TyskiPl

On many places, starting from Curvage, going through other sides of the internet, finishing on travels to Amsterdam and London. You know, it’s called pear shape.

Hello... This topic is directed mainly to Polish users of Curvage, but in respect to others, I will write this post in English. I'm over 30 and still got bad luck in looking for good relationship with woman in this country. The first problem are my preferences - I like big, thicc girls, mainly pear shaped (thicc thighs & hips save lives), sometimes hourglass... I can accept BBW with big belly only if she got nice wide hips and big, round butt. For me breasts does not matter, as long as they are. I'm just the butt kind of guy, while the majority in Poland are breast guys. In the meantime in Warsaw: - Tinder presents me mainly thin girls, totally not interesting for me, - Other dating sites are not better, - I've tried **, but there are not a lot of girls and most of them are mainly focused on just finding somebody to accept them or finding people to be their sponsors/feeders* Whenever I find big girls, they happen to be barrel or apple shaped. Its hard to find a girl with nice big butt, because many fat girls in Poland happens to have flat butts, what for me does not look attractive... I've used to think those kind of girls does not exists, because I can't meet them on the streets - but when I saw latest Love Parade, I've noticed A LOT of girls of my type. Just having different sexual orientation. I can meet thin, beautiful blonde girl, fitting perfectly to Polish mainstream of beauty preferences, but it does not matter - I can always tell about her she is beautiful, but I cannot find her attractive 😕 So yeah, on one side I've watched to many photos and videos on pages like Curvage and yes, I am jealous for Americans having such wide variety of fat girls, but I also know it is possible to find my type of girl in Poland too and I don't want to simply give up and choose the "consolation prize". The second problem is character. Yeah, I know, the personality is more important than body, of course. And well... I prefer proud, confident girl, who maaaaaaybe could be dominating in bed, but outside of that, cooperating, making the relationship based on partnership. I am not interested in the traditional relationship, which usually means Polish women parasiting on men. In the meantime, even if I manage to find BBW to date and even if she manages to have great hobbies, the problem is with their personality. Nearly all of the time I am finding adult woman, who happens to have a lot of psycho problems (and some of them are not even going for psychotherapy) and acts like they were not looking for boyfriend & potential future husband, but for their 2nd father. I mean, gosh, I wish to be in normal relationship, instead of playing parenting for adult female needing to be treated like eggs, because this is ridiculous. Another problem is their lack of ambitions in job - they prefer to have low paid job in public sector, where they may be going through mobbing on daily basis, but they accept that just because they live with parents (who can compensate them earning not enough cash) and are afraid of looking for something new, looking for excuses. Trust me, I've been trying to help a few of them, but usually it effected in no effects or in blank promises with no actions plus a lot of listening to their whining for how much they are stressed due to work and how those stress is ruining their health - on their own choice... I mean, come on, the world expects guys to earn a lot of cash and live on their own, so why we cannot expect that from females? I understand that relationship means supporting each other, but I want to support an adult woman, who may be willing to do something about hers situation instead of parenting woman around my age, but acting like she just finished high-school or worse. I've tried this and believe me, those woman were like emotional vampires. You may ask "Alright man, you got so much preferences, but what about you?". Well, I live on my own, not with parents. I've got a stable job, where I earn enough cash to be able to live without extra roommates. I am practically ready to settle down. I have been working hard to get on this level, as I had to repair my life after years of mistakes caused by many people, including me of course and so far I think I did a good job there. But nowadays I am getting out of ideas, where I could look for potential girlfriend, especially when there is less and less of free time - as I live alone, I have to care about a lot of things on my own. Work also needs its time, as I work in business. Whenever I go outside, not only I go alone - as my friends now got their own lives and no time for me, but they cannot understand how can I be into thicc girls and they cannot see the difference, between thicc & fat. I can also rarely find a girl I could try talk to. If that happens somehow, usually she is with other female friends or happens to be already in relationship. As I've mentioned, Tinder favors thin girls - it does not seem to have machine learning, which basing on my right swipes could learn to prepare more personalized propositions. Maybe have you got some advice what I could change? Or maybe where I should be looking for? Maybe I am visiting wrong sites or bad places in Warsaw and there is some kind of temple awaiting to be discovered by me? I know that in London and in the USA, there are clubs favoring thicc and fat girls. I wish that was possible in Poland, but I think the biggest thing causing my problems is the scale of fatshaming in the nation and how weak body positivity in Poland is. And to be honest, sometimes I was considering migrating to the USA or Canada just in hope to find woman I would be really happy with. * Honestly, I'm not feeder, just BBW enjoyer, but if I had the right woman, I could consider becoming hers feeder.

Hi. In March I am visiting London for a few days and I am thinking maybe there are places worth to visit by the BBWs enthusiast? I have found 2 official groups/clubs organizing parties, but their events aren’t in the time I am in the UK. Plus well, music club is the lastest option for me. Maybe can you recommend an interesting caffe or any place, where I could meet some friendly BBWs?

While her rear is impressive, her lips are scarying me. Seriously, those lips can't give me other thoughts than "Bimbo"...

I like her - she looks so adorable. Nice body, with very beautiful face and hairs. Especially amazing is her face on most of the photos - she looks so calm!

No proszę, czyli jednak i Polka się tutaj czasem trafi. Jestem mile zaskoczony. Jeśli Twój chłopak preferuje krąglejsze kobiety, proponuję porozmawiać z nim o tym na spokojnie, bez wyrzutów, czy awantur. Zapytać się, czemu Ci o tym nie powiedział. A rozmowę na taki temat najlepiej zacząć tak z żartem, by rozładować też napięcie, jakie może wyniknąć przy tej rozmowie.

You didn't understood me. The case isn't about watching materials of girls allowing to do this. I'm wondering if people making photos of ordinary girls on the streets or throwing their photos from Facebook etc. are feeling totally okay with what they are doing. If they are afraid sometimes about the possible consequences. Maybe somebody had the situation, when girl/friend discovered he posted materials about her?

I want to start a discussion about something, what is very close for all of us. Finally there are a lot of guys posting photos of thick girls they find outside the internet or on any social media. And I want to ask about something. Maybe I'm stupid, but from one side, I appreciate those guys, because thanks to them I could improve my knowledge about women around the world, but on the other side... I can't start do this on my own. You know, taking photos of girls I meet in my city or during my travels or collecting those ones appearing on my account on Facebook or other social media (i.e. Randalin on her Snapchat) and post them here at least. I know, Randalin's example is kinda stupid, finally she is the internet star now, so I should feel free to post her Snap's here, but Snapchat seems to be something private for me and I feel this would be unfair, the sign of disrespect toward her if I did this. But let's leave Randalin, let's go to my local, european area. I don't know those girls plus here, most of fat girls are insecure, full of complexes, believing all of guys like only thin girls and being overweight = being "OMG totally unhealthy", so they just must lose weight or never look into the mirrors again to not cry. The bonus problem in my country is the growing awareness about feeders and the fame for them and for other fat admirers isn't done by the good examples, but by the negative, radical examples(1). And the final thing - what lands on the internet, stays there forever, right? So, propably they wouldn't feel okay if they find their photos on the site like this. And I know I would feel bad if I posted their photos without their agreement, even if they were presenting my friends. So I would like to ask you how do you feel about all of this? I'm wondering if I am the only one person having some kind of problem about this or maybe people here are divided into 2 groups - the group of people delivering the material and the second group of people, who will never deliver any photo, but like to watch what they got thanks to the first group. And on the end, I apologize if my English isn't perfect and if I've offended anybody.

Bottom heavy girls in Uppern Silesia? I must say I'm surprised. I've been living in Uppern Silesia for 19 years, in next years I've been visiting Silesia often and I've never seen a bottom heavy girl there (If I don't count once in my school, but she lost her weight) - all of the girs were like barrels or big, soft balls or 'fat everywhere' , sometimes hourglass. But bottom heavy? I see some of them in Warsaw, sometimes when I'm in Wrocław I see some of them there too. I remember also seeing a girl in Cracow, being from Chrzanów, being a bit bottom heavy. But definitely not in Uppern Silesia

Well, I guess I'm a gorol too, cause my parents aren't from Silesia, they just moved there for job I feel more Masovian or Podlasian than Silesian. I'm not sure if it is about the generation. Nowadays there is a big fashion for being vege, being fit, being healthy and I guess when I see a big girl, there is only at least one of these reasons: * girl has no time for sport thanks to her duties, * girl gained a huge amount of weight and now she can hardly think about losing it - unfortunately this is nearly impossible to find a fat girl in Poland not believing she should be thin as the stick or thinner You're lucky you got your lady already. I'm still searching Maybe one day I will be the lucky one too.

I come from Uppern Silesia, but actually I live in Warsaw.

No, she is from Australia.

I remember one day, years ago, I've found one guy being from Poland as I am. And sometimes there are the photos of Polish fat candids and celebrities. And the world is surprising me even more, because I've thought through years that in Poland are not fat pear-shaped girls and girls with big butts, just barrels and surprisingly, from some weeks I see a lot of pear-shaped girls. So I would like to check how much Polish are here. My country is very anti-fat, but maybe I will be surprised and I find a Polish BBW or any FA to talk?

Just before New Year's Eve I've met my ex from 2014. And she gained some weight, which underlined her pear shape (gosh <3 ). Firstly she asked if I lost some weight. In fact, I did, but kot on my own, but thanks to the illness - around 8 kg. Then she commented she gained weight and she should lost some. Me: But those weight looks good on you. And I've added something about her still being so hot for me. And then she decided to pull the topic and asked me what I was meaning. I've started explaining that I am not into typical thin girls popular in my country (imagine girls so flat, so they don't have any curves and looks like femboys or like kids, while they are around... 20-23?), but into something bigger. She wanted me to say more, propably she guessed I love chubby pears. So, she wanted to hear this from me. But then her friend came back (we were in the rock pub) and I couldn't say more. Firstly, I was too shy to talk about something so private when her friend was sitting with us. Secondly, I wanted to be carefull - she left me for typical handsome guitarist & rockmen she fell in love years before I've arrived in her life and then it happenned she had an occasion to be with him in relationship, so she just replaced me. Their relationship had failed months ago, because he proved to be the life loser. And after months suddenly she decided to try to take me back. I think you know how I was feeling and why I didn't wanted to tell her the full truth. Specially if later she got drunk, kissed her friend while all of us were sitting close to the same table (WTF?!?!) and totally ruined her any chances to be with me. Sorry guys, I'm Polish, not American and I hsve no idea how about you, but I can't be with girl providing to be disloyal. Loyalty is an important thing in relation. But I hope she will grow bigger. Her rear is too perfect for this!

Personally I don't like new Curvage, because after logging in, I could go to the list of actualized threads I were posting and on the list of other active threads and I could decide which ones I will open and check. Now I have got a huge list of activity, with every new post from every thread, even every plus given to any post... For me this is incredibly incomfortable, specially if I am not everytime here.