Brett.Davids

If she has suggested couples therapy, then perhaps her weight should be the least of your concerns. Go to therapy and see how that turns out. It could be that she has put on weight out of frustration or dissatisfaction with some part of her life. Addressing that is far more important.

You mean "without her knowledge or permission"?

Microsoft's annual conference for its line of business and accounting systems is in Atlanta the week of March 16. Any BBWs or SSBBWs going? I'm 45 SWM, 5'10, average weight. Clean cut, professional, polite, fun. Would love to make some new friends.

Not BBW related per se, but more Meghan Trainor / music - related. A much better rendition of "All About That Bass": http://youtu.be/iyTTX6Wlf1Y

I do recall that and if memory serves that was JiggliJackie.

You're a lucky man. And since she's just starting out, this would be a great opportunity to document her gain. With patience, you'd be able to make a really cool time lapse movie of her ballooning up. If you have a room or corner in the house you don't use and can leave un disturbed, set up a tripod and a camera and leave it in place. Perhaps put some tape markings on the floor so her feet are in the same spot every time (feet apart to accommodate her thickening thighs), and take a photo every day. Same pose (or one of each pose - front, back, side, etc) every day. Same outfit (something stretchy, perhaps) , same hair (pulled back for simplicity, perhaps), eliminate every distraction and movement so the only thing the camera notices forum one pic to the next is her gain. Then when she's hit her goal you can take the photo (there is software or one of us could do it) to stitch all the photos together - a little morphing between frames - and make an awesome time lapse movie of her gain.

Ditto. The sexiest parts of a woman are pretty eyes, a twinkle in her smile, and a nice, soft, plump, round belly. The bigger, the better.

You mean like by pony express or carrier pigeon? You might be able to send a telegram using a false name and wear a false mustache when waiting for the Wells Fargo Wagon to arrive. Be sure to ask them to send it packaged in a plain, unmarked cask or hogsheads. Typically they only send mail electronically. You could set up a private email account using outlook.com or gmail. Access it only using a browser (don't configure an email client to retrieve it) and be sure to delete your browser history or use "private browsing" mode if available. Then use cash to purchase a visa gift card. Use the gift card to make your online purchases. Good luck.

So what you're saying is...

I can understand and respect this view completely. I have a different take: she seemed to really enjoy posing -and gaining - for us. What better way to keep her memory alive than to continue to enjoy her work?

She. Must. Post. More.

I'll just leave this here... http://youtu.be/6go4nazCNtk

She looks almost too good to be true; I hope her name isn't Ishikira Photoshopisan

She's a lovely woman. Smart. Funny. I met her for coffee once. As I understand it, she is now taken.

Sadly, she has lost much of that weight. She lives in my home town and bump into her (figuratively, sadly) from time to time. Although ironically it's usually in restaurants.