What got you into weight gain or BBW in general?

[David8tor]

I have been curious for awhile now but I suppose I should get off my chest like I did the Spy Balloon fantasy.

For Members: What was your awakening that you love BBWs or women that have curves going on?  

 

For Models: What made you want to gain and wanted to be a BBW? Even if you do not have any plans to get bigger what awaken inside you to pursue your dream? 

[Drum2]

For me it started with liking boobs, big boobs.  OVer time that expanded  to bbw and ssbbw. As I got older trog HS/college  my lovof big boobs seemed to evolve into like  big belly, butt, hips,legs arms. 

Im not  model nor is my wife. But she likes being big.  I thnk liking being big is important. It as helps whn you have a partner that adores your size. It helps wheen it coms to being big and getting bigger.

[Buffet Belly Stuffer]

For me, the origins of liking bigger people started in childhood. I was always drawn to cartoons that featured weight gain and fat people…though of course I didn’t understand why at the time.

It all clicked in high school. I found myself being drawn to chubby girls…especially those wearing crop tops and low rise jeans (ah, the early/mid-2000s). Then I discovered the various websites, forums, and artwork dedicated to BBWs and feedism in general. Then there was no turning back. 😅

[extra_m13]

the forbidden the rebelious the better looking curvy ladies and then, when i experience it. i enjoy the most, by far, grabbing a love handle and rolls than a fit waits , i prefer by far feeling legs with lots of cellulite than plain lean bodies. so much sexier 

[David8tor]

6 hours ago, Drum2 said:

For me it started with liking boobs, big boobs.  OVer time that expanded  to bbw and ssbbw. As I got older trog HS/college  my lovof big boobs seemed to evolve into like  big belly, butt, hips,legs arms. 

Im not  model nor is my wife. But she likes being big.  I thnk liking being big is important. It as helps whn you have a partner that adores your size. It helps wheen it coms to being big and getting bigger.

Very interesting, being supportive of someone who is big makes folks very confident and comfortable in one’s skin. I do feel that it happens slowly then and once we are around more mature audiences we can finally admit we love adore big women 😄

[David8tor]

4 hours ago, Buffet Belly Stuffer said:

For me, the origins of liking bigger people started in childhood. I was always drawn to cartoons that featured weight gain and fat people…though of course I didn’t understand why at the time.

It all clicked in high school. I found myself being drawn to chubby girls…especially those wearing crop tops and low rise jeans (ah, the early/mid-2000s). Then I discovered the various websites, forums, and artwork dedicated to BBWs and feedism in general. Then there was no turning back. 😅

Ah yes cartoons! I feel a lot of people awakenings were from cartoons 😄 I know I started liking expansions content thanks to them. There were not a whole lot of them during my high school years. Even so I was a bit shy to admit I liked them due to the mentality if I liked anyone, I would be laughed out. 
 

I never gave up on liking them though despite not being able to express myself that I had the hots for them. Now that I am older I am happy that I still into them. I would watch bbws videos on YouTube, have some on my phone and then I discover this site as a gold mine. I have no regrets loving these fetishes and big women 🥰

[David8tor]

4 hours ago, extra_m13 said:

the forbidden the rebelious the better looking curvy ladies and then, when i experience it. i enjoy the most, by far, grabbing a love handle and rolls than a fit waits , i prefer by far feeling legs with lots of cellulite than plain lean bodies. so much sexier 

Ooo,  curvy ladies have been shunned for too long thanks to movies and media 😒. I do love it when a woman shows off their love handles. I am a big guy myself and find it flattering when women want to place their hands on my handles. You are going in the right direction 🥰

[W4E]

While I cannot pinpoint the exact moment, I remember finding myself more interested in bigger women early on, starting in school when my class had a relief teacher for a semester. While not a BBW or anything whatever like that, simply bigger than other teachers, I was struck by her humility and also by her winning personality; I must have made an association then with these qualities and bigger women which carries over to today. It's not infallible, of course!

Later, however, I had an art teacher who was a bona fide BBW; not that I knew the term at the time. Again, like the relief teacher, she was deeply kind, funny and vibrant; and she was the first person I can remember seeing who properly 'waddled', her big belly leading. The way she'd smile as she went along on yard duty, her cheeks flushed, and the big, booming laugh of hers: it was beautiful.  

This piqued my interest, I suppose, so naturally, I found my way to forums like this one and others. 

[David8tor]

18 hours ago, W4E said:

While I cannot pinpoint the exact moment, I remember finding myself more interested in bigger women early on, starting in school when my class had a relief teacher for a semester. While not a BBW or anything whatever like that, simply bigger than other teachers, I was struck by her humility and also by her winning personality; I must have made an association then with these qualities and bigger women which carries over to today. It's not infallible, of course!

Later, however, I had an art teacher who was a bona fide BBW; not that I knew the term at the time. Again, like the relief teacher, she was deeply kind, funny and vibrant; and she was the first person I can remember seeing who properly 'waddled', her big belly leading. The way she'd smile as she went along on yard duty, her cheeks flushed, and the big, booming laugh of hers: it was beautiful.  

This piqued my interest, I suppose, so naturally, I found my way to forums like this one and others. 

Ah I see. I do feel teachers during our time in school, teachers have made us feel something we have not felt before. I had some sort of a similar experience, one of my teachers was starting to gain weight. 

Because one month she was a bit slim, but then as the weeks went by. She started growing a belly and love handles. It was cute to see her pull her shirt down since she was getting a bit bigger for her outfits. She looked a bit embarrass when she would have to pull her shirt down to hide her exposed belly.

I wanted to tell her that “I am not sure why, but you are just looking so stunning “  I did not though since I did not want to be poke fun of that I am enjoying my teachers weight gaining and possibly make the situation awkward 😅

It really does sound like she would have been an amazing woman to be around with a personality like you described and she slowly made you have your awakening for appreciation of BBW 😄

[happenedsofat]

mine started with pregnant bellies. there was something that turned me on soooo hard (well, still does) about a big pregnant belly. i can remember searching pregnant porn for the first time and just absolutely falling in love. that evolved to big bellies....bbws....ssbbws....and the rest is history 😉 i get asked all the time how far along i am - and it never ceases to get me excited every single time. i get even more turned on by the fact that the people around me start to feel awkward for me, knowing im just super obese....gotta go play now hehehe 😘

[Bellyhanglover]

When I was 8 I got interested in the numbers on the scale.

Found out it had a limit at 130kgs, and was wondering what would happen next.

[LusciousNichole CLIPS]

So I didn’t even know about feederism at all till I got with my at the time boyfriend (now feeder/husband) I knew he was into thicker girls but I didn’t think anything of it he would constantly be taking me out to eat and we would have eating contests or see who could chug the most soda I was pretty skinny when we first but by 5months together I gained around 30-40lbs I was starting to worry about my body and how I was letting myself go and asked him if he still thought I was beautiful like this and he opened up to me about how he’s been purposely getting me to eat a lot and taking me out to eat because he wanted me to get bigger and thought I was absolutely gorgeous with all my rolls and little bit of pudge I was getting so I started to get more comfortable in my skin he would constantly be rubbing and squishing my tummy fat and rest of my body absolutely worshipping me and I was honestly kinda starting to like the idea of getting bigger and giving him more to love on! I also started to enjoy playing with my squish and it’s kinda like a stress reliever and the bigger I got the more powerful and beautiful I felt!Now I’m not stopping lol🥰

[sconesy73]

On 5/24/2023 at 7:44 AM, happenedsofat said:

mine started with pregnant bellies. there was something that turned me on soooo hard (well, still does) about a big pregnant belly. i can remember searching pregnant porn for the first time and just absolutely falling in love. that evolved to big bellies....bbws....ssbbws....and the rest is history 😉 i get asked all the time how far along i am - and it never ceases to get me excited every single time. i get even more turned on by the fact that the people around me start to feel awkward for me, knowing im just super obese....gotta go play now hehehe 😘

Are you interested in women on general or is it just a big belly attraction thing? 

Genuinely interested 🙂

[sconesy73]

3 hours ago, LusciousNichole said:

So I didn’t even know about feederism at all till I got with my at the time boyfriend (now feeder/husband) I knew he was into thicker girls but I didn’t think anything of it he would constantly be taking me out to eat and we would have eating contests or see who could chug the most soda I was pretty skinny when we first but by 5months together I gained around 30-40lbs I was starting to worry about my body and how I was letting myself go and asked him if he still thought I was beautiful like this and he opened up to me about how he’s been purposely getting me to eat a lot and taking me out to eat because he wanted me to get bigger and thought I was absolutely gorgeous with all my rolls and little bit of pudge I was getting so I started to get more comfortable in my skin he would constantly be rubbing and squishing my tummy fat and rest of my body absolutely worshipping me and I was honestly kinda starting to like the idea of getting bigger and giving him more to love on! I also started to enjoy playing with my squish and it’s kinda like a stress reliever and the bigger I got the more powerful and beautiful I felt!Now I’m not stopping lol🥰

I love this. Honestly, I think it's brilliant. Your partner must have been scared to actually open up and be honest in basically saying "I like you fat" knowing that most women would run a mile if they heard that...

So, hats off to him for having the stones to be honest, and good on you for hearing him out 🙂

And the results are simply perfect 🥰 

You look gorgeous and happy, your husband will be having the time of his life.

Congratulations to the both of you for sharing something like this together😊👍

[widegirllover]

I have been an FA and BBW and SSBBW lover since the second or third grade.  I remember seeing the munchies commercial ("here eat this, here eat that, soon you're not just board, you're FAT, he he he") on TV and getting so hard and turned on I had to leave the room.  Then I had a crush on the fat girl in my third grade class.  One day I saw her mom, and she was massive with a huge, wide booty.  I used to fantasize that I would go over the fat girl's house to play after school and her mom would sit on me and make me eat junk food and then make me fat.  Since then I have always thought fat women were just so hot.  The only fantasy or scenario hotter is seeing a thin or regular sized woman become, cubby, then fat and then really fat.  To see that transformation into a whole new hot woman is just such an erotic scenario for me.

[sconesy73]

For me, my initial love of big women was my Nan - and that's not in a sexual way in case any deviants are reading...

As a young kid, I spent loads of time with my Nan- after school, weekends, holidays etc. She was a proper 'Disney' old lady- hair in a bun, always baking, only short, very friendly, always happy and very plump! 

So as a child, I associated plump people with being happy. I liked being happy so naturally I liked big people!

That's where it started for me.

As I got older, I always preferred the curvy girls to the skinny ones. 

I mention it in my profile- I love big women in the way some people love art or architecture. It's not a sex or a porn thing- it's a genuine love and appreciation of big and beautiful bodies 💖

This is me 😊

[Bbwyoda CLIPS]

I never aimed or tried to be as big as I am I think pcos took a huge part in my weight gain! But I just went with it and became who I am today! I have never disliked how I looked or debated my self ect and I’ve found ways to love the body I’m in x

[Belly worshipper]

For me it was for as I could remember. Especially as a kid either watching TV shows with the "weight gain" episode. To just being surrounded by fat girls growing up at school. Then I remember I was probably in maybe 6th grade that I started to look up fat women online. That definitely pushed it into overdrive. Then fast forward to latter half of 7th grade and  8th grade I had a crush on this one girl who had a noticeable gut and another who was definitely the bottom heavy pear type. Then into adulthood websites like here and Deviantart took it to where I am today. 

[Belly worshipper]

Case in point, I'm essentially lifelong FA at the current age of 25

[happenedsofat]

On 5/25/2023 at 9:02 AM, Bellyhanglover said:

When I was 8 I got interested in the numbers on the scale.

Found out it had a limit at 130kgs, and was wondering what would happen next.

damn...that's hot as hell! scales have always been such a mixture of terrifying & a turn on for me!

I cant really describe it. Remember when you'd go to the doctor and they would have to slide that bar over by chunks of weight?!!  I can remember my doctor starting off at a super low number, I swear she did it on purpose so I would have to sit there being tortured while she slid it from section to section....the noise of it just reminding me of how fat I was...and each time I would visit, and still do to this day, I just keep getting fatter and fatter!!

 

This would literally be me....

[Guest richiewales]

My partner put on a lot of weight after the b**s came along, and I just loved how she looked. It kinda snowballed from there for me. 

[Milhause]

I had a teacher in middle school that had a big belly, big boobs, double chin and she was always sitting. My desk had a great side view and that’s the first time I remember really being like “oh this feeling is different.”

Probably not a coincidence that a gal with a big belly and bossy attitude is my kryptonite 

[Voluptuouslover]

I have been into fat and weight gain as long as I can remember.  It has increased as time hs gone on with regard to the amount of weight and other areas.

Loved watching my chunky Gf’s gain weight 

loved watching my chunkier yet gf’s gain even more weight

Loved watching them over eat and encouraged them

Watching my wife Gain weight was the ultimate until I accidentally and then intentionally gained along with her - yet never verbally discussed it.  Just watched her getting fatter while I was intentionally fattening myself - along with her help it seemed.  This was the absolute ultimate.

 

[sconesy73]

3 hours ago, Milhause said:

 

Probably not a coincidence that a gal with a big belly and bossy attitude is my kryptonite 

You'd get on well with my partner..

 

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[Ruby Addams BBW CLIPS]

It's all the Gordo's fault. I was an innocent chubby girl until he showed me i could eat whatever I want whenever I wanted and he will desire every bite and every kilo i gain. That made me want to grow, he became my husband, i became his feedee. And i love every minute of this lifestyle ❤️🐽