There are so many expressions of feedism, not everyone wants to be degraded or even has that desire as part of their kink. Especially since a lot of us have been fat shamed IRL or targeted elsewhere on the internet, I would never just call someone a pig or a slob unless they’ve stated they enjoy that (outside of a video or description).
in my feedist relationship, my partner is never degrading towards me because tbh I prefer worship/love/praise for my fatness - I have fun roleplaying w/ degradation in some of my videos but that’s not my thing IRL. I just thought it was wild that guy went through all the effort of making collages and stuff of my gain only to tell me to lose weight in private LOL. If I lost a pound every time someone told me to lose weight I’d weigh a negative amount, microscopic 🤣 rest assured I’m still happily gaining!