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  1. Got a bunch of new stuff on the ole' deviant art page. http://abebae.deviantart.com/
  2. I second Texas as well. Any of the big cities there will have plenty of fatties. For the most part it's a lot of strip malls and fast food joints, not much to do other than eat and shop, and you know everything's bigger in Texas. Lots of decent jobs out there too and a lot of the people tend to be fairly educated. If I was looking for fatties and a nice somewhat cheap place to live I'd head out to Dallas, Austin or San Antonio.
  3. This happens all the time even in BBw centric dating sites. Most women post pictures of themselves where they think they look good, those tend to be older or skinnier versions of themselves. I think almost every single online date I went to the girl showed up way bigger than how she looked in the pictures. Usually if there aren't a lot of body shots that's a tell tale sign. The best was this one girl from ff that just had some mirror shots up to her bust. Big rack and all that, but looked a bit on the average side, kind of skinny looking face. I pull up to the date and then see her coming out of her house and literally waddle over to the car. Big rack and kind of a skinny looking face, but everything else was enormous - huge puffy arms, belly hanging, rolls on her sides, love handles, thick thighs swishing together. She got in the car and her thighs spilled out over the center console. Admittedly that was ff, so I should have expected that, but I had similar experiences on other average dating sites too. Usually the flattering pictures are at least a couple of years old.
  4. I sure do love that story you wrote a few years ago.Have you written any others?

  5. Getting a divorce after 18 years of marriage will be complicated, but I guess it depends on who's making the money. I do have to agree it just sounds like there's some lack of communication going on in general, and probably has gone on for years at this point. From the sounds of it it doesn't sound like she's going to take well to being forced or talked into anything. Don't try to change her. You can just ride it out and be supportive, give her the satisfaction of reaching whatever weight loss goal she has. Its hard to maintain, so chances are that if she gets there she won't stay there long. If you want to rekindle anything resembling romance try to see her as a person, and maybe figure out what you like about her and why you care about her and how she feels instead of seeing her as a fat sex pillow. She's a human being too, with her own emotions and desires. Being fat is hard, its full of stigma in our society, most everyone equates it to being ugly, lazy and stupid. Try living with that hanging over your head your whole life. If you don't give a shit about any of that thats cool too... just wait till the kids are grown up and split.
  6. I don't want to hijack this thread but being FA is not super rare. The only reason you don't hear more people talk openly about it is because in our current society it's worse to be perceived as someone who is attracted to fat women than to be a homosexual. All the fa's out there are closeted as fuck. Being an FA is about as rare as dirt, lots of people like big booty, in fact it may even be the majority of straight males, just depends on the size of the booty. Feederism is different, but I'm not talking about that, just talking about being attracted to big girls.
  7. Yeah, I saw recently that 70% of women in America wear a size 14 or above. Depending on build that's roughly around 200lbs. In my experience I found that most fat girls are actually fairly oblivious to the whole fa culture and that there are men out there who are attracted to them. I think most know that it exists, but they think it's super rare. So when you say "she knew." I think that's a nice thought and maybe she did, but chances are she didn't, it's just nowhere near mainstream enough and most fat girls (which actually means the vast majority of all girls) just feel ugly because they're a size 16 and plus size starts at 12 and they are considered morbidly obese, even though 3/4 of the entire female population is over 200lbs. That said its awesome to be attracted to big girls now they're everywhere. I've seen lots of girls out there who were just as fat and just as pretty as the best BBW models out there. I see amazing fatties at chipotle all the time, pick one anywhere near a college campus and you're guaranteed to see some huge very pretty girls, I don't know what it is, the guac must be attracting them, it's pretty awesome. Just recently I went to this noodle joint here and there were these two black girls there, both were overweight, one was wearing an oversized tshirt and some jeans, while the other literally looked like she was coming off of a photoshoot for a bbw site. She wore a skintight skirt and a dress top that hugged her body everywhere, it literally looked like if she took a deep breath the entire thing would burst. She was big, huge ass, thighs the size of tree trunks, huge arms, big breasts and a belly that looked like a beach ball in her lap. Her body was just simply amazing and she was not afraid to show off any of it. As for where in the country I think there are very few to almost no skinny girls in the south and in Texas. I think I saw some of the biggest and prettiest girls ever when I visited San Antonio. Must be something about not really having a lot of outdoor activities combined with having to drive everywhere and the abundance of restaurants and the ridiculous heaping portions. I think all of that combines into some very big girls. Every once in awhile I'd see a group of girls going to prom or something and I'm always amazed that all of them are fat. They basically sit on their ass all day and snack, then get in a car and drive somewhere and eat there. Eating and shopping are literally the only two things to do. Then when they get to college they get bigger, and then when they get out of that and settle into a full on sedentary adult lifestyle they balloon and get huge.
  8. One of my old jobs had a cafeteria and it's quite close to the reception desk. Well one thing I noticed was that a lot of the reception desk girls have been quite plump. I came up with a whole elaborate theory about whoever doing the hiring being an fa, but it could have just been the type of work the company does. Anyways, there was this one chick that I noticed right away. She was maybe a bit of an hourglass shape with a bigger behind. I'd say probably around 5'7" and just under 200. I saw her in the cafeteria a lot. Pretty much every time I went down there for lunch or a snack or whatever there she was sitting there by herself munching away. It's entirely possible that our times just somehow coincided, but I would guess she probably made the trip more than once because I was there at all different times of the day. Also she was definitely filling out. I mean filling out for sure. I remember one day she wore some kind of a dress thing with leggings and I watched her as she walked off and you could see her massive ass bounce with every step and send ripples through the dress, it was very impressive. i think we were there for maybe a couple of years and I really enjoyed seeing her around the office. She definitely became a full on pear with a big bouncing belly by the end. That and her ass were quite massive. Add to that she was always carting things around on a dolly and leaning over it so you could see her gut hanging over her jeans. There were a few others. There was one blonde girl who I thought came right off of some BBw site, super pretty, huge arms, big belly, not much ass but really cute. I remember her having some kind of cake on her desk all the time. I mean no wonder. I must say it was really fun getting lunch and seeing all these huge receptionist girls waddle over to get their snacks jiggling with every step. I never asked any of them out and I'm kind of glad I didn't, dating at work has been an awful thing in my experience, but it sure was fun seein these girls grow. I still think whoever was hiring these chicks had a thing for chubbies, they were all overweight.
  9. Reason I'm asking is my girlfriend is kind of in a funk, she's kind of not really particularly good at anything and doesn't really have like a career or anything, been working retail for awhile but that's about it. She's pretty, a bit on the chubby side and has been eyeing all the web girls and talking about just doing that and having people send her money so she can stuff her face. I'm obliging for now ofcourse but I wonder how much money these girls make. I mean it seems like it's at least worthwhile a little bit, but can someone make a living doing that? I get that results may vary I've seen some girls stick around while others kind of come and go. Anyways just kind of curious about what to expect. I don't really expect anyone to flat out say how much they make just like hey it's maybe equivalent to a job like this or something like that.
  10. Looks like somebody's been feeding this girl
  11. Yeah I don't think you'll ever find anyone. And it's likely not because those women don't exist it's just you and your personality. You seem to hold women to a really high standard, they have to be all these things and never annoy or frustrate you, but guess what, they're real people they have their own thoughts and desires. Ones that would put up with your stuff will likely bore you while those that would not put up with you will annoy you. You'll never find anyone until you look into yourself and figure out why someone would ever want to be with you. What do you have to offer to this perfect girl that you are trying to find and if you would ask her to put up with your eccentricities, then what are you willing to put up with for her? Because nobody is perfect, we are all fucked up in some way.
  12. Hahaha, yeah it's a catch 22 you just can't win either way. In my experience it is best to just come out and say it, I've had a lot of relationships where I kept it a secret and the girls were always so confused, and things got weird and eventually we split up. It's like society is telling her she should be skinnier (no matter what her weight is) and then I like her bigger and want her to be bigger, and then on top of that every time I complement her she thinks it's because of the weight, so my compliments become something negative in her mind. It's all just a complete mind fuck and nobody wins. That said its a whole lot better than keeping secrets in a relationship. Just being open about it and be able to talk about it is worth the initial discomfort.
  13. Fat shaming and fat hate is something very common in our society. It's perfectly ok to make fun of fat people and blame all kinds of things in excess weight. Doctors aren't immune to it, they're same people as you and me and they have their biases and judge just like anyone else, except their wear a lab coat and so whatever they say is somehow perceived as official. Just remember, over the years doctors were sayin all kinds of things that were flat out wrong, at one point radiation was thought to be good for you... So .... Being overweight might put you at an increased risk for whatever, but most of the time it's a very small percentage, like if you're fat you have a 3% higher chance of whatever, but then people make it a correlation and assume that if you're fat you get whatever 100% of the time. And then doctors perpetuate that view because they are trying to combat the "obesity" epidemic. Everyone's got their their own anterior motives. The fact is there's a lot more to it than weight alone, and in my experience the most unhealthy people I know are all skinny. All the fat girls I've known were always told that they are unhealthy slobs while they were actually totally fine, good blood pressure, cholesterol, they were like models of health. What you SHOULD worry about more is her mental health. Being fat is hard. People WILL be mean to her. They will assume her weight is somehow their business, they will assume she is stupid, ugly and lazy. It will be IMPOSSIBLE to find good looking clothes that fit, which will further undermine her self esteem. She will be bombarded with all kinds of bullshit and assholes trying to tell her she is inferior. That's going to be the hard part, not some imaginary made up health concerns or whatever that may or may not affect her. This shit is going to be real and in your face and part of your every day. In my opinion THAT is what's hard about dating a BBw and especially an ssbbw. Being a woman is hard, and being a woman who defies societal norms is even harder.
  14. It's not hard. Majority of women in America are overweight, for one reason or another, but mostly because they like food and they can't control their consumption. I think there are lots of chubby chicks out there who would be more than happy to eat whatever they want every once in awhile if it turns their boyfriend on. You just have to be prepared for two things. 1 have an actual relationship with a human being, and be prepared to make sacrifices for the other person instead of it just being one way of her satisfying your sexual desires. 2. Be prepared to deal with all the stigma that gets drilled into girls' heads since basically childbirth about weight gain and how it makes them an inferior human being. It's not that easy to overcome that when they are constantly being bombarded with messages about how fat chicks are ugly, stupid and lazy. A lot of girls also don't know about this, or haven't tried it. Don't go out looking for a feedee, just find a chubby girl you like who likes you and likes to eat and just enjoy yourself. You'll be surprised, a lot of girls would be totally on board with this (at least in a limited sense) if you gave them a chance. ive dated half a dozen girls who weren't feedees, and every single one of them was totally on board with eating whatever they want and being adored for it.
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