My wife has been gaining on and off for the last few years. She has had profiles on ff and **. We are now at a point in our lives to start a family. So the last 18 months I’ve encouraged her to eat well and exercise which caused some weight loss. She’s now pregnant and obviously gaining some weight due to that. One part of me wants to encourage her to gain as much as possible during the pregnancy the other part says to encourage eating well and exercise as much as possible. I’d love to hear what you guys would do in this situation.