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At a wedding and was talking to a friend, she said “I used to have a jean jacket I loved to wear but my arms got too big for it.” I joked that it’s because she was pumping so much iron, but her response was “No, it was from eating too much” Later on I took a photo of a different friend with her boyfriend. They’ve been together 1-1.5 years, he was already overweight and living together has clearly helped her put on probably 20 pounds. She had a nice round gut in the picture that was very noticeable, and when I handed the phone back she said “Oh my god I look pregnant!” In total disbelief. To be fair, she did!

My wife had a moment yesterday that I think will fit here. I’ve never shared anything about her before because it feels a little sleezy, but I have to talk about this somewhere. Maybe too long-winded but oh well. She has some old dresses that she wore once and decided to sell, but she hasn’t worn any of them in a while. Two of them I’d guess she wore 5 years ago at the most recent, and another was a wedding dress that she purchased before our wedding about 2 years ago, but that was too big and she ended up not using. According to her, that wedding dress was a size too big, but ran small and almost fit. The other two fit snugly back in the day and looked great. However, she has been steadily gaining weight (not on purpose) for several years. I’m really not sure why she thought she would fit into those dresses, but she thought she could put them on to get some pictures to help sell them. I’d guess that when she wore the oldest dresses she was maybe 140 pounds at the very most, but now she’s at least 180 pounds — likely a bit heavier. She was 180-185 at the last point she weighed herself, but that’s about what she weighed when we got married and spoiler alert: the wedding dress she bought back then doesn’t fit anymore. So, I think she’s probably up to 190 by now. She’s only 5 ft tall, so it’s been a substantial gain over the years, starting at about 120 pounds about 10 years ago. She started trying on these dresses when I wasn’t around, and eventually I walked in to her standing there huffing in the wedding dress while complaining about how hot she was. She was in a very bad mood because she couldn’t get the dress zipped up since her boobs are too big. Come to find out, she had already tried on one of the older dresses but couldn’t even get it over her hips, and now this newer dress (4 sizes bigger) wasn’t fitting either. Miraculously, when I told her to try on the other older dress (same size as the first one), she actually went for it. That one also couldn’t go over her hips — not even close — and when she tried putting it on over her head instead, she barely pulled it over her boobs and still couldn’t get it past her hips to wear it properly. All the while she’s huffing and angry about the dresses not fitting. So we took pictures of the dresses without anyone in them, and after that whole episode split off to do our own thing for a few minutes before she walks into the room with a leftover McDonald’s cheeseburger (we had already eaten dinner there a little while before that). As she sits on the couch putting down that burger, she told me how annoying it is that her boobs and hips are so much bigger. What’s interesting to me is that she said something like “it’s not that I’m fat, it’s just that my boobs and hips are so big”. I just gave her a look when she said that, because I really couldn’t come up with a response that didn’t equate to “they’re bigger because you put on at least 40 pounds, and they aren’t the only thing that is bigger!” I’m really surprised that she hasn’t equated her growing boobs to weight gain, but I think she really thinks they just grew naturally with age — or that a lot of her weight gain is because of natural feminine boob/hip growth, and not the other way around. But I can tell you for sure, regardless of whatever natural body changes she’s had, her weight is mostly due to a lot of eating and drinking. In college she took on a mindset of not withholding from food and drink whenever she wants it, especially when going out, and she has mostly maintained that mentality ever since. Her weight had seemingly plateaued over the last year or two, but recently I myself have cut back on alcohol and snacks to try and drop some pounds, and I actually think that’s why she has started put on more weight recently to the point that she couldn’t wear the wedding dress. Now that I’m not drinking or eating the snacks, she’s gone from drinking half a bottle of wine and eating half a bag of chips/popcorn to eating and drinking all of it, on top of her normal habits. I really doubt this event will change anything for her since she has never committed to any meaningful weight loss plan before. She rarely brings up her weight as an issue, but the couple times she “decided” to lose some weight, it never went anywhere. I’ve never even encouraged her to gain weight or anything, and I would be completely happy if she did lose weight and get into better shape so that she could more comfortably engage in activities. She just doesn’t do it though, and she really doesn’t want to give up eating and drinking what she wants, so I don’t see it changing. I must say I am curious to know if she will hit 200 pounds though — that will definitely be a big deal for her if she realized it’s gone that far. I don’t think she is there yet, but like I said, I suspect she must have hit 190 to be too big for that wedding dress.

Great point - a really obese woman having a hard time exercising is definitely something I love.

This seems like it could be a great idea for me to explore! Do you have a suggestion for content I should check out?

Sorry to post on this old thread, but I just wanted to say thank you for bringing this up. I do not want to ever try to get my wife into actual gaining because I don’t think that would be good for her health or our lifestyle, but I think your suggestion here could be a great way to bring this kink into our sex lives. I haven’t given her the full details of this whole fat/feederism fetish before, because I didn’t really see anything we could do with it. But I think that by getting her up to speed on what kinds of things would turn me on while she wears clothing several sizes too small, we would have a lot of fun. I’m certain she doesn’t have this fetish but she is comfortable with her body and I know she will love the fact that she is turning me on. if anyone cares to respond to this old post, do you have suggestions on what style of clothes or lingerie might work best? I guess anything will work, but I’m wondering if people who might have attempted this know any tips!

Hi everyone, Like most everyone here I guess, I have a long time weight gain fetish. My interests are typical for this community, but one aspect that I particularly love is people pushing their bodies beyond their limits. Usually this is relevant with major stuffing sessions, when a person has eaten too much yet continues to stuff more food in. It’s also true for general weight gain; when someone has already become obese and deals with the challenges from that, but continues to pack it on. Although I am 100% into weight gain specifically, I’ve started to think that there might be some other niche kink I would really be into that is similar to these things (pushing your body). I just don’t know what exactly it is. The closest that I have found is urination - I do not have a fetish for urination, but I have found some videos where women need to pee badly but keep chugging water. I have no interest in the actual urinating part, but the pushing their bodies by adding more water when they already need to go gave me a similar feeling to when people stuff themselves beyond a comfortable point. i know this is kind of a weird post, but I am wondering if anyone can relate and if you have ever found a different fetish that hits on some of these same notes that many of us may enjoy in the weight gain community?