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There's something I find tantalizing about the carefree nature of it. I suppose that I like the "I'm going to eat what I want not care about what anyone thinks" attitude.

Welcome to curvage! From what you've shown, I think you'll be doing quite well for yourself around here.

It's been a little up and down over the past few weeks, so I haven't really sat down and responded to this, but thank you everyone for the input. We've both got awkward histories with relationships, so we're still figuring a few things out, but most of the comments here have been helpful in one way or another.

It's appreciated. It's just a weird position for me right now.

Thanks. She generally knows I enjoy her body, and we've talked about my awkward relationship with sex in general, but I would like to try engaging with her on that level even if I don't enjoy it the same way. I wanted to try addressing some of the practical issues with the ordeal.

I (25M) have recently started dating for the first time in about two years, and I have found myself in a generally very comfortable relationship with someone I met online (24F). She's a genuine ray of sunshine (which is a very nice contrast with the dysfunctionality of my last relationship) and I do find her very good-looking, but she is significantly bigger than I was expecting, and I'm not sure exactly how to handle some of the physical side of things. When I saw her pictures, I was expecting somebody in the ballpark of about 300 pounds, but having met with her in person I would put her at least 450. I should say that while I enjoy physical intimacy (naked cuddling and the like), I've never been very interested in actual sex, especially since I am clumsy, nervous, and easily discouraged in bed. I've made a few attempts at it with her, but I've had difficulty working past her hips and thighs. Some of this can be helped by improving my flexibility and working to boost my confidence, but a bit of advice on the subject would be appreciated.

Same one that I've had for the last few years but never quite fulfilled: Get my head out of my ass.

Welcome to the site! I think many will be glad to have you here.

I'm pretty thin and don't eat much for the most part, but I'm no stranger to having a whole pizza by myself at the end of the week.

The sound is a little off, but that's the one.

You should see the full movie, it's a really fun story with great characters, animation, and music. It'd be nice to see your spin on things.

I've been listening to a lot of Jackson Browne lately. There's something really wholesome and uplifting about the guy and his music.

With good reason, you look stunning. I'm not sure how I've slept on this page this long.

Yeah 😅 It's honestly made me really nervous to interact or post at all. Just my luck I guess, haha. I think I'll stick to lurking for a while to try to get a better feel for the place- Thank you! Take your time, it's not going anywhere. Though for what it's worth, those kinds of comments do tend to be called out or shot down around here in my experience.

Well, I guess this makes for a bit of an awkward introduction to the site. Still, here's to hoping you stick around a little while, you seem like a nice addition to this place.

It's an experience. The human characters are stiff, but the ants are the real main characters if you ask me. You just have to make sure to see the crazy ending that was cut from the original.

I just saw Terminator 2 for the first time a few weeks ago, and I can say it became an instant favorite. Many of my other favorites have been mentioned already, so I'd recommend Phase IV. It's a rather surreal film about humans locked in a battle of wits with a colony of hyper-intelligent ants. It's got a quiet, introspective quality to it that you don't see in a lot of modern sci-fi movies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bcs3_b3VXSU

Wow. I don't know how this doesn't have more attention. Here's to hoping you stick around a while.

You do know that she uses this site, right? @bigbellybenni

Ah, I was wondering if I'd ever see you over here. I imagine quite a few people will be glad to welcome your chonkiness to this site.

Great to have you here! Here's to hoping you stick around.

Nice to have you here! And also to see that Fritz the Cat is not wholly forgotten, lol.

God, you're so damned cute. It's great to see how much you've taken to this platform.

Well, certainly people aren't going to be complaining much about the extra weight on this site, so you may not get a huge variety of answers here, haha. I'm partial to bigger women myself, but I think that self-confidence is a much more attractive quality than any specific weight. I say you should just focus on living as you see fit while embracing yourself in the moment rather than working to lose or gain weight for anyone but yourself. Just try to feel good (physically and emotionally) in your own body, and if you're ever at a point where you're not happy, then feel free to take a step back.