LovesMeat

You look truly incredible — all those wonderful rolls, all that awesome flab…all that delicious woman! And I know you'd be heavenly to snuggle up with!

For me, it would probably be Mediterranean food: I love fresh produce and whole grains lol!

I have a pretty similar fantasy as you my friend I'm pretty sure I'd be happy and plenty willing to get fat if I found a girlfriend who was really into me fattening up, was going to get fat or fatter herself and if we were really into each other for the long-term.

Welcome back! I just want to say you look incredibly lovely. And congrats on passing the 300 lbs mark: I for one adore a woman who can be confident in herself, and who has a gorgeous supersized figure!

Welcome back! And I'm totally with you on loving women's voluptuousness, and their intelligence

Glad you're back and happy Plus, you look awesome

That's great: I always find it awesome when a gainer girl loves growing!

I like! Do you have a goal set? You are very pretty

I largely agree with you: I'm all about consent, and while I don't think that consensual feederism is inherently sexist, I do think the relationship needs to be balanced and have both parties finding enjoyment in the practice, especially the feedee. Note that I say this as a guy who regularly fantasizes about being a feeder (but only in that kind of relationship). I don't see any problem with any adult of sound mind choosing to become a feedee, unless of course it gets into an issue of control over the feedee by the feeder. I also think that name calling, like "pig" and "cow", is degrading to women, especially when not asked for by the woman in question. And, as you mentioned, this kind of misogyny clearly originates in mainstream [Western] culture…not that there aren't plenty of non-Western cultures with much more sexism, such as most of the Islamic World, but there are also one's with much less, such as those of Indigenous California.

PLEASE NOTE: This is not intended to be a "shaming" or a flaming thread in any way. I'm genuinely interested in what the other folks here think about the problem of sexism. And this is definitely NOT just limited to the fat subculture in any way. With that over… Hello everyone. I was wondering what people's opinions about the problem of sexism as it exists in various cultures and subcultures to varying degrees. Being that this is a fat subculture board, I'm particularly interested in how people feel about sexism in our community. I'm also interested in experiences with or opinions about sexism outside of the fat community. Also, I'm very curious as to anyone's proposals as to how to fight sexism, both in general, in our community and in others'.

Welcome! ;D

Hey ladies, 23 year-old, average build guy here. I'm finishing up my associates at community college this fall. I'm pretty shy in person, and I'm very open and honest about my preferences, if you ask. If we click though, I can REALLY open up. I really do just LOVE big women: One of my biggest fantasies is to pamper and spoil a fat girl with affection and love as well as her favourite foods! ;D But don't get me wrong: I'd NEVER force you to do ANYTHING you'd be uncomfortable or unwilling to: I'd ALWAYS respect your right to consent. I've had a girlfriend in the past, but it didn't work out for long because she was uncomfortable with my (very strong) preference for fat women, and she was always uncomfortable with her weight (around 100 kilos). As for myself, I weigh around 45 to 50 kilos; I'm about 168 cm high. My hobbies include: Reading, doing art, hanging out with friends and on my college campus…and cooking… ;D I'm willing to travel pretty much anywhere in California; how far depends on how long, when in the semester and where I'd be staying, all plans I'd want to have made beforehand. It'd be easy and quick to for me to get Bay Area, if that's where you're at. PM me if you're interested! Happy to exchange info, including pics!

Sacramento So glad there's a thread like this! ;D

I like! You can sure draw people WAY better than me, especially sexy fat babes

You're a really talented artist, and your paint-overs are very erotic :thumbsup: