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Marvellous. Josh, we're grateful for anything.

Couple more standing up would be great too, to show how much the belly sticks out. Also a good reference for later before-afters.

Half a gallon of cream and food besides? Blimey, sounds like she's resolved her initial issue with capacity. The sky's the limit. Nice work Wifey.

Hey Wifey, sorry I didn't see this thread earlier. The tips so far have been about calorie-dense foods and drinks that will help you gain a lot with a little, and that's important of course, but you should address the central issue of your stomach capacity. My advice: take a few weeks, if you need to, to work on that alone. Eat and drink until you're full, and take note of how much you consumed to get to that point, then just have a bit more to stretch your stomach slightly. Don't hurt yourself, or make yourself ill, or you'll just be demotivated. After several hours to a day, when you feel like you're ready, go to the max again. After just a couple of days the exact same amount of food won't make you feel quite so full, and you'll feel like having a bit more. That's how you know you're making progress. If you're staying the same weight or only gaining very slowly at the moment, even a very small increase in capacity can tip the balance and help you grow noticeably faster. It's worth paying attention to this one aspect of your journey, because it can make the rest much easier. Eat hearty, best of luck, let us know what you try and how you go. - Soylent

I'm not surprised but I'm still sorry to hear it. Some people have nothing to do but criticize for no good reason. Don't take any crap.

That's unfortunate. What's the issue?

How tall is Wifey, or did I miss that in an earlier post? Love the newest pics regardless, great to see you poking out in two directions.

Welcome Wifey. You're off to a great start, enjoy every pound along the way. Beautiful photography. Having any difficulties, besides your high metabolism? Let us know.

CB160, what the heck are you changing in a diet that makes you gain that fast in order to create more flab?

The irony is that Feedism used to make jabs at Fantasy Feeder over its downtime.

Welcome, you're doing brilliantly so far. What have you been eating, is it anything in particular you've gone crazy with to push things along?

Oh yeah, remember that they'll fade to white before long.

Bit of context here. The average weight gain during pregnancy is 12 kilos or about 26 pounds over the space of nine months, and some stretch marks are expected. No matter how slowly you try to fatten up, chances are you're going to want to go faster than 3 pounds a month, so stretch marks are just going to come with the territory. Don't worry about it.

Back to the topic. bangs15, you're in the hardest phase right now because her stomach capacity is the smallest it'll ever be in the near future. When it's larger, you'll be able to fatten her up without making her painfully full, but it has to stretch first. This can happen as slowly as the two of you like; as long as she's even one bite past full, her capacity and her body's general expectation will increase to some degree. There's no danger that by not going right to the limit every time her stomach will start shrinking; it takes at least a few days of a very small diet for that to happen. The gaining process won't just peter out if you go easy. So, you just have to reconcile this with your mutual in-the-moment desire to push the envelope. A safeword is a must, it's a given in BDSM for a reason. Beyond that, you can explore going to extremes other than sheer absolute volume. Set the volume of food and drink to something high but reasonable, and then see: - How fast she can down it all (without risking choking). - Whether she can manage it through a funnel. - Once she's eaten as much as last time, how much more it takes to make her feel as full this time. - Whether she can pop a button or split a seam, if she puts on something small and ties/fastens it tight enough. (If she wants to be 200, she won't need her current wardrobe much longer anyway.) Maybe not all of the above is practical, but you get the idea. Dominate, but creatively. Anyway, how'd you meet this lady?

Got it. To get the option to turn the family filter off, I had to use "/video/x161jn0" like so: Dailymotion - Watch, publish, share videos

Sorry, but is anyone else just being directed to FW's general Dailymotion page from that last link?

Thanks for the new video Willow, and for the answer. I'm sorry that first reason happened to you, that sucks. I hate scales too, for the same reason. Look at it this way: scales are inaccurate, but they're generally internally consistent. You have no good reason to believe the number that it tells you on the first try, but if two gallons of cream later it tells you that the number has gone UP, it's most likely correct. Focus on the differential.

Thanks for all your replies so far. It strikes me that this thread might also serve to indicate what proportion of us actually have started such relationships.

I was wondering how those of us who've entered into feedist or gain-related relationships generally got them started. There are anecdotes that go every which way, but perhaps if we gather them all together some patterns will emerge. I'll start: I found the people I've encouraged online (one-to-one) on either Fantasy Feeder or the Experience Project, after a great deal of searching in between.

Great video Willow, you're as uplifting to listen to as to look at. There's one big question the video didn't answer, and I'm sorry if you've already answered it somewhere on the forum. If you've always loved fat women, and you hated being thin the whole time you were thin, why are you only now letting yourself grow? What was holding you back? Thanks and keep up the excellent work.

It's not the profile pic. She has pictures of everything she eats on her food blogs. Check the link.

I believe she's without scales at the moment, but there are more new pics on Fantasy Feeder. Her name is the same there.

Thanks BusinessCasual, this brings back memories.

She's had that, and lots of it. It didn't help. I know it seems like a fragile arrangement, but she's had some horrible comments before even getting started so she's ready for a certain amount of online weirdness. The gaining, the challenges and the videos were entirely her idea and her peeps are just along for the ride (I only stumbled on her FF profile right as she started), so she's not being pressured into anything. As with other ED survivors who've thrived here, like skinnyimpaired and Raquel, there's always a chance that the ED will attack again and it will all fall apart. Even if it does, what she's doing now will have given her a weight buffer to keep her out of the danger zone for a while, and the longer before it happens the greater the buffer. And if it doesn't fall apart, awesome. If you're worried about someone this small taking on something so big to become so big, just move on and give it a while. Maybe you'll feel more comfortable taking part once she reaches Raquel's starting weight, or Skinny's, or Ayumi's. For now, Sweetie is charging ahead and wants everyone to know it and see it.

Funny you should say that Doc, because Sweetie has just set out to do exactly that. See the new post in Your Videos (Women).