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    Chevalier got a reaction from Janetta in Curvage Casey   
    I sometimes wonder if we could have a an about us topic pinned to our profile. These are getting more popular.  Nice set btw
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    Chevalier reacted to Gregarro Ivinalititavitch in Amount of politically conservative people with fat fetish   
    Precisely the attitude that maintains a culture of fear and pushes people into silence. You're allowed to talk about your politics with no filter and we can't at all.  I never made a blanket statement about Democrats. But you said anyone who is a Republican is a piece of shit. And odd that you chalk all rightwing belief to religiosity and act like we're all Catholics (we aren't). And even then, to demonize all Catholics like that is wrong and your argument about abuse can fit tons of other groups. To pretend that we are somehow okay with school shootings because we don't back the same solutions is pretty disgusting. As is insinuating that most of us want Jim Crow and slavery to return. Meanwhile, ask rightwingers who their favorite SCOTUS judge is and most will answer Clarence Thomas.
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    Chevalier reacted to DieaFaire in Amount of politically conservative people with fat fetish   
    I'll say, that I am fairly conservative by current US standards.  Although, take me back 30 or 40 years and I'd probably fit right in.  I choose to live a 'live and let live' kind of life and rarely voice myself in a political sense because I absolutely  dont want to become the target of hostility for any perceived slights. 
    I am not my political leaning.  I am a proud southern woman who says what you do in the comfort of your home aint nobodies business but yours and Gods. I enjoy this community because it is one of the few places where I dont meet immediate hostility just for not being the societal standard of southern beauty aka pretty, blonde, and thin.  I missed that last check mark about 90 lbs ago, lol.
    Bless you for being brave enough to start this thread.  
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    Chevalier got a reaction from They keep getting fatter in Is the feedism 'community' becoming too commercial and impersonal?   
    Short answer: Almost everything popular that you've once loved is watered down to appeal to the filthy casual that will spend more out of desperation. I need mah gains/Fear Of Missing Out is king.
    Long answer: Helps to start treating it like a business in the long term. Abandon ship for who doesn't have their stuff together, or won't even try. On a positive note, there are more tells these days with the vast supply, so you can find incompatible behavior much faster given less inhibitions.
    Craziest part of all this is I'm noticing a more attractive air when I don't even want it any more.  Maybe because there's a thin line in finding something to believe in and being oversold something, and I'm just sensing survival sex or clout better than trying to salvage too many bad situations.
    I also think of a joke a comedian made that there are no retirement parties here. People just get out of the game with no notice more often than not, and you begin anew. It really isn't "work" when stress tests fail.
    Heck, modifications as life happens are foreign to some as well. If I see a type of roleplay or stimulation, maybe I'll comment but I do like my secrets too, especially if someone cannot communicate well or gets entitled with weight loss/gain.
    It isn't our responsibility to continuously babysit for healthy interaction or what is due (by word or what is previously given) as it's way too sluggish. I'm just glad I got too old for the habit to stay and play for the types who intentionally (by willpower) misunderstand me, and thankful when I don't have to dig for answers.
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    Chevalier reacted to PreyToGod in Is the feedism 'community' becoming too commercial and impersonal?   
    It just occurred to me how commercial the Feedism / FA community has become; even sites that shan't be named which once served as forums for 'likeminded' people to meet and engage, to form relationships of sorts, and offer emotional support and encouragement,  have moved toward more cold and commercial models, pushing and paywalling content. 
    I have no qualms with people making money from fetish content and I don't mind purchasing the odd clip to indulge my kink and support content creators, but I think it's come at the sacrifice of the communal and personal aspect that made these places more than just porn sites.
    Nowadays, most interaction from models feels like mere fan service to sell more content - I know that's cynical and inaccurate in some cases but in most cases it seems true, much more than it used to.
    I'm not sure if there's anything that can be done to reverse the process, but it sucks.
    Anyone else ?
     
     
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    Chevalier reacted to HoneyWithATummyy in Honeywithuhtummy   
    Only 3 hours left!! 50% off my new video! Eating, feeding my friend, burping, belly play! You know you want to find out what the softest part of me is 😈
     https://curvage.org/forum/index.php?/files/file/37356-belly-play-in-a-tight-bikini-🥵/

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    Chevalier reacted to GluttonyGal in Life with My Belly: Fun, interesting, and honest facts about my big belly.   
    1) Because my belly has always been unusually large for my body size, no matter what my weight was, people always thought I was pregnant. Now that I'm older it's no longer an issue but it used to be with any people I met in person and those who followed my fat fetish work. They always swore I was about to give birth. 
    When I was young it was so embarrassing. I was incredibly self conscious and desperate to hide it.
    But as I embraced my fetish it became kind of fun, especially with strangers in public, and definitely in restaurants. 
     
     

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    Chevalier reacted to GluttonyGal in Confessions of a Fetishist: the truth behind my obsession   
    I know there was a time that intimacy was a natural progression for me. A time before my fetish was central to my ability to be physical. I could be enticed by the standard oh so typical flirtations and foreplays. That, coupled with my need to please others for attention, and with the right combination of drinking or smoking to lower inhibitions, and certain targeted physical contact I would be all too happy to have sex.
    I spent years on that path. Never happy, or satisfied. Always pushing the envelope and developing harmful habits as I followed a rather dangerous path. I hate to admit the lengths I would go to in order to try and achieve the feelings I thought I should be having sexually. 
    There was never an inability to climax, simply an odd set of things tgat I needed to make happen. I found i could control the encounter enough to achieve pleasure but that i was then instantly no longer interested. Like a switch would flip after i had achieved satisfaction and I was pretty much repulsed by continuing with the charade. 
    Then over time, things changed. I believe part of it was the simple realization that I wanted very specific things. Patterns began to become obvious to me. Lights were coming on in my mind, my memories, and in my body.
    I did what I always do, I researched. I had to understand what was happening to me. 
    And what was happening to me...
    Let's see. I was become aroused by very specific porn or body parts. I was masterbating after binge eating. I was becoming obsessed with bloating my belly and then photographing or recording the results. I was drawing sexual cartoons involving binge eating.  I was writing sexual stories involving the same.
    Then one day I had my first sexual encounter that directly followed a real life experience I had been fantasizing about. Inadvertently, a man I was having dinner with triggered what would be the beginning of the end for "normal" sexual stimulation for me.
    After a particularly large meal and multiple carbonated beverages, this persons belly was very very swollen.  I had noticed yet mind you,  but as we went to get in the car he placed my hand on his gut to show me just how hard it was. To him it was innocent,  he was simply amazed that his body felt that way. Like a kid, just showing off something weird.
    But for me, I was instantly hornier than I had EVER been. In the car on the way back to his apartment all I could think about was that belly. As soon as we were alone I had to see it, touch it, climb on top of it.
    It was everything.  It was everything!  It was everything!!!
    I wrote about it. Obsessively attempted to recreate it. Even went so far as to secretly force him to gain. I'm not proud of that point in my life. And though secretly fattening someone is the perfect fantasy, it is 100% wrong in real life. I get that. But I'm ashamed to say that I lived that life for too long.
    Eventually, typical foreplay did nothing for me. Sex was merely something I had to do as a chore unless I could find a way to secretly involve something that having to do with food, or drink, or eating.  I began to resent having sex at all and in turn my partner. I spent way too much time in the fantasy world in my head and masterbating. That was my only pleasure.
    My relationship deteriorated. I was cold and angry. And desperate. I gained weight. I hated it and became reclusive. But I also found sexual stimulation in it, and I took to seeking thrills by unusual public displays. Anything from outgrown clothing, binge eating, and self stimulation in a place I would not be recognized. 
    I hit rock bottom, when i discovered that on the internet you could indulge any pleasure if you looked hard enough. I spent all my free time online watching fat fetish porn, reading fat fetish fantasy stories; such that they were back then. I started uploading my own work. I was obsessed.  Literally.  Truly. Obsessed. 
    I hated everything about my real life and hid in my dirty little fantasy world for years. Eventually I found that I, being older than most people I was interacting with online, and that I was also a woman with a fetish, made me uniquely able to get folks to open up about their feelings. 
    I began giving out an email address for those I was running into online, who like me, had no one to talk to about their fetish. I talked everyone who wanted to talk. And I studied everything i could find about the science behind sexual fetish. I learned a lot, not just about my own fetish, but any sexual fetish.  It fascinated me. And honestly, probably saved me
     
    TO BE CONTINUED SOON
     
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    Chevalier reacted to GluttonyGal in Confessions of a Fetishist: the truth behind my obsession   
    I wish I were a cartoon character in a world without rules of physical restraint or limitations. I feel like my binge eating would make so much more sense in that fantasy world. My desires,  my hunger, my round belly; that's where they belong.
    My desire to stuff myself more and more. Feeling my belly blowing up like a balloon. Bursting out of my clothes. Barely able to move. It deserves to be realized without the problems of judgement, physical limitation, and cost that the real world imposes. 
    As a cartoon version of myself I wouldn't need to stop eating. There would be no running out of food, or money, or space in my belly. 
    And no matter how much I grew, how unimaginably fat I got, I could always be drawn with a pretty little innocent face that appears totally unaware of what I have done.
     

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    Chevalier got a reaction from Carlys SSBBW in Curvage Casey   
    I sometimes wonder if we could have a an about us topic pinned to our profile. These are getting more popular.  Nice set btw
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    Chevalier got a reaction from TwiceasNICE in ⚠️ Why you should never buy a clip directly from a model   
    lol don't feed the models, I find that funny.  Though I do see the taboo some make about mentioning other sites here; hope I don't break any rules in my post. 
    You assume the risk, especially if she doesn't have everything in order.  I remember a woman was lazy to charge $20/month and would upload 1 daily pic with a 10 second weekly video at most on onlyfans.  She of course fought with me rather than improve her content when I called her out on it given that's sample material on other sites.
    I don't know if this site will have a means for making custom, private, and paid subscriptions though I know the entitlement like in these 2 cases got me out of wanting to buy.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from thewowza36 in Make Curvage Clips minutes visible/price sorting   
    It is a good idea to have the minutes as visible as the price so people can see that a $4 video is 10 mins while scrolling through a model's list of videos/other files.
    I didn't even know that was possible honestly until I had to click the video and read about it.
    It's easy gratuity/thank you money from receiving a response, to then buy and review in 1 fluid motion.  I don't think any other site has that kinda concept, and it's awesome.
    Could also sort by price too for the budget (damn that rent money's due) to the high rollers who want to be financially dominated by the pound to accompany their worshipping too.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from eeucomisso in A successful feedee relationship   
    Why not? Men are conditioned to be subservient and censor themselves to women while paying them for the so-called blessing. Then there's the one-upsmanship that ranges from protecting bad actors to supporting diminishing returns, especially on social media to gain anything (pounds, followers, money and Brazilian butt lifts) but lifelong friends and meaningful intimacy.
    Politically incorrect observations help a lot. Some convince themselves they're less attractive but topic creator feels it's not as locked in at a younger age. I do experience the opposite when they politicize their weight daily to overcompensate for lack of life experience/maintenance skills to preserve a union. However, I understand the malleability to possibly change viewpoints at a younger age rather than be stuck in their ways.
    But at the opposite end of the spectrum I'm aware of women getting too old to have inhibitions, and that can be sloppy as well. Like how are women in their 40s and 50s still broke or wishing they were younger? Just be careful while having fun and stop paying when (usually chronic sob) stories don't add up.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from GH546 in How Important Is Intercourse to You?   
    Really, a trigger warning? People are too brittle these days for me to really bother much as mental health is cried as an excuse every day. Let alone with a good enough connection, anything can be enjoyable, especially with how it's cool now to be remote, especially with those who get crazy about the vaccine.
    Chemistry helps more than mechanics honestly, especially when there are so many bad actors who double dip, cheat, or suddenly get too depressed to try. I say this because I appreciate good offers and exclusive invites over how much some cheapen themselves by posting anything online, or have no idea on how to have a moment for a private action. It helps safeguard from breaches of trust.
    Based on what you said, I buy or sell based on what's readily available and try to toss out what I find to be a crutch to be taken advantage of by my unwitting overreliance, especially in this day when stuff can be leaked.
    Bad actors will complain you are discriminating if they don't meet your preference (though they do the same my way or the highway bs 9 times outta 10), or false accusations can be made (which I experienced on this site too) because harassment has become fluid and can change when it benefits by a book to be made or such.
    TL:DR I just see what lanes a woman gives me open and negotiate for something sustainable. These lanes are abstract as I can pick up on what she wants and see if there is mutual ground to enjoy.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from vpprof in A successful feedee relationship   
    I'd say eventually become desensitized/lose patience in the long term. Think of it like the future is female. I graduated college in 2009 and people still promoting that over the past 12 years.  What happened for no upward mobility? Same with race for the cure, like we're going in circles, or my responsibility to care.  How am I supposed to work with this?
    Kinda reminds me of that Kaiji speech by Tonegawa, what are people doing with their lives? Same with the fighting you had to experienced for that gay confirmation bias with DaVinci. I've gotten banned because certain protected groups need to censor, but this is what some people need to make the highlight of their lives, so I calmly lost the ability to tolerate them,
     
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    Chevalier reacted to Madilyn Mars in Do you need dating advice from a fat babe?   
    To be honest, girls have been conditioned to be wary of most men. Even if you are a normal dude, we can't tell right away. You're going have to put yourself out there several time to get some bait...it's not easy. It's like anything worth while in life, you have to work for it.
    Also, DON'T START A MESSAGE WITH 'hi' 'whats up' 'hello' or anything like that. We get tons of messages, and I know I usually delete those messages. They are a waste of our time. Be unique, stand out. And don't focus on looks or kinks right away! Ffs, we are people too. We need respect on a human level before getting intimate. That's exactly what kinks are. There are plenty of women, especially larger ones. We often get looked over, or dumped.
    Cheesy, but try a club or a group. Expand your social circle. That's the only way to meet people IRL, if you give up on dating apps. Either way, you have to put yourself out there.
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    Chevalier reacted to Madilyn Mars in Do you need dating advice from a fat babe?   
    Be sure to be honest about everything you're looking for right off the bat. You can't be worried about what those who don't partake in this enjoyment think, because it cuts right to the point. If they don't like it, you don't waste your time. Get to know them, of course, but like..if you're on dating apps it helps to have that kind of info on your profile.
    Also, honesty is hot. It's nice when people don't want to hide what they are into.
    Don't be creepy or pushy. Don't JUST see them as a feedee. They are people with complex personalities and interests. Don't comment on things if you don't know if they're comfortable with it. At first I hated my partner calling out my belly. But I was slowly and respectfully introduced to having someone interested in qualities I was most insecure about. Now it's hot. Basically, don't jump from 0 to 100 in a second. Get to learn and respect eachother before going all out.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from vpprof in How Important Is Intercourse to You?   
    Really, a trigger warning? People are too brittle these days for me to really bother much as mental health is cried as an excuse every day. Let alone with a good enough connection, anything can be enjoyable, especially with how it's cool now to be remote, especially with those who get crazy about the vaccine.
    Chemistry helps more than mechanics honestly, especially when there are so many bad actors who double dip, cheat, or suddenly get too depressed to try. I say this because I appreciate good offers and exclusive invites over how much some cheapen themselves by posting anything online, or have no idea on how to have a moment for a private action. It helps safeguard from breaches of trust.
    Based on what you said, I buy or sell based on what's readily available and try to toss out what I find to be a crutch to be taken advantage of by my unwitting overreliance, especially in this day when stuff can be leaked.
    Bad actors will complain you are discriminating if they don't meet your preference (though they do the same my way or the highway bs 9 times outta 10), or false accusations can be made (which I experienced on this site too) because harassment has become fluid and can change when it benefits by a book to be made or such.
    TL:DR I just see what lanes a woman gives me open and negotiate for something sustainable. These lanes are abstract as I can pick up on what she wants and see if there is mutual ground to enjoy.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from vpprof in How do I tell my BF I'm a Curvage Model?   
    Ask if he likes taking pictures of you and gradually ease him while discerning those parasocial relationships. I don't know if you had the talk about what counts as cheating.
    Though your question does give me closure on why so many models can ghost, yeah boyfriend becoming third wheel won't be happy, but apparently his money doesn't cut it so I dial down on things.
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    Chevalier reacted to Maxine Grandé in How do I tell my BF I'm a Curvage Model?   
    Maybe when you're alone you could "rehearse" telling it to him. Pretend he's in the room and see how it goes. When you're ready to actually tell him, tell him that you want to give him time to process it and that you're still the same you and nothing has changed. IMO if he doesn't approve of it, he's not worth it: someone who loves you should not limit you. Maybe you can also tell him you're willing to make compromises. Also the site doesn't allow nudity, i think that's a huge thing!
    Good luck! ❤️
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    Chevalier reacted to vilecoyote in Latecia Thomas   
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    Chevalier reacted to NikeLove1986 in ❤️‍🔥 Mochii Babii ~ Goddess of Gluttony ❤️‍🔥   
    New Couch might be needed to support all that Goodness 
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    Chevalier reacted to WatermelonMan in GF holds in her fat stomach, and then...   
    New girl, cute-as-hell redhead, chubby all over, big, ripe, bouncing boobs. Little butterball. 
    Sex is amazing, we just fit together, you know how it is.
    In clothes and when we have sex, her stomach is soft and plump, proportionate to her chubby-all-over body. Nice to touch, and to come up from behind and wrap arms around. 
    But two days ago, when I was in the living room and she was in the bedroom getting dressed, I saw her at the closet through the cracked door, getting ready to put on a pair of jeans. She had a bra on and nothing else, and without anyone looking, she had let her stomach out, turned to the side, direct side view. 
    Holy shit - relaxed, not holding it in, her stomach was HUGE. I had no idea she was that BIG when she didn't suck it in. Like 7 months pregnant, and all fat. It looked like she was pushing it out with all her might, but I knew she wasn't - she is just used to sucking it in, and dressing in a way that minimizes it.  Thinking no one was looking, she relaxed and...oh, my! 
    She is not into gaining weight whatsoever, but she is fine with me loving her chub., But seeing her with her fat stomach sticking way out in front of her, it looked like she had gained 40 pounds. What a photo it would have made. 
    I won't tell her what I saw, of course. You know, "I saw you getting dressed and you looked fucking huge." Shhhhh lol
    GOD I love fat women...
     
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    Chevalier got a reaction from lalt in How have prior relationships impacted feederism for you?   
    It's as easy as having an off switch and passively setting up events like Halloween candy stuffing, thanksgiving is self explanatory, Christmas/holiday cheer, and egg nog for me years.
    If you're blatantly looking for gains like a bodybuilder, you'll be disappointed or have it become that obsession that often looks bad in the media. Then there's the other aspect to intercept when she sees you like a meal ticket and funnels down expenses and quality time to those who do far less than her Superman.
    Heck I notice myself reconnecting and retooling relationships with whatever women ghost out when they get hungry enough to want to engage me, and then I have to treat the encounter like a short term lease (ie boundaries and not overreach) before too much is owed.
    The problem is that social media and forums are fake and everybody got an excuse for a sob story, get easily offended (you can't win when stories conflict) or no show (I didn't spend all this just to fizzle out with no closure).
    The trick is just knowing who's worth cleaning up after renegotiating a breach, managing your time so you're not codependent on her bs (eat and run/dine 'n dash are the worst), and even seeing a social power through food so it's normal (like rubbing a woman's feet or if she lets you engage her weight/mature age) over some closeted fetish that ignores the emotional connection (if she eats for everyone, what does she do to make you special)/icebreakers (or a way to address each other) that attraction can be a catalyst for.
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