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Ashley Graham


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20 hours ago, MalMfan said:

I hear you, not hard at all to use imgur for photos and gfycat for gifs but there's so many people on curvage that use these slow sites for sharing which I don't understand.

There's got to be a reason, right? I cannot understand this, absolute shit image sharing sites. 

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I understand the disappointment, but I doubt the mental well-being of young impressionable girls is the reason you're disappointed in her weight-loss. This is a kink site for curvy women. I doubt you're here jerking off because of what great role models these women are in the body positivity movement. 

It's OK to say to yourself "I preferred her bigger" and move on without tearing her down for her motives. 

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1 hour ago, John Smith said:

This is not about tearing her down, but about how much she really dig into the cause or not at all and if not, hust why still keeping up the pretense?

I don't think body positivity = be fat, it's about accepting that your body doesn't define you, and that you should have the right to feel beautiful at any size. She probably physically feels better slimmer--I know I do. And just because she lost weight doesn't mean she's a normal sized model. She's still a thick girl. See pics. 

I don't mean to get into an internet fight, I just try to stay aware of our role as FAs in this community. It's just as bad to get on someone's case for losing weight as it is to get on someone's case for gaining weight. We're not in the right just because we have a preference for women leading the body positivity movement. I think using the body positivity movement as a front for your disappointment with someone's transformation is wrong. 

I'm open to conversation BTW, again I don't mean to fight about this, and recognize I could be totally wrong. I just want to make sure we're being careful and not dismissing someone's role in a really important movement because they're not as fat as they used to be. That's as bad for society as fat shaming. 

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