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  1. Did those pants actually burst open while you were wearing them or did you have to rip them to get them on for the photo? Either way, the ventilated look works great on you! Why cover a butt as beautiful as that anyway, right?
  2. Her lips are a bit much, sure, but it is pretty impressive that she’s going to such great lengths for The Love of The Dream. People have been saying that she’s “not naturally built to be big” and I’ll admit that her shape reflects it, but somehow for me that kind of adds to the allure. These boards have seen naturally big women with co fidence who don’t necessarily care about their weight, and it’s seen girls who gain as a result of endulging their feeding fetish, but it’s not that often we see a woman like this, who’s gone to such lengths because she wants to get as big and fat as she can get. The part in the video where she mentions that she gets horny from the feel of her jiggling— there’s no doubt she’s One Of Us!
  3. I was just about to ask if you'd gotten back into exercisizing to keep your backside toned (like you suggested you might earlier in the thread) and now you grace us with a view of all that butt gelatin! I guess I got my answer! You definitely look great post-op-- your whole body is just so round and bulging, you look like you probably bounce just by walking normally! Can't wait to see what 160 brings!
  4. Well, hey now, I don't think it's fair to take a few anecdotal cases and generalize that to ALL ssbbw's. Given how many of the women who find their way to this site especially are Fat And Proud, and may even have bulked themselves up on purpose, I would expect they are willing to put more effort into taking good care of themselves and addressing the unique issues that come with their size. Sadly, many other women likely end up obese as a result of years of the same general self-neglect that causes them to lapse in their hygiene. Or perhaps they aren't willing to take the extra measures to care for their hard-to-reach areas because they don't want to admit that they're too fat to properly keep clean. I don't think one bad experience is enough to turn me off of SSBBW's forever, especially if she and I really "click" in other ways. But just like Normal Society must inevitably come to terms with the fact that not all intimate relationships are like the ones in the movies, we can benefit from an open discussion about these things.
  5. I actually had a similar experience to this myself not long ago, having found myself disappointed by third base with a woman much larger than my previous biggest partner. Even sitting on the couch cuddling and watching TV was awkward, since her wide hips and massive ass made her a lot taller than me sitting down, so I could just barely reach my arm around her shoulders/waist. When things got more in-depth, I found I had to struggle to balance myself on one arm, and thus only had a single hand free and a limited part of her I could reach, while her hands had full reign over my body. I fear she may have gotten the impression that I wasn't as "into it" as her as a result, when in reality I was working so hard that afterwards I felt myself trembling and out of breath from the exertion. There was also the fact that I could smell something unpleasant coming off of her, and during the act I realized there are probably parts of her body that she can't wash unassisted. While I know it's not her fault and I'm sure she tries to keep herself clean, the idea still comes as a turn-off. I'm still weighing my feelings on the issue and I'm not ready to say I'd never try again, with her specifically or with any woman of her size, but I can definitely sympathize with the OP about underestimating the downsides of supersize intimacy. All the wonderful SSBBW members and paysite models around here certainly do a good job of spoiling us, don't they?
  6. Even if you never gain past 145-150, your enthusiasm for gaining and for the extra pounds you've already put on is an incredibly beautiful sight to behold. The journey is the destination.
  7. Lack of body shots and at least one picture with cleavage are the signs I notice most. Since big girls tend to have big chests, most of them can produce at least one good "cleavage selfie" even if they're pear-shaped overall. Also, the "MySpace angle" (camera held overhead and at an angle; face looking upward and upper torso visible) is actually a trick to make a girl look thinner (since she's looking up, no double chin; boobs conceal the lower torso), so a girl who's still using that as her profile pic in 2016 is either trying to hide some chub or still thinks that pic from 2005 is her best photo. (Could be both.)
  8. So a while back I heard some obnoxious morning talk radio host talking about bad Tinder dates. One of his callers said that when his date showed up, she was 70 pounds heavier in person than in her profile, and how that was a dealbreaker for him. My first thought would have been "Jackpot!" and my second thought would probably have been "second date: buffet." But it got me thinking: in my experience with online dating sites, the ladies I've met have frequently been heavier than they appeared in their profile photos. Part of this is obviously because these ladies think being fat is a downside and try to minimize/hide it, and in other cases the photos may be outdated (how often do you update yours?). Rarely do I see a profile of a lady who is unapologetically large and owns it. It may be due to my own preferences, but it seems like the majority of women on dating sites are overweight and billing themselves as "a little extra" or the like. Does anyone else have any experience in this vein? Are larger women who don't take pride in being large more likely to turn to online dating? Do "BBW and proud" women even bother with non-plus-size-centric dating sites?
  9. Your enthusiasm is infectious! And the jiggling is hypnotic. Best of luck on growing yourself a nice big echo chamber for all that gurgling!
  10. A while back I brainstormed some ideas for stories I wanted to try writing, but then lost the motivation (and the paper I brainstormed onto) and never wrote them. I just turned my desk upside-down to find the paper, and you can have the ideas since I'm doing jack-all with them. 1. A college girl is secretly being fattened up by her roommate. Constantly ordering takeout and offering to share, supplying weight gain shakes and telling her they're "appetite suppressants", re-calibrating the bathroom scale, etc. 2. Newlyweds take an "eating tour" honeymoon. I read a story like this once at Dimensions, where the couple rents a Winnebago and tours the Southwest, but you could also think Eat Pray Love sans the praying. 3. Puberty ends up far too generous to one girl, and so she attempts to bulk out hoping the rest of her figure "catches up" with her overdeveloped chest. 4. A "Jekyll and Hyde" scenario, except Hyde is less evil and more just ravenously hungry and promiscuous. 5. After gaining the Freshman 15 and then some, a college coed tries to stop the gaining by taking up a sport, only to find that her talent (and newfound passion) lies in weightlifting. Her coach and the rest of her team make it crystal clear that the gaining has just begun! 6. A tall, lanky pagan priestess catches the eye of a "fertility spirit" and finds herself growing more bountiful by the day. Good luck!
  11. Well, I'm single now, but my last girlfriend was slightly heavier than me. I was 5'9" and about 160; she was 5'0" and fluctuated from 180-200 while I dated her. Not much heavier, but because she was short she looked pretty big. I remember I could only get my arms around her if I hugged her from the back; from the front her breasts kept me at bay.
  12. Welcome, and glad to hear you're feeling confident these days! Hope you'll make yourself at home here-- I'm sure you'll fit right in!
  13. So, one more girl I once knew: She was 4'10" (one inch too tall to be legally classified as a midget, she'd like to tell people) and reasonably curvaceous. Even at her thinnest she was a D-cup and had hips. She also had pretty severe ADHD and a few other mental issues, for which she took medication. One type of medication killed her appetite and increased her metabolism, while the other deadened her metabolism and made her hungry all the time. She was also just too spaceheaded to actively exert any effort to control her weight, so there was a real danger that she'd waste away on one or balloon out of control on the other. Her doctors' solution was a "six months on, six months off" regimen where she would alternate medications. The result was that she had gotten comfortable with spending the fall and winter gaining about 60 pounds, then losing it over the spring and summer. She peaked around 175 in March, and dropped to about 115 in September, and that's with little to no muscle mass, so at her biggest she was basically a walking gelatin parfait. She wasn't shy about calling herself "fat" either; not in a self-deprecating manner either, but a "tide goes in and out, seasons pass, and I get fat and thin again" way. If you asked, she'd also be more than happy to show you the two scars on her belly roll. She apparently woke up one morning to discover that she'd left a screwdriver in her bed (for some reason) and that during the night shed rolled over onto it and skewered herself. Fortunately, it had happened during Peak Fat Season, and the screwdriver had simply gone into her belly, through the cushioning, and out her left love handle, missing all her organs and leaving matching entry and exit wounds. How she managed to sleep through this I can't even conjecture. Upon hearing the story, I tactfully suggested that if her winter weight had saved her life, perhaps it wasn't safe to go all summer without it. She responded that she couldn't possibly hold herself at a constant weight because of the medication, so if she wanted to keep her fat in the summer she'd have to be that much fatter in the winter, and 175 on her 4'10" frame was as fat as she could handle being.
  14. I too had that one book that helped inspire me in my formative years. It was called Such a Pretty Face: On Being Fat in America. It was a documentary-style sociological study of what "the fat experience" was like and how our society treated fat people (TL;DR: not great). There were quite a few examples of people-- mostly women-- telling the story of how they had gotten so fat to begin with: either they had always been big and childhood chubbiness had blossomed into adult obesity, or some event in their life had triggered the change. Some of them had never even experienced what it was like to not be gaining, to be able to wear clothes you wore last year. There were also some photos of fat women in flowing garments, trying their best to be beautiful, and of groups of teenage girls (or as I knew them at the time, girls my age) at weight loss camp in their swimsuits, posing for their 'before" pictures. For some of them, "after" never really materialized. If any of you can find it, I definitely recommend it. I've checked various libraries since then but never found another copy. Some of it can be pretty sobering regarding what fat people go through (though this IS 2016 and I'd like to hope we've made progress) but there are some real gems in there.
  15. I remember seeing your interview on a documentary about the lifestyle, and you were amazing back then, but even more wonderful now! You've always been beautiful, and you just keep getting BIGGER, but what really makes it for me is your unshakable confidence and hedonistic glee at being so big. This picture really says it best for me: your belly is enormous, your arms and cheeks are puffed out, and you've got that gorgeous smug grin of self-satisfaction that proves every extra pound is an accomplishment. There's nothing better than a woman who's all puffed up with pride at being all puffed up.
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