Robik

These studies in comparison with the others confirm what I wrote. Obesity must have causes and they are unhealthy. Obesity causes over 150 diseases. Food is healthy in small quantities. Anyway, most girls lose weight if they really start to move.

You haven't read them. It's possible but unlikely. It's roulette. It's similar like drinking large amounts of vodka or smoking. Most will get sick but there are some exceptions. Statistic law, man. Some has resistant organisms, but we find out it after the fact and you can't count on it. Not completely. Obesity is one factor of risk and sedentary lifestyle is another factor and there are more factors: diet, psyche, gens. We can control most of them. Nope. This correlation has a lot of causes. Obesity is unhealthy and their causes and effects are unhealthy too. Creepy crap. Healthy people are thin and active but rest are unhealthy. The worst is being fat and sitting all the time. You're naive.

Which people? When? Where? No one answered my question. If you want to answer me, please take into account the content of my posts. Psychology calls this displacement, denial and rationalization. Try to deny what I write by answering the arguments. What? I didn't delete anything. Pathetic. You must be an unfortunate person, if you wrote so. I have girlfriend and don't watch porn. I'm only sad at hangover. Never sober. You write back to your halucinations and imaginations. Please reply to my post or not at all.

Nope. I don't feel sorry for myself. I just asked how others deal with it. Maybe it's possible without drugs. The first step is acknowledging that the truth is not what I would like. It takes automatically. I was looking for a solution but therapists say that changing preferences is not possible. You can accept the lack of love if you know you can't do anything about it. Honesty is the most important thing. It's not possible. Please inform yourself in scientific sources before you write such nonsense a second time. I have already answered this nonsense above. I won't take a step back. It's not possible. I am glad that I am myself and I value the quality of my beloved's life higher than the primitive fetish and the torment that results from it.

All science is bullshit and all doctors are idiots? All people who are planning their life? Nope. It's just the opposite. Conscious people who are overweight are trying to change that. Sick people are seeking recovery, not justification. I want conscious, smart and fat girlfriend but it's possible only for a short time. Supporting her in this is love, and not relegating unnecessary primitive fetishes is strength. Your thinking is controlled by your cock, so you can't help me. I wrote this topic because I want to meet somebody who has similar problem. I found calmness instead of fulfillment but it's ok. I'm looking for a way to further improve. You advise me to step back. I am glad that I am myself and I value the quality of my beloved's life higher than the primitive fetish and the torment that results from it. You must thinking deeper and deeper. There is still a lot of learning for you, young soul.

Nope. "It's not immoral to by unhealthy" = "It's not immoral to be an alcoholic/drugger" It's not bad? I think that this type of thinking is civilization disease and real cause of 70%-90% cases obese and other addictions. In Poland it's better to drink alcohol and eat amphetamine than to be fat. Some of these people conflict with the law, but there are also those who are calm. I like mdma and similar substances but I don't do it everyday because it's unhealthy and expensive (like a lot of good food). If I started a family I would eliminate it completely. I want my children to have good authorities in their parents. We can think independently and plan life. That would be against my principles so I supported her in being healthy and it's not difficult when somebody have healthy mind. When you're alone, your health it's only your business. When you have family it's moral issue. You should take care of your health for most important people in your life and for you if your life is important for you and you love yourself. I am interested in science and psychology, I care about the health of loved ones, and it is impossible to reconcile this with preferences which I don't want to identify and can't change them. I don't want any more relationship or fall in love, but if I could change my preferences to healthy, I would dream of love. NO! If you think that, you lost your life. Most people appreciate health when they lose it and obese it's a simple way to make yourself a hell of your own. You can change your life if you really want it. Slimming begins with a psychologist, leads through a diet, and ends with caring for movement and fitness.

Candice Huffine

It's me, lavisso. I forgot my password. You don't understand... My preferences are unhealthy. Caring for health is the most important thing in live. It's our moral duty, especially in love. Love is taking care on partner and healthy person wants healthy partner. When she's fat I may taking drugs without guilty and we can't have children because we can't teach them moral values and habits. If I accept it, I would have to give up being myself. She has a problem with obese so she must solve it. There are a lot of ways to this. If she doesn't, she's not worth being with her with love relationship. It's only sex contract but not love. This preferences prevent a true love relationship. I still love her and that's why it's so difficult. In this case, love is excluded from sex. If you have this fetish, you can be i sex relationship without personal development and higher spirituality. Once I dreamed of love, and I probably accepted the lack of chance. For this reason, I also have no friendship because I don't want to talk about myself with my friends anymore. Nothing will help, and I have reconciled with other adversities before because they are trivial. I'm cold because of that. It's good for me but I have no arguments to stop taking unhealthy substances (world without love and lack of opportunities for joint development it's awful if you don't have drugs). That way, I don't hurt anyone and it's just my business. Being in a relationship where I would have sexually fulfilled, I would have to hurt a girl and lie to myself (it's not possible because I already know it). I don't have dreams anymore and that's good for me. Mind and values overwhelm primitive drives.