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  1. I think you have got the categories right but missed a major point that needs more recognition. Don’t overthink this btw. 

    For group 1 it’s not a fetish, which you called it. It’s a preference no different to preferring the same sex or blondes over brunettes. For me, I just think that curvier women are more attractive.

    For group 2 that’s probably more of a fetish, and that can take many forms obviously in terms of what that involves. 
     

    I hope that makes some sense? 

     

     

     

     

  2. Don’t overthink it mate. 
     

    Imagine if you went to the Doctors and were told you have a health issue related to being overweight? Being overweight is what they generally blame hypothyroidism on. I’ve done some research on this and don’t believe it to be the full truth. It would have shocked her a bit.
     

    She also probably has friends taking Ozempic or similar and losing weight like crazy. She may be taking it herself for all you know. 
     

    But like I said, don’t overthink it as you don’t actually know the reason at this point. 

  3. I had been getting upset at my wife for never untying her shoelaces and just jamming her feet into her shoes. She started doing this when she was pregnant with our first child. 
    I asked her the other day why she still does it even though she knows it annoys me and she said it’s because she’s too fat to bend down and tie or untie her laces easily. 
    MIND BLOWN

    She is so ridiculously sexy and getting hotter with every pound!

  4. Quick update guys.

    Since joining the gym in January she has gone less than 10 times in total. 

    She is still having her daily protein shake on the days she works.

    She is noticeably bigger and softer and openly acknowledges that she has a fat belly and back rolls now around friends. She seems cool with it but did by a shaper top to help try and hide them rather than say that she has to get rid of them.

    But probably the biggest thing is that she cleaned out her closest and culled anything that was a size L or size 42 or below. This is significant as she got rid of a lot of clothes that didn't fit when we moved 12 months ago and she has now outgrown a whole new set of clothes in 12 months. She has also stopped wearing any size 16 panties as these are all too tight now and bought a heap more size 18 and XL underwear. These are also tight and she really should be in size 20 or XXL based on her measurements.

    It's really amazing to see how casual she is about the fact that she is fat now. It's a complete shift of mindset from January we she was like I must go to the gym 3 times a week, to being lucky to going once a week. I support her in going to the gym obviously as it's important for her to stay healthy and strong so she has less issues carrying the extra weight.

  5. Alright gentlemen and ladies who follow this thread, update time.
     

    Shit has escalated fast….. really fast. I can’t even explain wtf had happened but I will try my best. I can’t believe it was as only just over two months ago since I last posted but between the world being fucking bananas and what’s happened in our house on its own it’s no surprise.

    Rather than the long winded spiels I’ve done previously I’ll just try for point the major developments.

    1) Xmas and NY is always a small gain season for my wife as she overindulges like most. 
    2) Then while laying on the couch on her one day a week off work calls me from me office and says we need to talk….this is never good!!! As usual she goes into the I need to join a gym again so I feel better about myself chat. Says she’ll go Monday before work, Wednesday, and Friday before work. the funny thing is prior to us having this convo she’s smashed a whole block of Cadbury chocolate which is approx 960 cals.
    No stress, I’m 100% fine and supportive of that. First week, goes once. Second week, goes twice. Since then she’s gone on average once every two weeks, which I’m totally cool with as want her to be healthy. She’s still pretty active and goes on a few walks a week with friends at the beach.

    3) About 4 weeks ago she “accidentally” happened to open the incognito browser on my phone which had all of the Curvage and other FA related pages open. Luckily for me she couldn’t see much on Curvage as it logs out each time, but she did see some other pages which were quite indicative of my preference for mid to plus size women and weight gain etc. 

    4) she wasn’t super impressed but was mainly concerned around whether I’d been chatting to other women because she was not big enough. Luckily, I had deleted my ** accounts a couple of years back and could prove that to her. That relaxed her somewhat but there was obviously still some tension on her part.

    5) As an FYI, she has suspected, and known and even discussed my preference with me since 2009, which at first has caused her some angst, as you can expect given how tiny and fit she was (see above). I also sat her down in early 2020 and told her that this is a part of me that I don’t think I can change and she accepted that but said she’d never gain on purpose which I was okay with but it was just great to get off my chest again, without being cryptic.

    6) Regardless of the above she has increased her daily choc intake to approx half a block of chocolate on the couch or even in bed each night. So that’s roughly 480 cals a day on top of her previous intake. 

    7) I’m sure you can all do the math and work out that this means she’ll be approx 50lbs heavier than she would have otherwise been after 1 year, subtract the small amount of extra exercise she’s now doing.

    8) Because she was getting so hungry in the mornings she still usually has her normal healthy breakfast and then a protein shake as she is “working out” now in her mind. However, as previously discussed in an earlier post these shakes she makes are inadvertently approx 1300 cals from memory. In her mind they are super healthy!

    THEREFORE

    1) I can tell both visually and by touch that she has grown significantly.

    2) Clothes that she bought 2-3 months ago that were loose are now tight or very tight. 

    3) She often now wears stuff in public that is so tight it makes me question, “like wtf does she even realise she has probably gained 20lbs in less than 3 months”.
     

    4) She lets me wash her in the shower on command and each time it’s obvious that she’s bigger as she has ever increasing creases forming where her panties dig into her thighs, her boobs are bigger, her ass is ballooning, her back rolls are so deep and starting to be visible from the front, and it’s a rare angle when she doesn’t have a visible big double chin. Her calves are even getting fat now!

    5) Because of the point above about her panties being too small, it got to the point where I had to show and explain to her that if she didn’t stop wearing the undersize old ones she’d end up with a roll she could never get rid off. Therefore as a result she agreed to stop wearing anything that’s size 16 and throw it out and go find her new size at the shops which is likely a 22 in AUS (or 18/20 in US). She’s not that fat but has super wide Latino hips so that’s the main reason for being that big a size.

    6) Her agreeing to do this is a massive as it will be the big moment when she finally realises she has to buy plus size underwear, so hopefully it doesn’t trigger her too much.

    7) It’s like here finding stuff on my phone again this time finally liberated her into relaxing and deciding that enjoying what she likes is better as long as she still “works out”. For me this is a win win as she will continue to gain weight but also be healthier than she was. We generally eat really healthy, like meat and veg but the shake in the morning chocolate at night are enough to do the job.

    8) In regards to weight, although I don’t know exactly I’d have to put her between 90-100kg (198-220lbs), which on a 162.5 cm (5’4”) is noticeable fat too most ppl, but for the educated FA puts her firmly tipping into the 35+ BMI range.

    I think that’s all for now, when I get time I’ll try dig out some comparisons from 3 months ago so you can see and confirm all of the above. To be honest it’s all pretty surreal and I feel supper lucky to have such a sexy and growing wife, who know seems to be embracing the fact of that show knows I like her bigger and can indulge when she is wants!


     

     

  6. On 1/5/2022 at 6:55 PM, Guideline2 said:

    I've been in this situation and understand your feelings. Try imagining her chubby, or put her in positions where her belly folds or bulges or something so she looks a little softer than she is. Everything turned out okay in the end for me as she ended up getting fatter without me saying or doing anything. 

    Same thing happened for me so I got medical help and over time my wife gained weight to a point where I didn’t need the help anymore.

    Hang in there and you can possibly stay with her and get through this.

    But you probably also need to be at least somewhat honest with her otherwise she may never gain weight.

  7. 12 hours ago, bellyluvr said:

    Kind of crazy how similar our situations are isn't it? I tell my wife all the time how beautiful she is, but she won't have any of it. She knows I'm very attracted to her either way, and I don't think she minds the extra attention! I've hinted at a possible baby number 3, and I'm convinced she would settle at a deliciously fat 240 lbs post baby. She's not into the idea though, and she's the one who has to be pregnant so she gets to make that call. 

    Your wife is very beautiful though, keep her well fed and happy my man!

    Thanks Buddy. Likewise take care of your plump beauty and here’s to an indulgent 2022!

  8. 4 hours ago, bellyluvr said:

    Since you happened to post such a great update at the same time I commented on your previous post, I feel compelled to chime in!

    She's definitely filled in nicely! The changes between 130 and 155 are the most noticeable. Her butt and thighs plumped up very well between those weights. 

    By 180 her butt is definitely more round, and her thighs have developed almost a little roll just under her butt where they no doubt rub together (just like my wife, I love this and think it's extremely hot)

    195 has brought on the back rolls and spare tire belly, which is exactly what has happened to my wife this year. It's like she grew her belly straight out last year, then her love handles and back rolls came in this year. 

    It also looks like your wife's butt is getting noticably more cellulite and she's got little dimples on her lower back just above her butt(my wife has had those since we got together and has always been embarrassed by them but they're one of my favorite things about her!)

    Absolutely great update man! If you don't mind my asking, what age is your wife? Mine just turned 35. I find it crazy how similar of a shape she has to my wife. While my wife has never been as small as yours was in the first pic, their gains look the same from 155 and up. This kind of stuff is just so damn hot isn't it??

    Thanks for in depth response. My wife is 35 also. 
     

    130 to 155 was before and after first child. It is the change from skinny to fat. 
     

    155 to 180 is the change from fat to obese. It was also after baby number 2.

    it is so sexy and like a dream come true. I make sure she knows I think she is the sexiest woman on the planet even is she doesn’t believe it.

  9. Here we go fellas, time for a long overdue update. Can’t believe it’s been over 12 months. 
     

    So my wife’s slow gain hasn’t stopped. All of her size 18AU and XL underwear is now looking way too tight and digging in. It’s time for a size up but that would mean she has to confront the reality that she now has to shop at plus size stores. Something she’s not keen to do. She now has to buy everything in a size XL but in pants these are very tight further proving she should be going up a size. She easily fills out my size L mens shirts and jumpers.

    She now polished a half or more of a block of chocolate every night without fail after dinner and sometimes I hear here snacking on a few pieces in bed during the night! What a change in habit. 
     

    To counteract this she has joined a gym but rarely goes. However, she often will make a protein smoothie after breakfast thinking it’s healthy but as she’s not it’s just a calorie laden snack (about 1200-1500 calories per shake). When she does go to the gym it spikes her appetite for the rest of the day so I encourage her to go and be healthy, if only for her mental health and keeping some muscle tone.

    To add to the hotness of her gain, one of my best mates has started commenting about her gain and asking what I’ll do if she gets any bigger. I just laugh it off and say not to worry as she has joined a gym. 

    She has a very visible spare tire when she sits and even laying down there is a noticeable mound of fat around her midsection. But the thing that gets me most is her back and booty gains. Photos to come but I think she looked like a really big woman from behind, but you can be the judge. Her hips used to be super curvy and toned now have a couple of inches of pudge which sits above her panty line and connects around to her belly, but the real sign is the permanent roll on each side that has formed in the last 3 months. It is always there now and has started spreading further around to the front as well as get deeper. It’s now close to an inch deep. Insanely hot!

    In regards to her weight her last recorded weight was 85kg (187 lbs) but given the changes in the last 3 months as well as gaining muscle at the gym she would be pushing 90kg (198 lbs). This is a lot on 5’3-4” woman and puts her comfortably in the obese BMI range. Mind blowing to think about this as I wouldn’t ever think she would let herself get this big let alone now have eating habits that mean that she will likely only get bigger.

     Yes she is shorter than Katie Cummings by about 4” but she looks visibly fatter than Katie did at 200lbs. 

    I will share the photos in another post so you can see for yourself.

  10. 13 hours ago, CouchQueen said:

    Idk, man. Getting well up over 200 lbs just decimated my physical fitness. Even climbing a flight of stairs leaves me red-faced, panting, and my chest pounding. And it's so difficult to find cute clothes to dress such an oversized belly. I have to imagine that all those things would become even more difficult if I went for 300 lbs.

    Why wouldn’t you go for 300?

  11. So quick update guys.

    My wife is now up to about 79 kgs or 174 lbs.

    About 3 weeks ago we were fooling around in bed and she was laying on my saying how heavy she must feel.
    I asked “why do you say that?”

    And she says cos she’s gained weight and she’s up to 77 kgs.
    I was pretty ** so blurted out “no you’re not heavy, you should try get to 80”

    She replied “No way, I’m never gaining weight on purpose” 

    however, since then she’s been eating way more then normal and having ice cream every night now. 
    Now she’s noticeably bigger than the other week. And now She’s wearing XL in all clothes. 
    it’s crazy how curvy she is getting.

    so I think subconsciously the fact that I said she should gain more weight in a direct way has triggered something in her. 
    like she knew I liked bigger women but now I’ve actually expressed I want her bigger it’s relaxed her boundaries and thinking on her weight further. 
    it’s starting to blow my mind that this is actually happening!!!

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