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  1. got to talking to a girl I used to work with, and the conversation got a lot more candid than we expected - lol. i'm such a sucker for a "happy relationship weight" story, here is what she told me. she used to be really skinny, like borderline underweight. she was insecure about it, since she thought guys didn't really pay attention to her because she didn't have any curves. she didn't try to gain weight because obviously society says that's bad, haha. when she and her boyfriend started dating, she would ask him to cuddle with her in bed, and the first time he did that he put his hand on her stomach and pulled her close to him. that sort of stressed her out at first, because she thought he wouldn't like the way she felt. but she went with it and got to like the feeling of him holding her that way. a few months later her boyfriend is cuddling her in bed one night. he has his hand on her stomach like usual and he teases her by saying "I think you're getting a tummy." she didn't really realize it, but ever since they'd been dating she had been sort of matching the portions he was eating. and of course this had led to her gaining weight. she didn't know what to say at first, but the way he touched her little bit of chub and seemed so charmed by it made her feel very relaxed about the situation. fast forward another year and now she is up 15 lbs. and looks fantastic, haha. i revealed maybe a little too much about my own relationship... now she knows that I got fat by role playing pregnancy, lol.
  2. our air conditioner is broken and they're not going to have the part to fix it till next week, so it is HOT in our place. David came home to find me sprawled out on sofa in front of a fan with my belly out. "got a little overheated?" he asked "i'm too fat to get up, bring me something to drink" I told him he brought me an ice cream cone, lol.
  3. i've been married for less than a month, but it seems like... real! hahaha. i haven't been on a scale to check, but I could just barely get my shorts over my thighs before our honeymoon and now I can't at all. i thought maybe I would slow down since I gained 45 lbs. after moving in with my fiance, but it was cold and rainy for our vacation and all I did was eat!
  4. i can't wait for next month.... i'm getting married and we're going to spend the whole trip trying to get pregnant. I have to distract myself so I don't think about it constantly, lol. in other news, I guess David has been feeding me well, because the scale at my mom's house said 180.6. i've gained 12 lbs. since the beginning of the year! last year I gained 28 lbs., and I guess I'm on track to do it again, haha. one thing I notice a lot now is that my belly bounces all around when I'm in the car. it has been jiggly for a while, but now any time I'm on a rough street it is jumping all over the place. another thing is that I feel like I'm sitting on a cushion of chub now. when I was skinny, I could feel my bony butt when I was on a hard chair or stool. now it's like floating slightly above. i'm too shy and paranoid to put pictures online, but I do like to swipe back and forth between old ones (where I have just a little belly pooch) and new ones (where I have a big round gut) and think about how moving in with David has had a visible effect on my body. and to think about how I'll look after we get married... oops, need to go distract myself again.
  5. oh my gosh, it's almost painfully hot how being with your husband has had such a visible effect on your body. I just found this thread, and I'm mesmerized. i can't imagine having to do a long distance relationship. i miss my fiance when he has to work on the weekend, lol. and all the pictures! I wish I had photos of myself especially in those first days when I started to wonder when I was getting big. do some things feel noticeably different to you now? for example, ever since I got thick enough for my thighs to rub together, walking around has a minor sexy charge to it. and lately when I sit on something like a chair in the kitchen I'm aware that I'm on a cushion of chub.
  6. there's this thing that groups of women sometimes do if the topic weight comes up. everyone criticizes their own body in a way that sort of one-ups the previous person's comment. it's a weird ritual, and I don't like it when I get caught up in it, because it's weird to say that you actually like your body in that situation. this almost never happens one on one with a friend you know well, though. sometimes they will even speak positively about gaining weight, like it's a sign of a really good situation. "Our vacation was great, I came back and all my jeans were too tight." "I've gained 10 lbs. since I started going out with so-and-so." i really like these happy weight gain stories, especially the ones where the weight gain is caused by a partner. i find myself bringing up the topic with friends, partially because hearing my own story turns me on (what do you think this thread is, lol), and partially to get some vicarious pleasure through their stories. the idea that there's this physical representation of your situation that can't be hidden just really appeals to me. like, my romantic life has gone so well that it can't help but express itself by making my butt fat - haha. my partner is so attentive that you can see it on my hips. (obviously the ultimate version of this is your partner getting you pregnant) when I was in school and verging on underweight, I wasn't exactly unhappy, but I did feel like I was barely scraping by every day. Things felt kind of precarious, and I think that reflected in how i looked - tense and meager. But then when I finished school and could afford plenty of food, everything seemed a lot rosier. And that reflected in how i looked too - softer and fuller. anyway, when I volunteer that i've gained 40+ lbs. with David, the usual response is "yeah, he must be treating you well." My hope is that they were thinking it already just because they're looking at me and can see that I've got more belly than last time, lol.
  7. Apparently this is now a pattern. When David has to work on the weekend, I stuff my face with snacks while I wait for him to get home, get turned on while doing that, and then post something on here... first story: David always buys ice cream drum sticks at the store because he knows I can't resist them. Actually I think those are how I gained back the weight I lost in undergrad before we started going out, haha. the other day the power went out, and after a few hours with no electricity we decided we would have to clear out the fridge. There were still drum sticks in the freezer, not yet melted... David had 1 and I had 4. My belly got really bloated and tight, and I made him rub it while I moaned, lol. second story: according to the scale I have not really gained weight in the last couple of months, but somehow in that time my arms got fat. I have never had toned biceps or anything, and they haven't really been skinny for a while... but now they are properly chubby. David says he didn't notice them getting bigger suddenly, and that it's probably more that dressing for spring weather means I see them more. But I swear they were not this jiggly six weeks ago.
  8. quick update since I spent the day with my cousin - the one who gained 70 lbs. while pregnant - and we talked a lot about weight stuff, lol. she is giving away all of her pre-pregnancy clothes because she is giving up on being skinny enough to wear them again. she explained that wants to get pregnant again, so there's not much chance that she's going to lose weight. and she joked that because her mom is big (over 300 lbs.) that it's her destiny to be fat and she isn't going to fight it. she is now around 210 lbs., which is less than her pregnancy peak, but not by much. I took some of the clothes that fit me, but was too chubby myself for some of them, haha. she teased me a little bit about that, because she used to offer clothes to me that would be too big. like when I was really skinny in undergrad (like 115-130 lbs.) I could wear a lot of her stuff, but she couldn't wear as much of mine (she was probably like 130-145 lbs.). even at different levels of thickness, we used to be the same shape. but at higher weights we look really different. like I am very pear shaped now, and most of the weight I gain goes to hips and thighs. she is soft all over, but her weight concentrates in her belly. her gut is huge! It's not quite a pregnant belly, because it looks much softer and sags down more. but I am kind of jealous of it anyway, haha. we kind of talked a little bit about weight and sexy stuff. she said that her husband hasn't minded the weight gain because it has made her boobs much bigger. I didn't go into the extent of it, but I said I'd gained 40 lbs. living with David and that he likes my fat butt. anyway during these conversations we demolished multiple boxes of Girlscout coookies, so both of us were probably chubbier by the end of the day.
  9. Some short bits because I woke up in the middle of the night because my underwear was too tight. How did my hips get chubbier while I was sleeping? one is that I met up with my friend Sarah from above. Her new year's goal was to lose weight, but is actually a pound or two heavier. She blamed the cold weather for not being able to exercise outside, but also admitted to ordering a lot of takeout during the month. the other is that I've passed whatever plateau I was on, haha. I stuffed myself with candy and cookies for all of November and December and barely gained 3 lbs. I feel like I was relatively restrained in January, but the scale said I was over 175! That was on a full stomach, but +7 lbs. still much faster than my steady gain over the last two years.
  10. You all might like this story too... In undergrad I used to room with this girl, let's call her Sarah. We lived together long enough for pretty much everything to be out in the open, lol. She knew about my fantasies about being pregnant, I knew about what she wants her boyfriend to do... She is shorter than me, barely 5'2" and has always been chubby or fat. She could diet down to like 180 lbs. if she tried, but always eventually bounced back up to 190 lbs. and occasionally up to around 200 lbs. Her main shape is round, like she has big round hips, a big round butt, big round boobs... After graduation, her sister convinced her to do this diet/exercise program that actually really worked. She lost a bunch of weight, down to like 140 lbs. It was kind of jarring, she looked totally different. She wasn't exactly skinny, but your overall impression of her went from "round" to "small". She kept up with that diet for a little bit, but then the pandemic hit and she gained most of the weight back. By the end of last year I think she was around 180 lbs. again. Fortunately she had kept all her fat clothes, so she didn't have to buy a whole new wardrobe again. We hadn't gotten together in a few months, but we got lunch together for new year's eve. She joked about ordering as much as possible before new year's resolutions kicked in. She said she was kind of wanting to lose weight again, because she had gained 28 lbs. in 2022 and is current at her heaviest weight - 208 lbs. That's like right on the cusp of being obese for her height, and she doesn't want the lecture from her doctor. I laughed and said that my plan was to just keep getting fatter in 2023. I haven't told her about the whole feedism thing yet, but I've mentioned to her before that living with David was making me fat and that he likes me a little thicker. Kind of by coincidence, I think I gained 28 lbs. this year too. According to the scale it's only 2 or 3 lbs. since November, but I feel like I've gotten huge since then - I have to wear all of my pants below my gut now.
  11. Another short story you guys might like: My friend, let's call her Brooke, used to go out with this guy. But then he moved away for work and they split on good terms. Now he's moving back and has suggested they get together. Anyway, she was telling me about this and how she is looking forward to seeing him. Except she's nervous because she's gained weight, haha. The conversation was something like this: Me: He's not going to mind that you have a tummy. Her: It's more than a tummy, though! Like, it's going to be jiggling when we're having sex. Me: Don't worry. If it jiggles he'll probably like it! Her: I'm really psyching myself out over this. (she pinches her stomach chub) Me: Living with David has definitely made me gain weight, and ge's fine with it.... Her: But that's relationship weight. I'm at my relationship weight but I need to be at my hookup weight. Apparently she has gained 20 lbs. since she last saw him. I think she weighs about the same as me now, but she is more apple shaped and I have become a pear, lol.
  12. David is at work (on a weekend!) and I am feeling simultaneously contemplative and turned on, lol... Exploring feedism has kind of made me understand more about what I find so appealing about pregnancy. The stories of guys who are spoiling their girlfriends, or husbands who are fattening up their wives by keeping their favorite snacks on hand... these really get me going! A big component of my pregnancy fantasies is the special attention I would get from my partner. And then there's just, like, getting bigger. If I got pregnant, obviously my belly and boobs would grow. But so would my hips and thighs and butt. There's something sexy about that sort of change over time. Especially when it's fast enough to surprise me, like... didn't these pajamas fit a few weeks ago? Also there's this aspect of feedism and pregnancy that overlap... it's a partner causing the change. If my belly was growing because I was pregnant, it would be because of one particular thing David did (haha). Similarly, my belly is growing, and it's because David is feeding me treats for his pleasure. That thing he said about "you'll think about me when you feel your thighs rub together" was so devastatingly hot because I knew it would be true. Anyway, this is why I'm eating mini donuts while waiting for David to get back rather than poking holes through condoms.... (maybe I shouldn't joke about that, lol)
  13. OK, here are some short bits to keep this going... 1. I was going to really stuff myself at Thanksgiving, but I got sick on Wednesday! I tried to put on some pajamas, but they cut into my hip chub too much to be comfortable, lol. 2. My boobs feel absolutely huge. My pregnancy fantasies are usually all about having a giant belly, but watching my breasts get bigger has been getting me really hot and bothered lately. 3. Speaking of which... I woke David up for sex and asked if he would do some kinky role play. He didn't miss a beat, and said that he was going to go down on me and I wouldn't be able to see him over my huge pregnant belly. oh my god. --- I told David he could post this initially if he kept it tasteful, but I'm jumping in with the really steamy stuff, lol.
  14. Katy yet again (this is just my thread now, haha): fuck, it finally happened! I got asked if I was pregnant, lol. My friend Amy's mom works at a coffee shop I go to sometimes, and if it's not busy she'll talk to me. I waved to her when I was ordering (chocolate croissant) and a little bit later she came over to chat. I was wearing a purple sweater that's a little clingy. I noticed before I went out that it was really hugging my stomach, and that it made the indent my belly button was really visible. Lots of my tops are that way now, though - ha. Anyway, Amy's mom was kind of asking around the question. I didn't catch on at first, because she was just talking about how our wedding is coming up. Then she asked about how I was feeling and how David was doing. I saw her give my sweater a significant look, and then I realized where she was going. Me: "Oh...! I'm not, um, expecting yet." Her: "Oh no, I didn't mean to... I just thought that maybe..." Me: "It's funny! " Her: "I'm so rude! Sorry! Amy won't ever let me live this down." Me: "Don't worry! I won't tell her." She apologized some more, but I just laughed it off. I think I'll be wearing that sweater out some more..
  15. Katy again: Here's an update... I asked David what he weighed a while back and he said he didn't know, but that it was probably 160-something. He is 6 inches taller than me, but is very lanky and bikes a lot. We stayed a long weekend at an Airbnb earlier this month. I noticed there was a scale in the bathroom, so I stepped on it: with clothes on I was 166 lbs. - about what I expected, and 50 lbs. fatter than I was when I finished undergrad (!). I told David to go in there and check his weight. 159 lbs! I probably already weighed more than him when he wrote the first post in this thread, haha. OK, so I guess it wasn't unforeseeable given that I thought I was getting too fat to wear his shorts to bed, but I officially outweigh him now, lol.
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