Lox

Not trying to offend at all, we all have our kinks. I believe the silence has answered my question. Carry on

Nobody posted after you so I don't think you're disregarded yet. I would say it varies based on who replies, you can tell a gaining kink from someone earnest.

The lifestyle and serious discussion forums under community can have more social aspects.

A lot of status updates may be social or for paid content/sales. Show and tell makes a nice first impression if you wanna chow down for $10 😎.

See who works best with you, and try not to carry a grudge when you encounter a bad actor/actress. I receive way too much initiative these days to compete and press for closure.