I've been hanging out and talking with this guy that I work with. He's been telling me he is in the process of leaving his long term girlfriend, they have separate bedrooms and everything. He think she cheated on him a few months ago but hasnt left because he doesnt want to leave his house. The thing is, I don't know if he actually means it. We've kissed a few times, but that's all. He still gets really nervous of staying out too late for fear of her wondering where he is. She tracks his car and all that stuff on her phone, and he seems to genuinely hate her. I just dont know if I should tell him to get lost or bide my time. Anybody else been in a similar situation???