I hear your pain sister 👏
I’ve recently started gaining again (unintentional) and have now gone up 3 dress sizes since we met 2 years ago. The last 2 being since October last year. Recently he helped me buy a whole new wardrobe as I couldn’t fit into my jeans for a night out and had to cut the waistband on them... I’m finding that when I do the washing up my tummy gets soaked with water and he’s not mentioned anything about the extra snacks I’ve added to our shopping list. I’ve tried to joke how I’ve put on weight and he just says “you’re not fat!” And goes about his business. 🤷♀️