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True story if my life please message me to talk about it or if you are in the same position as me! well to start me and my gf have been dating for 3 years now and are finishing up our freshman year in college. Senior year of highschool my gf who is 5’3 and was weighed about 115 lbs played track and soccer and worked out all the time. After she quit sports and went to college she gained a considerable amount of weight. I made the transition and came to the conclusion I’m into bigger women and making skinny girls bigger. I encouraged her to be lazy and eat out a lot and always tried to get her to stuff to the max. Now we come to now. She weighs about 170 lbs and is considerably bigger than she used to be. I guess I’m just looking for others who can relate to my story or other who have made girls gain weight! Thank you for reading hoping to hear back from you all

A few questions for guys who have introduced thier girlfriends/ wives / partners to this community and asked them if they would consider gaining weight. How many actually say yes? How common is it for them to be totally happy with the idea and really get into gaining? How many hate the idea and get super creeped out by it? Has asking your girl to gain ever ruined the relationship? How much has your girl gained even though she had no plans to get fat before you asked them to? Do they end up finding the gain and extra weight a turn on or do they put up with thier expanding bodies just to please you? I'd appreciate it if anyone can answer some of the questions above...

Hi all! I had an account here a few years ago, I think I had to delete it because of some kind of trolling... hopefully this time around I'll find a happier and more accepting community! I'm lucky enough to have a girlfriend that's been putting on some weight over the last few years. She was very skinny when we first got together, but over the 4+ years that we've been together she's gone from just over 100 lbs to about 140. She's not "into" weight gain really, she just started eating and drinking a lot more in college, and she knows I like it so she's not embarrassed to show it off or pig out around me. We love to binge together on the couch all weekend, and I'm so glad she doesn't mind the resulting "damage" to her figure. The gain's been mostly centered in her belly, which I personally love (really pulls together the whole "hot skinny girl who got a beer belly in college" figure!) I miss being able to track and discuss her weight gaining journey with a community that "gets it"! Also, don't hesitate to PM me! I love chatting. EDIT: More pics of my gf here!

Okay so a little bit of background here: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now, she's not only my first girlfriend but my first relationship ever. She's also a few years older than me and so is the experienced in our relationship. On the first night we met we immediately became a couple, which was I was amazed at, since she's everything I have ever wanted in a girlfriend. She's taller than me, about 165 cm and weighs around 55 kg, she eats healthy food and works out a lot, goes swimming, biking, hiking etc and she works as an ICU nurse so she is constantly on her feet and really fit. She has tattoos and piercings and that kind of hippie chill vibe to her. I myself am slightly overweight at 153cm and balancing at 62/63kg. I have spent most of my life being super self conscious about my looks, I have a tendency to overeat when I'm stressed and in years when school got harder and the added stress of figuring out my sexuality has made me gain a lot of weight. In the beginning of our relationship it never struck me as odd that she liked to give me belly rubs and put her hands on top of it when we were watching TV. In the bedroom, she would kiss and stroke my belly too which surprisingly really turned me on and I loved it. She would sometimes buy me large meals or cook for me at home and always loved to rub my belly when it was tight and swollen, but I still had zero suspicions. Last week she came out to me about her preferences. She said that she really likes girls with a belly and just a little extra weight on them, and then she asked me if I would be open to even gaining a little weight. At first I was shocked and a little upset because I just felt like a checked off criteria box. But she reassured me that she loves my body exactly the way it is, and that if I chose not gain weight or even lose weight she would not love me any less. I'm still quite unsure. The idea does excite me a little and I actually like having my belly played with but then there's this part of me that fills up with dread at the idea of getting fatter and I'm just so torn! What should I do? Should I give gaining a try?

My girlfriend has gained a little bit of weight recently and is starting to develop a belly. As much as I love how her body is growing, she doesn’t love it so much, and I can tell that she feels a little self conscious. Does anyone have any ways that might help me improve how she sees her body? Or at least any methods of making her comfortable with her body? I really enjoy the new weight and sex has gotten more and more sensational, so I don’t really want her to lose weight, but maybe that’s way too selfish.