shas

Hi guys, this topic can be closed because we broke up about two monthes ago for others reasons than her weight :/ I managed to accept her decision and support her but we were too different to have a healthy relationship. She wasn't honest enough with me and we argued more and more. Now, she is free, she can lose or gain weight, I don't care anymore, I have my own way to draw Thanks for your advice anyway

I don't know where she started but her curves fit her very well

You're probably right, she loves food but recently, she mainly ate salads, even if she's still hungry then .. : She's not really on diet, but she uses slimming creams, she eats healthier and she makes some sport, w/e it's the same goal than a diet :-/ I'll try to enjoy her current curves and hope for a yoyo because as you said, i'm quite lucky, and she's too because except this community, i don't know a lot of young men who accept their girlfriend to gain weight ^^' They mostly want big boobs or/and big butt but flat belly ! Anyway, thank you for your advice, it helps me a lot and it's quite liberating

Sure, but i want her to feel better too :-\ It's a possibility but what if it doesn't happen like that ? I'm really attracted by her actual body, the bigger she is, the more i'm attracted, but if she manages to lose, i know i'll be less. I tried to get her used to her belly, to accept it, but it was useless when you know what she plans to do ... This is frustrating. 1 year of support for the reverse effect x'(

Hi all, sorry if my english is bad, i do my best ;D I've started going out with my girlfriend 1 year ago. She started pretty chubby (~75kg) but lost weight because of a thyroid problem (down to 68kg). Later, I told her for my preferences for chubby women and she agreed to try to gain a little weight for me, but no more than the weight she'd lost. I promised to help her to be more confident about her body. Finally, she gained a little more (unintentionaly) and ended to 80kg. I was in heaven until last sunday... She told me that she could no longer bear her belly because she is very complexed by her body shape. She decided to eat healthier, exercise more and lose until she feels better. I totally accept her decision, but then she asked me to help her because she won't be able to do it without my support. I know i should help her because i don't love her just for her body, i love her for who she is, but i don't feel able to do it because i know i will be less attracted by her body, which is perfect currently, and it may have an impact on sex. I really needed to share because I don't find a solution... I don't want to be selfish in my choice, but I hope to find a solution that will avoid impacts on our relationship.