been changed to protect her identity. There also wont' be any photos for now. I will post updates and edits to this story as I write them and then once it is all finished, I will post the full thing. This will contain detailed descriptions of my sexual encounters. Part 5 is banging. Comments, suggestions and requests for additional details are welcome. Yes I have questionable morals sometimes but at the end of the day, I love her more than anything. I hope you enjoy Pt 1. For as long as I can remember I have had an obsession for fat women. The first recollection I have of being interested in a fat women was my school teacher when I was just 8. She was a huge women. She had a kind, pretty face and rosy red cheeks. I remember her huge double belly and the way it used to hang when she was sat down. I used to imagine cuddling into it. Of course it was all innocent at that age. I remember asking my Dad about all the fat women I could think of and I wrote a list. Thinking back now, it's funny. I've always struggled coming to terms with how I am so physically attracted to fat women. I've tried to supress it for almost my whole life but it always ends up at the forefront of my mind. I wonder if it is a similar feeling to people who are in the closet about their sexuality. Would I be happier if I just 'came out' as a FA. Will one day FA be classed as a sexuality? This is just a small insight into my mind and you'll get a lot more as we go on. One of my issues in my own mind is that I have a successful career in the military. I'll not tell you which branch as it's not relevant. You just need to know that I am at the very top of my game and I have no plans to change career any time soon. This means I have to portray a certain image and conform to quite a lot of stereotypes. I was also a member of the local rugby team for many years and was always been a bit of a 'lad about town'. I'm physically fit, 6ft tall , blonde hair, blue eyes and I used to do all right with ladies in my younger days. I'm in my early 30s now. I always was always very aware of what people thought of me. I enjoyed people being slightly wary of me because I was in the military and been away on multiple Operational tours. I had also built up a bit of a reputation of being a hard hitter on the rugby pitch. The girls I either hooked up with that were in the public eye, were usually fairly slim and pretty. I always wanted to be seen with the type of girl who you would take home to meet your Mom. Of course on a drunken night out my true colours would come out every now and again, and I would hunt out a fat girl in the bar and then just laugh it off in the morning if anyone had seen me. Non of this is to brag, I just want to give you a snapshot of who I am and my struggles to hide my true feelings. I've been with my wife now for over 10 years now and she has also had her own battles with who she is. I love her dearly and she is the most incredible wife I could ever wish for. She has also gradually gained weight over these 10 years and has gone from being a 9/10 skinny stunner to a 9/10 fat stunner. My biggest problem is though - my wife doesn't want to be fat. I'm hoping this will change one day but for now this has left me playing a very 'long' and patient game. This has caused my moral compass to point the wrong way at times. I can often be weak willed and let my over powering hormones make my decisions for me. You'll learn the results of some of these decisions too as we go on. I'll start off by giving you a brief description of her when we met, and her as she is at the time of writing. I also feel at this point, I need to remind you that this is an honest story as some people will think this is a work of fiction by what I say next. The woman who is the most similar to my wife on this site, is Candii Kayne. In my eyes she is as equally pretty in the face. She has slightly smaller boobs and a slightly bigger bum. The weight gain seems to be similar too. She gains weight evenly over her body. I first started talking to Gilly, my future wife when she had just turned 18. I was 23 at the time. I had known of her for a few years before but never really engaged in more than polite conversation. I was posted overseas in the military and didn't spend much time at home. Just before my 1st tour to Afghan we had shared a good night out down at the rugby club and I had noticed her properly for the first time. She had straight, platinum blonde hair that reached halfway down her back. She had a gorgeous green eyes, a small button nose and perfectly kissable lips. There was only the smallest hint of a double chin at this point. She was beautiful. Gilly had B cup boobs, no belly and a nice juicy bum. She was a size 6. I think this is the equivalent to a 2 in the US? She had nice long legs and a healthy tan to go with them. She had a slight huskiness to her voice and laughed at my jokes. This girl was hot and I wanted to fuck her. If only I didn't have to go to war for 6 months. Ah well I thought, we'll see what happens when I get back. Gilly is now a size 16. She has been up to a 18 in the past. I've just gone to check her sizes. I've never done it before and it was so hot! I wish I could give you an exact weight but I have no idea. Now that I'm writing this, I'll try and coax it out of her. I think she may be heading to an 18 again soon. Her boobs have grown to a 38D. They are so heavy now. This is the biggest she's been since just after she gave birth. Her bum is a lot bigger but it's retained a lovely shape. I enjoy watching her struggle to get it into her jeans. She's developed love handles too. Her hips have widened and I love to give them a squeeze when I show her affection. I love it when her shirt rides up to expose a little bit of flesh. Her legs have thickened and there is hardly any definition there now. I know they've got considerably thicker as they have become so much heavier in the bedroom. She still has a nice tan and she takes good care to always moisturise her skin so it's incredibly soft. Now for the main course - Gilly's belly. In my expert opinion, I would say that Gilly has just breached the thresh hold to becoming fat from merely chubby. Because her hips and bum have widened so much, it disguises her growing belly somewhat. This allows her to remain thinking she is staying slim, when I can see and feel that she is steadily gaining weight. The game is given up when she wears slightly tighter clothes or bends over. You can see a huge bugle of belly fat sticking out. She often doesn't even realise what she is wearing is so revealing. I get caught between the thoughts of that it is incredibly hot to look at, and then contradicting thoughts of that everyone can see how fat my wife looks in those clothes now. I know I just need to fucking get over it, but that's my problem. The real treat comes in the bedroom. My favourite position to see her in all of her glory is on her side. There is no where to hide anything here in this position. Her huge arse is in the air and her belly now spills down onto the bed. There is a deep crease separating her belly and her hips and it is only getting deeper. When I give her hips a squeeze in this position, it is just fat, there is no bone to be felt. Her big tits now spill down onto her belly. I deliberately use 2 hands now to play with them to emphasise how big they have gotten. Her belly looks enormous now as there is no where for it to hide. I can grab huge handfulls of fat all the way up to her tits now. When she is on her side, the fabled double belly appears. I know that this is a good sign of things to come. Her face is still drop dead gorgeous. Still the same eyes, nose and mouth that make her so perfectly beautiful. Her cheeks have softened a little and now there is a pronounced double chin. It all makes her face a little rounder but it hasn't taken anything away from her beauty. She has the sexiest come to bed eyes and pout for when she is horny. We'll talk exactly about what happens here a little later down the line but I've got 10 years to catch you up on so we have time...

Hi! I have a dilemma I need all members of the feedism community to help, my life partner is the most attractive woman ever, but she is a bottomless Pitt of food, her weight has plateaued and I can sense that she’s becoming frustrated tho I’ve tried to talk to her saying things such as “you look beautiful at any weight” which is true! Her feedee self is becoming frustrated! The problem is most of the fattening foods are sweet and she cannot handle sweets well! She’s also a vegetarian but she’s been trying meat again lately! I love my fiancé to death but I hate seeing her so disappointed in herself, she loves salty foods but looking at statistics to make up the equivalent of one desert would take about 10x the amount of salty foods! Please help this girl needs to gain weight soon or I fear she will start taking it out on herself

A short history of my wife’s weight throughout our relationship: I’ll start by saying that I’ve always been most attracted to my wife’s personality and the amazing and beautiful person she is in general. This has never changed and will never change no matter her size. Being that I’m on this site, I obviously have a physical attraction to thicker women, and something about a woman putting on weight just revs my engine. Now back to the details… When we first met, she was around 150-160 lbs. At 5’8”, she was pretty thin, I wouldn’t have even described her as chubby. She had struggled a bit with her body image when she was younger, and was always concerned with what others thought of her figure. During the time that we dated, got up to maybe 175. She lost all of this for our wedding and got down to about 155-160. We found out she was pregnant right after the wedding. Her appetite was ravenous, and she got up to just over 230 before the delivery. I was in heaven. She lost a fair bit of the baby weight pretty quickly, and it wasn’t until she was pregnant the second time that I admitted to her that I found her weight gain sexy and often thought about her at her heaviest (which was at the end of the first pregnancy). I emphasized that I loved her body at any size, but absolutely wouldn’t complain if she got a little, or a lot softer. I think she took comfort in this, but still struggled with her body image. Fast forward a few years, after a few healthy pregnancies she never got up to 230 again. 215 being her heaviest. She’s now down to what I would describe as a chubby 175 lbs. We just recently had another conversation about my “fetish” and she told me she loves when I grab her belly during sex and talk about her curves. We both get off to talking about her getting bigger and how sexy her extra mommy weight is, but that’s all it’s ever been - talk. But now she’s told me she honestly wants to gain weight for me, because she knows how much it turns me on, and she’s willing to accept her fuller figure. She even talks about getting bigger than she was at her heaviest - 230ish lbs. I’ll just say that the bedroom activities since that night have been a little more enthusiastic than usual. The dilemma I’m running into now, is that even though she said she wants to gain, there hasn’t been any progress or any intent to do so from her. She doesn’t diet by any stretch of the imagination but definitely doesn’t have a heavy appetite, let alone try to get in additional calories. I try to encourage her whenever I can, but most of the time she refuses to eat what I offer her or simply states that she’s full. I’m definitely not going to force her to do anything as I believe that’s wrong. I guess I’m just looking for a little advice from someone who may have had a somewhat similar experience.

I met my wife in 2009 and since we got married in 2016. She found out I liked bigger women and she honestly took to it well and decided to gain on purpose. I asked her about her comfort level with posting her pics and she was eager as long as her face was cropped out lol.