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haha I wish it was that simple, I am not sure how to stuff myself, I have done it unintentionally many times but I don't know how to do it intentionally or in an attractive manner, any suggestions would be helpful,

How did it go when you had the conversation if you don't mind me asking? Have you ever been with someone willing to explore it, that wasn't into it at first but then as time went on really wanted to indulge everything about it? He told me when we were very drunk, and then we talked about it a little the next day and it was only a few weeks into our relationship so I wasn't the most understanding person until I looked it up and spent some really time figuring out what it meant and I am still not sure I know what it fully is. I do think that maybe I come off probing but how else am I supposed to figure it out? he doesn't talk about eating or my curves or any of it and I want him too I like my new curves and my old ones, I don't know if I am doing something wrong in the gaining process. Speaking of which do you have any tips for gaining? We did sleep together recently and it was pretty awesome ( we had just had a big meal and then dessert, and then other random foods) but I was so full and it was a big turn on and the first time he actually grabbed my stomach during sex and played with it and it was great. but what else can I do to try to get him going I feel like he shy's away from sex because he is shy about what he likes. Anyway thanks again!

So I don't really know 100% because I have never done any of these things but from the research I have done, the stuff I am into I would say would probably gear more toward the person eating or over eating and gaining weight, (not sure what that falls under) although I really like when he gets really full too although he is very skinny. Ever since I was young I loved to over eat the phrase "you eyes are bigger then your stomach" was always said to me I just really like eating, somedays I literally just eat and its kinda nice to be with someone who doesn't judge me every time I eat something, and I guess since I already love eating and love my body (which after my ex took a while to love again) I want to be able to indulge his needs and wants with everything as well. I don't know if that helps. there is a lot involved and I just don't know how to approach it but ever since he told me every time I get to full I get turned on. thanks for trying to help me out and sorry if its to much information I am not good at these things or talking about this stuff :-P

I have been thinking about that a lot lately, I haven’t told him that I have been on this site or posted anything but maybe getting him to look through stuff with me will get him to open up a little bit?

What is to weird? I try to be a very open non judgmental person everyone is different and entitled to there own feelings and turn ons, and I have told him this and opened up to him about some of mine, so what would some of the extremes that are to extreme for most people? I’m trying to be patient I just have so many questions, and intend to be one of those people who doesn’t really know if I like it till I try it. Idk I guess I feel a little weird about the whole thing too and the more he doesn’t wanna talk about it the more confused I get. And thank you for responding ☺️

Hello, I am very new to forums of any kind especially this one but I am a little lost and don’t know where to turn. So here’s a little background I dated a guy for 5 years that constantly told me I was to heavy for him (long story short i finally broke up with him) which was great I ate whatever I wanted whenever I wanted and was a little worried I was gaining to much weight, and then I meet my current boyfriend we have only been together a few months but about a month into our relationship he told me that he was a FA and he was into “all of it” and to be honest i had no clue what that was and was a little upset when he told me. Since then I have done a lot of looking things up online and figuring out some of what this is all about and certain aspects of this really turn me on but I don’t know what he is into or how to get him going and he doesn’t like to talk about it. But there are so many different things that I would be open to trying and he seems to want to just ignore it. I want him to be satisfied in bed and like the way I look. I am not sure if he is just uncomfortable with it or if it’s something I am doing wrong. I am not to big right now about 175lbs, I was about 165lbs when we started dating. but I have been told since a young age that I had a curvy body type. And never thought to embrase it, I was always a little embarrassed by it. Anyway I could just really use some help I have so many questions and I am just not sure where to look for answers. Should I just be blunt and ask him straight up, like I know he likes to play with my stomach which really turns me on but i wanna show him he can be himself with me and I want to see if I am turned on and into other things involved. Thanks in advance for any advice!