dj2k1357

Even if food would make her a billionare in this site if she's not comfortable with feederism stuff she simply won't do it.

I don't do that kind of content because it could be pretty bad for my health, maybe she has other reasons and you have to accept it.

Receiving feedback is great and you gave her a suggestion and she didn't say Yes but you kept pushing. That's not feedback.

Anyway, have a great afternoon!

@Chunky Vixen 73 The thing is, she was not transparent with her answer at first as far as a "no. I am not comfortable doing that." Or something to that effect. If I was a model, and in her shoes, I would not have replied the way she did saying "Ahaha well I do love stuffed crust" if it was still something I am not open to. I mean, she has done videos eating a small plate of cookies and drinking soda before since she said those are things she is not comfortable, so I do not feel it is wrong to assume that based on those things, it is not out of the ball park to assume that she might be open to it now. So she didnt give me a direct answer. Her answer was vague and could be taken either way. And that is why I asked her in email off site if she would be open to doing it. For 1, to not waste my time coming up with the idea if she is not willing to do it. And 2 to get some clarity on her answer, as well as give some slight reasons as to why it could benefit her if it was a no still. And that was when she got upset because I said she could be "bigger than she was (pun intended lol)" by doing eating videos. I didnt mean it to be a back handed compliment, but I can see without context, it could be taken that way, but I ask myself why would I want to insult purposely someone that I want to keep a working relationship with? It makes no sense. I didn't say she had to push past her limits and be uncomfortably full, and that her work sucked or anything crass like that. I realize some girls have thicker skin than most in this game, and I genuinely did not think what I said was so harsh, but in any event, I hold no ill will towards her and i have moved on from the idea of resolving it.  Some girls allow you to make it up to them and some dont. She mentions I said I would leave her alone after that message, but there was no reply back so I wasnt even sure if she received it. Also, I was no longer asking for the eating in video anymore and was just trying to make amends. To me, I dont feel that to be pushy, but perhaps I will just leave well enough alone in the future when it comes to constructive criticism and giving opinions because without context, and chance to give context due to being blocked, it often does not work in your favor.

@dj2k1357 I get your point.

My take on your eating comment, just because she posted a video of her eating doesn't mean she's into it.  I'm not a stuffer, I don't like being overly full to the point of feeling sick. However I have done things on occasion and recorded them too share with my followers that have pushed my limits and have gotten sick. Just because I have videos of that doesn't mean that's my normal thing. I also am not big into consuming sweet all the time, yet half my videos are of me eating sweets.  I've done them because either someone asked for them or I thought I'd try it. And if it's my first time doing it I'm going to record it regardless, because it might not ever happen again. LOL

 

Ok but see, it seems you have a better attitude about it when people ask you to do the things you are not comfortable with. Maybe its because of her being a model for many years that her experience doing it turns her ear off from being receptive to fan feedback, but it was coming from a place of noticing her clips do not get the attention I feel they deserve here and trying to provide feedback to help them gain more traction.

So when you do those videos you do not like to do, do they sell well atleast? I feel like clipmaking is about the happy medium of making content you enjoy making and making content your fans want enough to buy in order to make money and keep you sustained. I even heard that from a fetish model at a convention. Not word for word, but she gave the example that she really loves doing bondage, but it does not really sell well for her. Her fans are into her more for FinDom, so she still makes bondage clips to keep her happy, but she mainly caters to findom content because her following supports her most in that. Doing things you arent necessarily  into doesnt have to be something you do all the time, but atleast something you are willing to do I feel in order to gain new fans and grow your brand.

Let me ask you something. With her showing a willingness to eat in clips by making a few with eating, that at least, in your opinion, would make you, if you was a fan looking to inquire about getting work done, think that that person is now willing to do it in some way. I didn't say she should stuff herself and try to push her to do crazy things like some people do, like demand she eat certain things or gain weight when she doesnt want to or toxic things like that. I just feel she took my messages out of context and when I tried to save face, she saw it as pushy.

Personally I've only had a few clips that sold well and my clips sales are far from keeping me sustained. And for the most part all my videos I've enjoyed. My first handful were stupid, just because I didn't know what I was doing, but I had fun doing them, so I didn't care. LOL 

I'm always willing to hear a person out and if it's not something I want to do I tell them. 

I know there are some models who don't even reply back to people or even acknowledge them and I think that's rude. 

 

 

Thanks for the reply back @Missbootyangel I appreciate your insight on the matter.

@Themainman So I basically asked about something that the model had in the past said they was not open to doing, but it was based on their response to a comment I made. The model is meeting with another model to collab, and I can't remember what she exactly said because I cannot see the posts of the forum, but I sent her a PM to inquire before making a formal request. 

Here is what I sent:

Hey there will you be taking requests with your friend you are going to see soon? Id really love to see her stuff u full of stuffed crust pizza

her response:

hmm maybe! I do love stuffed crust

my reply:

When do you meet with her? And are you now open to customs eating or drinking? Id love to see you reprise the role of hooters girl also, i had some halloween try on ideas too.

her reply:

Sept 9th-11th. We're not direct customs just suggestions since we don't have a whole lot of time 

 

my reply:

I can sweeten the p o t (because the word was blocked for some reason) and send something so my suggestion is taken a bit more serious.

her reply:

Sorry--we're keeping it open to whatever suggestions we feel up to

 

my reply which I can now see may have been a bit pushy, but getting paid guaranteed money instead of just taking a non paid request to me makes better sense and is better for both parties:

so u rather just do an idea someone suggests instead of getting paid to do a custom u can resell? i dont understand that but ok then.

So then, I messaged her off the site via email and wanted to inquire more because I didn't want my words to be limited, and I proceeded to give what I was considering to be constructive criticism which she felt was rude. Maybe i should have waited for her reply in the inbox, but I guess she felt I was trying to ask her again after she said no to doing any kind of eating, but I did not get her message on it until later, so when she saw two messages on the same topic basically, I guess she thought I was not taking her no seriously and decided to block me.

I'm not gonna post the emails, but I pretty much asked if she would be open to doing a custom stuffing or involving food since lately she has been adding food in her clips, and she did not decline when I made the suggestion that the other model feed her food. I also said I think it is the one thing holding her back from being bigger on here than she already is "(pun intended lol) and her response definitely tells me she took it in the wrong tone. She found it rude for me to give an opinion. I just wanted to give her feedback to help her numbers and gain more traction on her clips. She does such good work, and is so good at making clips and I have been a fan for years and was so happy she got into feedism. I just pointed out she would be so much bigger if she started incorporating actual eating in her clips because majority of people want to see clips involving eating and I believe the optics on reviews and sales show that.

i understand it is totally up to the model what boundaries they set and what they are willing to do, and I was just trying to give some constructive feedback as a fan that has nearly bought all of her work besides the gaining encouragement and mutual gaining ones.

So I hope if she sees this, she will reconsider unblocking, but at least I can still check out her work and support her.

 

You made one of the sexiest groths is less than one year. Just amazing  how curvy and sexy a skinny girl can become.

Wow, these are incredible! Thank you So much for these 😍😍 I’m so lucky to have supporters like you ♥️
 

This on top of your review have been such a nice surprise to wake up to 🥰

Ooooo that sounds delicious 😋 ❤️ 🍕 

Yesss! Great idea! 😍

You’ve convinced me! I was gonna get Chick Fil A or McDonald’s but NOW I’m gonna get dat yummy pizzaaaa ♥️ 

@HungrylilKitty and that kisses onesie is the perfect outfit to watch you gorge out on a large heart shaped pizza to fill out your heart shaped 🍑🍑🍑😋 

Thank you sweetie! 

You're so sweet for doing this, you've used great photos thank you so much 🥰

Haha thank you 😏😋

The two of them has intentionally grown huge. Shar used to be a chubster years prior her entrance in scene, then latter discovered her own erotic proclitivies into the fact of fattening herself up while she was creeping back into her former eating habits and hearing about the F.A. community as a part-time webcam model.

Katie Cummings first merely letted herself go, has softened up, has quickly realized the tubbier and bustier she became the more profit she was making (since BBW porn and Fat Fetish voyeurism are reportedly stated amid the most wholesome subsections within the adult entertainment industry) , has seemingly overenjoyed it to the point she went so fat she'd even lost a major part of her former fandom, then when people began to ask questions about whether she's a feedee model or not, she lashed out a tantrum of rageful self-denial by libelling out loud her newfound admirers of "creepers" , in spite having overstepped her own weight goals an half-hundred of pounds ago because she wanted to and still obviously intenting to grow fatter and fatter.

I think it might be a bit of both. I dont think she likes her size and was enjoying the money she gets from the feedism videos, but she started putting on too much weight and didn't like it. I don't think she enioys her weight gain, but I also dont think her resolve to lose the weight is strong, probably a lot due in part to loving food and also lots of people buy her vids at her current size.

You're the sweetest! Thank you for these comparison shots, they're incredible! 😍

You threw a Hail Mary pass to someone known for ghosting and judging by your contempt for me, you ain't got no response 😝.

Contempt? I dont even know who you are but ok cool.