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    Chevalier reacted to vpprof in A successful feedee relationship   
    Can you elaborate on that? You meant tolerance towards what exactly? 
    Willpower is one thing, but another is awareness of one's own emotions. What exactly am I angry at? Why do I feel resentful? How exactly have I been mistreated? How could I have avoided it? That really helps pinpoint the issue.
    Yes, that's total brainwashing. I'd say, don't lash at women at large but at the same time have critical thinking. And of course you're not obliged to believe a woman simply by dint of her being a woman, that'd be ridiculous.
    Funny you should mention that because I had this very issue on here. We were discussing Leonardo da Vinci's sexuality and I was making the point that calling him homosexual on what I believe to be a very slender factual basis is just an ideological manifesto. You know, "it's so cool to be non-heteronormative, let's make out that all history is gay!" The topic existed peacefully for a few months, then it caught a mod's attention and now any mention of it gets instantly obliterated without any acknowledgement that this issue ever existed. Hell, even this post might get deleted  That's just sadge…
    Of course I'm not anti-LGBT, all I'm advocating is some common sense. So what am I to do? Become an angry, frustrated Internet troll? Well, that'd be creating more problems than we already are dealing with. So I have asked myself, what is it that I'm angry at? The fact that mods like to shut people up based on their liking. OK. So my beliefs about the core issues (raised in that thread) stay the same. I satisfy my anger with the observation that the moderation board on here is extremely afraid of controversy, despite what they have stated in the Guidelines, and that they have the "cancel" mentality. I even understand how, in absence of proper skills to deal with such problems, they might consider total obliteration to be the safe option, and I sympathise with them. That's how you deal with this shit.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from vpprof in A successful feedee relationship   
    Thanks for not attacking me but between cancel culture, metoo and just an overall lack of communication given brainwashing narratives (believe all women or do this or else you're transphobic),
    I feel this solution can only be done in a trial of fire to lose a lot of tolerance and unlearn from seeing when you are misled by these factors you think willpower can surpass. Though long term I think you're correct given so many things can age poorly, and it becomes easier to improve yourself when someone is laying in a pool of their bs that became too big not to see.
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    Chevalier reacted to Lake Terror in Goddess Patty   
    I haven't seen anything posted here but figured this sub section was appropriate.
    We all knew who she was and it is very unfortunate for me to tell people she has passed recently.
     
    Her family set up a GoFundMe page to help cover the medical costs. She passed away from a lifelong battle with Diabetes Type 1.
    I would hope people who knew her could tell everyone a fond memory of her here. I ask for it to be respectful and not creepy.
     
     

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    Chevalier reacted to YEZ in Unknown Cute Goddess   
    Who knows the name ?


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    Chevalier got a reaction from carlo94 in girlfriend out of shape   
    I hope you can encourage her to do a bit of exercise, and understand the double role lol with her roll play, pun intended, when intimate. Doesn't help anyone when someone is disabled by their weight, when things break down.
    I had to get in better shape myself to tend to my family's needs, which can happen if someone either becomes disabled, or gets dementia through old age.
    I'm sorry it didn't work.
    That will kill your relationship as you legit can't do anything other than be around her when she sleeps. I remember a woman I was once with who'd always just pass out, and similar to what I said before, I had to get in better shape to take care of the household. Life is unfair sometimes, but I appreciate the post given a forum like this wants to have a fantasy that every pound gained is going to be a happy one.
    All I can say is just be tolerant and see if you can do baby steps forward with her; and this is normal for a lot of relationships where the person just becomes completely withdrawn. However, I am not the type to buy into the whole mental illness is an excuse for everything though.
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    Chevalier reacted to vpprof in girlfriend out of shape   
    Well, I think that with the panic she experienced while walking up the stairs and this depressive mood now (constant tiredness), it's pretty clear her mental wellbeing is on the decline here. It's quite sad. And like @Chevalier said, this absolutely has the potential to kill your relationship if you two don't do something about it. Maybe ask her, why she's unhappy as a first step.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from Ilikeemthicc in Average size Wife doesn’t know I like fat girls😳   
    Just be subtle and role play if you catch her snacking/overeating on something.  People tend to blow this out of proportion, but with social media trying to normalize anything these days, there's less pressure if you're not taking things to 11.
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    Chevalier got a reaction from vpprof in girlfriend out of shape   
    I hope you can encourage her to do a bit of exercise, and understand the double role lol with her roll play, pun intended, when intimate. Doesn't help anyone when someone is disabled by their weight, when things break down.
    I had to get in better shape myself to tend to my family's needs, which can happen if someone either becomes disabled, or gets dementia through old age.
    I'm sorry it didn't work.
    That will kill your relationship as you legit can't do anything other than be around her when she sleeps. I remember a woman I was once with who'd always just pass out, and similar to what I said before, I had to get in better shape to take care of the household. Life is unfair sometimes, but I appreciate the post given a forum like this wants to have a fantasy that every pound gained is going to be a happy one.
    All I can say is just be tolerant and see if you can do baby steps forward with her; and this is normal for a lot of relationships where the person just becomes completely withdrawn. However, I am not the type to buy into the whole mental illness is an excuse for everything though.
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    Chevalier reacted to Ilikeemthicc in Average size Wife doesn’t know I like fat girls😳   
    I have been with my wife for 10+ years and she has no clue that I secretly like fat girls online I discovered feedism maybe a year or two prior. I love her unconditionally and we have great sexlife and she’s sexy no matter her weight since always fluctuating (currently 160lbs) lowest (110 when we met).. I just enjoy coming online and watching and commenting on my favorite fat babes on the side. 

    I just don’t know if I continue this being my own little dirty secret or if I should tell her someday shes not very open minded on things like this so I’m afraid she will think it’s weird. 

    Then on the other hand lately she’s been kind pigging out and has gained some weight this year so idk maybe this means if she continues to gain more it may make explaining this easier 🤷🏻‍♂️. I’m never one to push her to gain or loose weight she just does her own thing and I’m cool with that. So idk what do y’all think? I can’t be the only one in this boat
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    Chevalier reacted to carlo94 in girlfriend out of shape   
    It certainly was panic rather than a real physical problem. This comforts me a little. I think after two flights of stairs she started to feel tired and at the thought of being only halfway there she got scared. She was also ashamed that anyone else could see her in such trouble. Of course, crying and moaning on public stairs could attract the attention of the neighbors and all of this made things worse.
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    Chevalier reacted to carlo94 in girlfriend out of shape   
    Hello everyone. I just signed up and I like overweight women. My girlfriend is, too. She's not obese but definitely fat. In fact, she weighs about 80 kg or 176 lbs and is 157 cm or 5'3" tall. But she's definitely out of shape because she's never played sports in her life and she's very lazy.
    I guess a lot of other users also have a pretty fat girlfriend or wife.
    My question is: have you ever seriously feared for her health?
    I ask this because a few days ago I was really scared. We live in a fourth floor apartment and a few days ago there was a broken elevator. My girlfriend then tried to walk up the stairs but didn't make it. She phoned me (I was in the house) and she was stuck on the second floor completely breathless. I even thought she had a heart attack. I managed to calm her down and after half an hour she managed to walk with me helping her. She had to stop other times but we finally got home. She was totally breathless and forceless.
    I am very concerned because she is only 25 years old and I am afraid she may have serious problems in the future.
    Has anyone been in such a situation?
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    Chevalier reacted to hikazori in @sarahxx is a Scammer   
    All: Please be advised this user @Sarahxx (who goes by bbwsarah on other platforms) scammed me out of $60 for a custom video which she never made. Be aware and never do business with this individual!
     
    Admins if this is not the right place for this please feel free to move to appropriate forum
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    Chevalier got a reaction from BellyForceFeedee in i'm new too being an eater and it's costly   
    Cooking is a lot cheaper honestly, as well as developing a skill; feels like a lost art (like being practical) given the premium of ordering delivery. Rice, pasta, mac and cheese, only a few dollars apiece at most, and ravioli sometimes goes on sale.
    Biscuits are like caloric bombs when you're not ordering one of those (possible) bricks at KFC/popeyes as well. Around 200 calories each, can go organic too but it won't reduce the calories, same with soup (without needing all that sodium a lot of restaurants or MSG from cans that aren't organic).
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    Chevalier got a reaction from Griigor in Seems All the Women in my Life are Getting Fat right now   
    Though they're generally not happy to share that information; it's overcompensation and girl talk.
    https://www.verywellhealth.com/coping-with-obesity-4690812
    Tell me whether or not you see those symptoms; it really opened my eyes to see how common anxiety and depression are, where they puff out their chest about their bodies one day by and literally say to remind themselves every day as they go into the fetal position the next. Has nothing to do with society after a certain point/age, especially when they're not conversing with a group who can gang up on them. 
    If you don't believe me, this post here with body positivity in the title. Took me years to understand this conversation is not for me to play Superman as she'll need rescuing every day, similar to a drug addiction.
    https://www.instagram.com/p/CN73z5Kn8u3/?igshid=rbg4eh4mbsqk
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    Chevalier reacted to WatermelonMan in Found a woman who wants to get fat for me   
    Ok, false alarm..
    She is severely bi-polar (by her own admission) and likes to send 12 videos in a row of the dog running after a toy, which of course everyone loves to look at because there isn't enough content out there of people just turning on a camera at a cat or dog just lying there, or eating, or popping their head up, etc. "Surely my friends want to see this - for the 25th time!" 
    Gently, gently, lol...
    Lives at home, does not work due to disability, has mental issues (also by her own admission - has been in an institution) and there you go.
    Still a lovely person, funny, witty, deserves good things including someone who loves her chubby self, but at this point in my life I have most definitely had enough of the mentally ill, the unstable, the unfortunate people who are, like me, just trying to make their way in the world but not doing very well at it.
    "With compassion."
     
     
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    Chevalier reacted to Bigger_student_body in Chubby-Out of shape popular girls.   
    Loving this gal's gain!!!
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    Chevalier reacted to YummySinpie in Weight Gain comics and sequences 🥰 - YummySinpie   
    I can't say thank you enough for joining Chevalier ❤️❤️❤️
    Posting some more work I've done over last two weeks! My comic is moving full steam ahead and plenty of fat sequences in the works too~







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    Chevalier reacted to NocturnalDevotion in Is the "body positivity" movement fake?   
    That was sarcasm. I just don’t think it makes sense to say this website is about body positivity when so many men here tell you that you need to change. I don’t even consider people who are obsessed with others gaining actual FA’s.  FAs are people who are sexually attracted to real fat people, not people who only see what they want someone to be. (Before everyone jumps all over me, I’m an actual real FA)
    But with any group, body positivity, or here - there will always become some type of standard or ideal even if that was not the original intention. That is why I am not really a “team player” I just do what I want to and some people don’t like it, but you don’t need to troll me.
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    Chevalier reacted to A Saucerful Of Harry in Is the "body positivity" movement fake?   
    As someone who's been a part of the FA/BBW community since the early 2000's I can attest that an individual suffering from body dysmorphia can have their case worsened by body positivity or what it was called back in the day "size acceptance", I've seen it more on the modeling side of things with the girls who've gained a lot of weight, I'm talking hundreds of pounds or more, it gets to the point where it's no longer just sexual or about acceptance and it becomes something that defines who they are as a person and even if the negatives out weigh(no pun intended) the positives these individuals will refuse to do anything about it because they wouldn't know what to do with themselves without their size.
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    Chevalier reacted to Griigor in Fabiosa Animated   
    Legitimate question: how do these stories get written? Has to be some algorithm stringing together popular search terms. It's nice to have some weight gain stuff, but they're just so haphazard and hammy that no one can legitimately think it's going to be a worthwhile endeavour to animate a cartoon to them.
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    Chevalier reacted to Neil Moores in Sophie Turner   
    She has a very nice cute belly to balance out that big booty of hers. Personally I would love to see her belly plump up more to become her main asset.

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    Chevalier got a reaction from FeedistDani in Seems All the Women in my Life are Getting Fat right now   
    Though they're generally not happy to share that information; it's overcompensation and girl talk.
    https://www.verywellhealth.com/coping-with-obesity-4690812
    Tell me whether or not you see those symptoms; it really opened my eyes to see how common anxiety and depression are, where they puff out their chest about their bodies one day by and literally say to remind themselves every day as they go into the fetal position the next. Has nothing to do with society after a certain point/age, especially when they're not conversing with a group who can gang up on them. 
    If you don't believe me, this post here with body positivity in the title. Took me years to understand this conversation is not for me to play Superman as she'll need rescuing every day, similar to a drug addiction.
    https://www.instagram.com/p/CN73z5Kn8u3/?igshid=rbg4eh4mbsqk
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    Chevalier reacted to SilverPathfinder in BBW Roleplay OC   
    I recently started to draw a bunch of roleplay characters I played or used to play. I thought some of you might like to see my progress ^^



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    Chevalier reacted to NorickAbe in A first expirience   
    Its my first trying to draw weight gain girl... So, what say you? (And the original girl - its not my work, i just take it from the net)

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    Chevalier got a reaction from YummySinpie in Weight Gain comics and sequences 🥰 - YummySinpie   
    No prob, I'll even join your site. Appreciate the response and showing more.
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