TheObesePsychologist

Grabbing it all the day long during this vacation. How's your fat summer going?

#tuesdaysdrama When you feel down and just don't know what to eat... Until finally you realise you've ice cream in the freeze🤔😏 Little big dramas of your day to day life hahaha

Nice to hear that. Of course, being a therapist doesn't mean that you are completely perfect and you deal with all the situations greatly. Not at all. So she needed your help and you stayed there for her, that's what's friendship supposed to be at the end

Is this a 3rd grade? Should I be paid to spread my professional perspective about it? Hahaha 😊🤔 Firstly, hedonism don't have to be justified. Hedonism is a dynamic state of mind and ultimately, a very strong act of self care too. Being an hedonist implies that you put your wellness first, a healthy self steem and a good relationship with yourself; understanding your lows and highs, a lot of introspection done, respecting you especially, having an holistic world comprehension like human relationships etc. Therefore, hedonism is something we all should be up for. Being aware and full consciousness of the moments you are living, being grateful for all you have and maintaining a humble perspective, are the ingredients that could make it real. However, that's only my opinion hahaha

Aw, you're welcome

Thank you for your kind and sincere response, I appreciate it! Hopefully everybody could embrace themselves and also with the fetish part. However, there is so much internalized fatphobia that even people who likes fat people feel and live it in an ashamed way. They are not aware they are harming themselves and others. The only way to normalise it is viewing it as usual and normal as other fetish are. It's healthy! A book? OMG! Hahaha

First of all, I don't have size goals. I am a complete hedonist, so I will always do what satisfies me and regardless my fetish. Secondly, my beloved ones know what I am into so it's fine for me and for them. Other people, I just don't care hahaha

Always is better bigger, especially your brain so let's keep it working! Same for the bellies out there hahaha😜

Hahaha you know, why not? It's is a very interesting and exciting part of myself😉

I think so 🧐

Hahaha first of all, sorry English is not my 1st, even not my 2nd language and yes, I have been into the fetish community since many years and I gained some throughout them. Secondly, also yes, I am a criminologist and psychologist. Since my areas are: social psychology and job guidance, I have been studying more the other side, the fatphobia in our society and its harm to us, fat and obese people in many espeheres of our life. My vision of the fetish? Living your sexuality as free as you can, without causing any harm to other, is the best way you could chose. I've seen so many people complaining and hiding this part of himself - yeah, mostly guys- and it cause harm to themselves and obviously, their partners. So, explore yourself, live it naturally as all fetish are, enjoy of them and make your partner enjoy too hahaha. PS: there are many more to say and talk about. It is impossible make a post speaking about the fetish as a whole, non sense! Hahaha many aspects of it😊