I realize that few people are dating, let alone meeting in person and/or hooking up because it's Covid. However, apps still exist. For those of us on apps, whether it's Tinder or Hinge or specific apps that cater to bbw's, are there any females in the Los Angeles area that are bored/lonely/want attention/affection?...even if it's just chatting, I'm putting myself out there. I'm tired of just fantasizing about this. It doesn't have to be fetish if it's real, right? But maybe it's not meant to be?
I'd think I'd have an easy time of it, seeing as how there's one look that's valued more than others where I am, and it's NOT what I'm into...that's not to deride or imply that being something other than super-fit or ultra-skinny is second-class; on the contrary, it's preferable (to me, at least). In almost 30 years of living here, t haven't met people who are both attractive and curvy, except back in high school. I'm in my early 30's now. I've never been one to date on the job, and we all work remotely anyways - for the most part, these days. At least I do. What am I doing wrong? Any suggestions/feedback/experience/pointers? It's not like I have some fucked up, insatiable desire; however, we all need some affection at some point, and I can't help what my preferences are. Open to anything, truly.
P.S. I've tried ** and it's yielded nothing. Everyone is an amateur pornographer or a misandrist. Okay, that's reductive, but seriously, a lot of members just flat-out HATE men, and moreover, seem to be on that site just to promote their OnlyFans or Clips4Sale content. If I wanted porn I'd go search for it. I'm interested in making a human connection, which cannot be purchased or subscribed to.