Reddit Doxxing/Harassment Nightmare

[Guest nonrelated]

I actually wanted to respond to this thread as soon as I saw it, then I finally found the original Reddit thread and got so heated and overwhelmed, I quite saying anything. And yet then, I couldn't resist saying something eventually.

It's actually funny how pathetic Redditors are. They judge as weird, out of our minds, disgusting, even evil for our preferences - it's all pure projection. Reddit is filled to the brim with the most prideful midwit scum who think they're profound geniuses. Its reputation precedes it rightly. (They're also absolutely packed with porn-addict pedos btw)

And here's a twist of cruel irony: In their site's culture, the "steam valve" for acceptable targets of any major group for hatred are pretty much fat people (and maybe Russians). Making fun of any other group is Verboten and you'll get banned in a heartbeat. But GOD FORBID you like people who are a little bit softer. 

I know I'm biased, but what makes me most furious in all this is how many of these same people will act "concerned" for women with Eating Disorders but then end up encouraging it in various ways, because their porn-fried middling IQ brains egged on by the very format of the site itself ("upvotes" suppress deviating from the mob thought) can't think of anything original to save their nihilistic lives.

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That all being said, I'm terribly sorry for all this GG. I truly hate saying this, but in a sense this kind of thing was inevitable. The Internet is still the Internet even in the age of Social Media. You put your face out there - I am NOT blaming you, but this incident reminds me a lot of what happened to "ffafeed" and chubbychiquita, and many others who post their face. Men, especially ones with porn-fried brains, do crazy evil things when enslaved by their passions. It's the nature of the beast. And I don't know what to tell you honestly beyond the best "damage control" you can do is be sincere with everything and brush it off boldly, like the "Yes Chad" meme. Let it ride out.

 

Side note: It's hilarious yet a twinge depressing how people who don't understand this fetish at all (especially normie Redditors) instantly end up thinking you must be growing for money and/or attention. Like yes you're a model, but the thought of being aroused by body fat is just totally alien to them. It's just so nasty to immediately sink to such primal depths though. Cursed website. May Reddit be utterly destroyed soon.

[not a real member]

I’m really not good at this , but I feel your pain inside your beautiful 🌈💕soul , inside , your body, but you have the power inside of you too over come , and stand up , and defeat!!! The bullies , and the , trolls and there , pitiful , scum world 🌎 that they live in , and stop it forever!!! So we can all ,live our lives , without the bullies and without the trolls , so we can all live in a better and much more beautiful and peaceful✌️ place , for everyone, to live in , No more bullies and No more trolls,  in this peaceful ✌️world 🌎ever again !!!       Just like HE - MAN and SHERA,   I HAVE THE POWER!!!                               P. S. You have my love 🥰💕 and my , respect ✊ because I want all of your dreams and wishes too come true 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️💕✌️

[not a real member]

30 minutes ago, nonrelated said:

I actually wanted to respond to this thread as soon as I saw it, then I finally found the original Reddit thread and got so heated and overwhelmed, I quite saying anything. And yet then, I couldn't resist saying something eventually.

It's actually funny how pathetic Redditors are. They judge as weird, out of our minds, disgusting, even evil for our preferences - it's all pure projection. Reddit is filled to the brim with the most prideful midwit scum who think they're profound geniuses. Its reputation precedes it rightly. (They're also absolutely packed with porn-addict pedos btw)

And here's a twist of cruel irony: In their site's culture, the "steam valve" for acceptable targets of any major group for hatred are pretty much fat people (and maybe Russians). Making fun of any other group is Verboten and you'll get banned in a heartbeat. But GOD FORBID you like people who are a little bit softer. 

I know I'm biased, but what makes me most furious in all this is how many of these same people will act "concerned" for women with Eating Disorders but then end up encouraging it in various ways, because their porn-fried middling IQ brains egged on by the very format of the site itself ("upvotes" suppress deviating from the mob thought) can't think of anything original to save their nihilistic lives.

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That all being said, I'm terribly sorry for all this GG. I truly hate saying this, but in a sense this kind of thing was inevitable. The Internet is still the Internet even in the age of Social Media. You put your face out there - I am NOT blaming you, but this incident reminds me a lot of what happened to "ffafeed" and chubbychiquita, and many others who post their face. Men, especially ones with porn-fried brains, do crazy evil things when enslaved by their passions. It's the nature of the beast. And I don't know what to tell you honestly beyond the best "damage control" you can do is be sincere with everything and brush it off boldly, like the "Yes Chad" meme. Let it ride out.

 

Side note: It's hilarious yet a twinge depressing how people who don't understand this fetish at all (especially normie Redditors) instantly end up thinking you must be growing for money and/or attention. Like yes you're a model, but the thought of being aroused by body fat is just totally alien to them. It's just so nasty to immediately sink to such primal depths though. Cursed website. May Reddit be utterly destroyed soon.

I strongly agree , all the way ✊ your comment is awesome 👏👍 GG . Deserves the best !!! Always ❤️👍

[not a real member]

7 hours ago, Jersey Ghoul 666 said:

I think this is every fetish models worst nightmare. When I saw the post about this on Instagram my heart broke for you, on your birthday even. I’m so sorry this has happened. 
 

My only advice is to keep your chin up, keep your head held high, despite what people outside the fetish will say, you’re making money, you’re successful, and if they’re not feeding, fucking, or funding you, their opinion ultimately doesn’t matter. 
 

It’s much more complicated when you’re worried about your family finding out, and when someone threatened to out me last year, I just came out before they could. I don’t know if that’s an option for you or if you feel comfortable doing it. But being open with my friends and family about my work and my art has been liberating, and it leaves ass holes on the internet with less power over you. 
 

You’ve been on my mind since I found out about this, we’re all here to support you 

solidarity babe 

That was a  very , sweet,  and awesome 👏 comment  jersey Ghoul 666 ❤️💕 GG deserves the best!!!👍❤️💕 bring her!  back ! So she can enjoy her self  , 🥰in life,  what she loves❤️ ,and what , makes her  happy 😊 🥰❤️💕.             

[inkiighost CLIPS]

I’m so sorry that this happened to you. Please make sure you are taking care of yourself.💜

[White Wolf]

On 1/13/2022 at 9:28 AM, CurvyGothGF said:

Hey everyone, 

This will be a long post, but I feel it needs to be made. Unfortunately, I’ve been laying awake most of the night (on my birthday, no less) dealing with some pretty awful stuff. As many of you already know, I’ve been doxxed on Reddit. A post of b&a weight gain pics of me from a fetish sub was shared to a very mainstream one (with a couple million followers) last night. I sent multiple messages to the mods requesting removal, as the post was in clear violations of that subreddits rules because they did not blur my username (or the name of the original wg fetish sub I posted in). But I quickly learned that the mods themselves were in on the bullying and even sharing my private messages that I send to them on other scummy sites to make fun of me. So, In an act of panic and desperation, I asked everyone on my page to report the post and try to get it removed before my friends, family etc from real life potentially saw it. Meanwhile, I was able to get some empathy from the guy who made the post and he willingly removed it for me. Well, unfortunately it was far from over. The removal of the post caused a huge backlash because they felt I was “brigading” and that I “bullied” the guy into taking it down (I did NOT).
 

So then another person re-posted the same thing to the same subreddit, and as people where so butthurt about me wanting to protect my identity, this new post BLEW UP. All of this has led to 30K+ upvotes on fetish pics with my face showing on a very public sub, and is now trending in “hot posts” on the main page of Reddit internationally. Where thousands of people have left hateful and cruel comments about both myself personally and the fat fetish community as a whole.  I’m beyond terrified and devastated. The bullying I can handle to a degree, but the doxxing I cannot. for now, I’ve deleted my Reddit, made my ig and Twitter private and will be laying low for a while. I don’t know what this means for the future of GGGF. I don’t know if or how pong I’ll continue to make content. I’m here for now and will continue to upload the couple of clips I’ve already filmed. But any support or advice is always appreciated and welcomed. Thank you all for the love and support you’ve shown me throughout my one short year here 💔 

Not really sure if this will help out at all but if you have proof of those mods not only ignoring your requests but openly mocking your private messages with them, try sending those in to the Reddit admin team. I’m not entirely sure that will help out I either the pain this has caused you not do I know if it’ll prevent similar things happening to others but it’s worth a shot. 

[PreyToGod]

Sorry this happened.

Almost every feedee I've ever spoken to has had something similar happen, although definitely not on this scale.

It sucks that we can't live in a world where we can just indulge in our kinks that aren't affecting anyone else, without others having to try and mock, torment, expose you for some strange pleasure they obviously get from it 

Just do whatever you feel comfortable doing from now on 

 

Also reddits full of incel dweebs and pseudo intellectual moralistic scumbags anyway so it's rich of them to criticise a kink so heavily although I can't say I'm surprised 

 

[bionaughtical]

It's really disappointing how many oblivious or toxic people are in our community.

 

Sorry this happened and hope things end up working out somehow...

[JP_Bittenbinder]

3 hours ago, bionaughtical said:

It's really disappointing how many oblivious or toxic people are in our community.

 

Sorry this happened and hope things end up working out somehow...

To clarify, it (almost certainly) wasn't anyone in the community. It was some incel who found the weight gain before/after subreddit and posted a completely unredacted screenshot containing GGGF's username and face to a popular bullying subreddit.

[BuzzcutBarbie]

I'm new here, but I just wanted to extend my sympathies! It's good to see that there are so many supportive people in this community. I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this, and I hope that those jerks stub their toes on every corner wall they walk past!

Sending love and positive energy. ❤️

[Guest nonrelated]

Oh boy we're at the "sending positive energy" stage, that's how you know we're in deep sh!t. 

 

 

(My theory is best - Max Damage Control time. It never happened, and if it did,  good whatever, let's discuss something else.)

[BuzzcutBarbie]

6 minutes ago, nonrelated said:

Oh boy we're at the "sending positive energy" stage, that's how you know we're in deep sh!t. 

 

 

(My theory is best - Max Damage Control time. It never happened, and if it did,  good whatever, let's discuss something else.)

I agree that damage control is obviously warranted and the best course of action. However, I also think that it doesn't hurt to show kindness and compassion. Since I have nothing of value to add so far as damage control advice, I figured I might as well show support. 😊

[Chipmunk3]

I’m sorry this happened to you. That whole subreddit is gross. You are so strong for fighting through this! We are here for you! 💜